Not our lucky day

Louise · Post by **Louise** » Sat Nov 30, 2002 3:42 pm

Hi Becky - i'm so sad to hear your news, words cannot make it any better but I'm thinking of you. Take care and lots of love Louise XXX

andreaj · Post by **andreaj** » Sat Nov 30, 2002 5:45 pm

Becky, I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you at this awful time. Like everyone else has said - take time to grieve, and give yourself (and dh) lots and lots of tlc. Andrea <><

lisa · Post by **lisa** » Sat Nov 30, 2002 8:43 pm

Becky, Just read your reply on the other thread and you are such an inspiration, in fact you are bloody fantastic. We all go through so much during this cycling that our life seems to go on hold. When I failed, I was gutted but I was so relieved that I could be me again. Sounds like you have so many great people around you that have made you feel so special (coz you are) you are bouncing back already and looking to the future so positively. I wish you and dh all the best with your great plans (dream house and a great holiday). LOL lisa xxx

anna13 · Post by **anna13** » Sat Nov 30, 2002 8:58 pm

Dear Becky, I'm so sorry-sending you a big hug and thinking of you and dh.....; Wishing you also the very best for your dream house and holiday. You mentioned your Bridge Bear-that's where I had my IVF(3rd) attempt too;Me and dh are going for the 4th one there in January. LOL, Anna.

becky · Post by **becky** » Sat Nov 30, 2002 10:36 pm

Hi girls Lisa - just wanted to send you the biggest hug in the world...your special words made me cry - not a bad thing..just made me realise..that yes.you are right..I am strong..and positive..but so are we all in this special club..and in a kind of funny way I never want to leave this gang of mates. Would love to meet you all one day - anyone live near Gatwick? Talking about Bridge Bear - the Bridge Center are fantasic, really nice people. love becky b

caz · Post by **caz** » Sun Dec 01, 2002 10:13 am

Becky - evryone has already said this - but I think your attitude is totally fantastic. I completely agree with things like the house - dh and I have been thinking about dream house for ages and putting it off, because of the baby thing - which is absolute b*llocks now that I really let myself think about it. We have put too much on hold for this. You are SO SO right to live for what you have, have fun, start again when you feel like it and in the meantime make an exciting life plan! I think there is a tendency (for me anyway) to look at other peoples lives as ideal (esp when they have kids) - but noones is. Theres probably a chat room somewhere else with people on it, with kids, but with other awful problems.....oh dear am I a bit of a ***** for hoping that there might just be people out there - with kids - who are as pissed off as me at teh moment! oh well - I'll keep these thoughts to you girls!

heather · Post by **heather** » Sun Dec 01, 2002 4:12 pm

becky hun, I am so sorry to hear about your negative result. i really was convinced it was gonna work for you,even though you cheated and tested early!!! I know nothing i say will make it any better, but just wanted to let you know that i'm thinking of you. Have you decided if you are gonna have another go yet? i know you said you were considering adoption. Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Take care of you, my testing bud, Loadsa love, Heather xxx

tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 12:31 pm

Becky So sorry to hear it hasn't worked this time for you. Hang in there, try to enjoy Christmas with loads of booze and stuff you wouldn't have been able to eat and look forward to new hope next year. LOL Terri xx

Lissa · Post by **Lissa** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 1:21 pm

Oh Becky sorry to read your news. Not much to say except have a bloody good Christmas, let you hair down and start afresh in New Year - easily said I know. Lol Lissa xxx

alison p · Post by **alison p** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 5:03 pm

Becky, Just to add to everyone else's messages of how sorry I am that it didn't work for you. Buy that nice house, have a fantastic Christmas and forget all about it until 2003 (which I know isn't that far away). Life is so unfair, but I'm sure that we will all be lucky one day and have the one thing that everyone on this site dreams of. Alison P xx

cath · Post by **cath** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 5:50 pm

becki i know excatly how you feel and i'm really sorry try not to get to down about it [easier said than done i know!] take care of yourself love cath

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