Good luck Michelle and Julie

amanda · Post by **amanda** » Sun Dec 01, 2002 8:31 pm

Hi Girls Like you both, I test tomorrow. I wish you both the very best of luck. Its been a long 2ww. On one hand its been exciting thinking we all could be carrying our much deserved babies, on the other hand the wait is terrifying, its frightening what tomorrow will bring. Thinking of you both. Amanda

suzannemorris · Post by **suzannemorris** » Sun Dec 01, 2002 9:10 pm

Good luck to you all for tomorrow. With all the excitement of Heather and Becky testing last week, I hadn't realised that you were all due to test so soon after. Here's hoping to us all having some really good news to read tomorrow night! Wishing you all the very best, Suzanne.x

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Sun Dec 01, 2002 10:39 pm

Hi Amanda I wish I was testing tomorrow - I don't actually test till Thursday! Wishing you both loads and loads of luck for tomorrow. I'll be logging on regularly to see your results. Thinking of you both. Love Michelle x

Sarah30 · Post by **Sarah30** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 9:11 am

Good luck you three - will be keeping it all crossed for you. sarah

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tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 3:59 pm

Girls, keeping eveything crossed for you. Any news yet ???? Lots of hugs and positive vibes for those tests Terri xxxx

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 7:04 pm

Hi Amanda and Julie Any news yet - dying to hear. Keeping everything crossed. Love, Michelle (I test on Thursday!)

julie mins · Post by **julie mins** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 9:23 pm

Hi Amanda I am afraid my news is not good. Had blood test this morning and the result was negative. I had a feeling it would be but it is still devastating news. Just feeling really numb and sad and empty and confused and angry etc etc, until I don't really know how I am feeling. I think the wine is now adding to that confusion! Dh and I are just having lots of cuddles and trying not to think about it too much. I am going to try and book a night away for us next Saturday just to spend a bit of special time together. At least we have our 4 frosties as our last hope, after that I think its the end of the road for us. Amanda thanks for your best wishes - how are you?? Michelle very best of luck for Thursday - we could do with some good news - I will be waiting. Anyway off to have some cointreau and chocolates, I am hoping that they will ease the pain in the short term.

Nina1 · Post by **Nina1** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 9:32 pm

Julie, I'm so sorry. I can't bear this, it's awful. You will get through it - look after yourselves and each other. love, Nina

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 10:00 pm

Julie - this is so horribly unfair - I am so sorry for you and dh. Going away together for a night is a lovely thing to do and something to look forward to. This is my first attempt and I will be devastated like you if I get a negative on Thursday....you are so sweet to even think of me on such a horrible day. I'm sending you lots of love and a huge cyber hug. Please stay in touch - we're here to support you always. Love, Michelle x

becky · Post by **becky** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 10:20 pm

So sorry to hear that you have also joined the -ive club..we are not doing too well lately hey...seems like all the good luck comes and then all the bad luck. I felt like my world had ended on Friday when we tested -ive and our world has changed so much since - we are even putting an offer in on a new house in the morning, accepted a wedding invite in Australia for end of next year and held off some flights to New York in Feb for valentines. Okay..so we will no money for IVF for the next 10 or so years...but hey we are guaranteed a great time. Take care of yourself..and believe me you will be soaking in hot bubble baths and drinking wine before you know it..must say the worse bit is the AF - mine is killing me! Take care and I am here if you need a chat or need some advice. love becky b

Alison · Post by **Alison** » Mon Dec 02, 2002 11:00 pm

Hi Julie - so sorry to hear your news. As Becky says, we don't seem to be doing so well lately. Very best wishes for Amanda and Michelle, Alison x

tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Tue Dec 03, 2002 9:10 am

Julie, so sorry. I tested negative 3 weeks ago and all I can say is that it does get better. Sending loads of love your way Terri xxxxx

suzannemorris · Post by **suzannemorris** » Tue Dec 03, 2002 5:19 pm

Julie, so sorry to read your sad news, you and DH take care and try to stay positive if you can. Beckyb, I think your right to focus your energies elsewhere if you can, the trouble with this is that it's all consuming. I was chatting with a friend today who has been really supportive to me whilst I've been TTC, and I've decided that while DH and me have no ties, we ought to be getting the best that we can out of life. We're going away for Christmas (to avoid the in-laws), but I couldn't persuade him to spend it in New York (he thinks Osama will be waiting for us to get off the plane, I think)where I desperately want to go, so I've TOLD him that we'll have a spring break there as well! Bless him, he just sits there nodding. The problem though with us is that we're such a couple of homebodies that having kids wouldn't really affect our social life as such, but still if arranging a few nice trips can take our mind off our troubles for a while then it's got to be worth it. Good luck with the new house. Take care both of you, Suzanne.x

heather · Post by **heather** » Tue Dec 03, 2002 9:26 pm

julie, so sorry to hear your news. hope you are taking care of you, and hubbs is pampering you lots. Love, heather xxx

julie mins · Post by **julie mins** » Tue Dec 03, 2002 9:29 pm

Thanks everyone for all your messages, it really helps to know you are out there knowing how I feel. I have been a lot better today and have used my energies on cleaning the house which had been totally abandoned for the last three weeks or so. Have also done lots of christmas shopping - everyone is going to be so pleased this year - I have gone rather mad but it made me feel so much better!! Got a little upset tonight as dh is away and I have been sat here brooding into my wine. My consolation is my wonderful 3 year old little boy, Sam who is the light of my life. He is however wondering why his mummy has gone completely bonkers and keeps giving him endless kisses and cuddles and he has had rather a lot of treats over the past few days. A big thank you to everyone on here for giving me the strength to get through and best wishes for everyone on the 2ww - the 13th seems to be the next big day and not too long for you now Michelle.

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