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Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
heather
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Post by heather »

did the test. negative. knew it would be, but it still hurts like hell. phoned clinic, they said i had an early miscarraige. completely gutted.cant sop crying. <br>heather xxx
Got pregnant with IUI triplets in March 04. One triplet stopped growing at 9 weeks. Gave birth to twin boys in Sep 04, Ciaran sadly lost his fight. Brennan's thriving.Looking to give Brennan a sibling soon.
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Nina1
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Post by Nina1 »

Oh Heather, I'm so, so sorry. I know that you thought that might be the result you'd get, but I know from my own experience that there's always always a chink of hope, and when it's snuffed out like that it feels terrible. Look after youself, girl, and keep posting up here if you need a listening ear.<br>love,<br>Nina
beck
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Post by beck »

hello heather ....i really wished for you this morning !<br>im so sorry, we are around anytime you want to talk.<br>have a little time out for you and dh,<br>lots of love coming your way<br>beck xx
Michelle
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Post by Michelle »

Heather <br>I am so gutted for you both. Horribly cruel and unfair.<br>Sending you lots of love.<br>Michelle x
Lissa
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Post by Lissa »

Heather so sorry to hear you news.<br>Hibernation time - then Christmas.<br>Pain will ease off soon<br>Thinking of you - chin up.<br>Lots of love<br>Lissa<br>xx
tshepher
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Post by tshepher »

Heather,<br>It really is so, so cruel to have your hopes dashed when it looked like your dreams had come true. Nothing I can say really only the pain does get better with time even though it doesn't fell that way at the moment.<br>Lots of Love to you and DH<br>Terri<br>xxxx
fiona_lk
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Post by fiona_lk »

Heather,<br><br>Just wanted to also say how sorry I am. Even though you have an incling things might not be right, it doesn't make it any easier when you know for sure.<br><br>I'm thinking of you, and will be around today if you want to talk.<br><br>My love to you and Pat.<br><br>Fiona xxx
Me:36 Dh:46, ttc 5+yrs, M/F (96% abnormal).
13 unsuccessful Txs From 2000 [4xClomid (NHS), 7xIUI(d)s & ICSI#1 (MFS), ICSI#2 (MFS) Oct 02 (ectopic)] Natural pg Jan 03 m/c 5.5wks
ICSI#3 (CARE) +ve boy (Xander) EDD 21/03/04 - so excited!!!!!!
Sarah30
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Post by Sarah30 »

Hello Heather<br><br>I'm really sorry about your results. Don't know what else say.<br><br>Look after yourselves and enjoy Christmas.<br><br>Love Sarah x
amanda
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Post by amanda »

Oh Heather, so very, very sorry. Amanda
Wicked Lady
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Post by Wicked Lady »

Dear Heather <br><br>I am so sorry this has happened to you and your dh. To be told your pregnant with your mind running away with itself on baby clothes and furture plans, and then for the bleeding to start and to be left alone over the weekend to deal with it while having to wait for wednesday only to have your hopes dashed must be absolutely agonising. I can't think of anything worse and wish I could do something to help your pain. We are all thinking of you and sending our love. Come back when your ready.<br><br>Lots of Love to you both<br>Nicola xxx
alison p
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Post by alison p »

Heather,<br><br>Life's so unfair isn't it? I can't believe how many of us there are on this website who've had bad news recently. However low you are feeling at the moment, time does help to heal the wounds. Have yourself a great Christmas with your DH and look positively towards 2003. Wishing all the best,<br><br>Alison P
Tracey D
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Post by Tracey D »

Oh Heather,<br><br>I am so sorry. I thought of you as soon as I woke up this morning and kept everything crossed that you would get a positive. I don't know what else to say to you lovey. If you want a chat at any time, post a message and I'll be there to talk to you.<br><br>Lots of cuddles<br><br>Tracey D
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Post by suzannemorris »

Heather,<br><br>so sorry to read you bad news, I can only reiterate what all the others have said.<br><br>Take care of yourselves,<br><br>Suzanne.x
woppa
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Post by woppa »

sorry babe ! It will be your turn soon<br>love<br>woppa<br>xxxxxxx
sammy
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Post by sammy »

heather,<br>thinking of you both,really sorry.Take care of each otherlove sammyxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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