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ogr1
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Post by ogr1 »

big j

just wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers..
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by Maci05 »

big J

Sorry to be soooo late in sending a response.

I was gutted to read your news and so sad for you both. From reading your posts you sound amazingly together.

I wish you the strength to overcome all the obstacles and for your dream to come true soon.

Thinking of you.

Maci x
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Post by Lana »

hi BigJ. I'm so sorry for your loss...it's so hard when you see that little heart beating and you know that your baby was not just a figment of your imagination. Take time to care for yourself and grieve.
My thoughts are with you. Love Lana
ME: 29 y/o DH 31 y/o
Severe PCOS, endometriosis
2001-ovulation inductions.None achieved.
2002-IVF. severe OHSS. +'ve=Daughter (born May 2003)
2004- cycles 1 & 2 cancelled
2004- FET. Ectopic.
2005-IVF. 1=-'ve, 2=cancelled, 3=-'ve
2006- FET Feb
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Post by sleepyfoy »

Big J.....
I hope that you are doing better and that you can find something during the day to smile about.... Maybe it is your greyhound or something silly on tv.... Be good to yourself- take care.
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Post by taylorjools »

I am very moved by all the wonderful women who have thought of us at this sad time.

Some days are better than others. We are moving on though, and we hope that at least our meeting on Friday at the uni in Kiel will bring us some closure. We will be sad for the rest of our lives, but as Becky shows, that is the sign of a healthy feeling human being, and our hearts are big enough to move on, little sweetie will always be with us.

We will definitely try again, hopefully September, just need to know if there is anything we can do to make things better, and where to go..

Love and hugs to everyone

bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Post by Tiger »

bigJ and mr. bigJ,

Sending you tons of hugs and kisses from Australia and Japan.

xxx xxx xxx

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Post by Sand »

BigJ ... I hope your meeting tomorrow sheds some light / some way forward ... It's good to see your feeling a little better. By Sep we want you to be ready to Kick Ass again !!! let us know what happens tomorrow.

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by taylorjools »

Thank you again for all of your support. I have posted the update on a new thread to try and look forward.

Love and hugs

bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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ogr1
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Post by ogr1 »

you are going to look forward and your little sweetie will be right there with you :!:
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by taylorjools »

I went for a walk with the doggies when we got back today, I was on my own in the woods. This wonderful dragonfly, really huge about 8 inches long, bright yellow/green kept flying around us..

I have decided to call our little swetie dragonfly in my heart, I am sure she was there in the woods today, and said, you see there is hope and I am here with you...

Love bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Post by ogr1 »

you are right.. our little ones come to us in different ways..
i kept seeing a butterfly..

i am glad that you got to see your dragonfly...
hang onto this momnet when you start to feel down..
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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