Been away for a bit . . . . . . . .

Eve_ · Post by **Eve_** » Tue Dec 10, 2002 6:05 pm

Well hello to everyone! Have had a break from drugs, IVF and the whole rollercoaster bit! BUT . . .started taking the down reg. drugs over a week ago - so looking at EC very early New Year(ish). The bit I'm struggling with at the moment (and need help with, is . .. ) I got pregnant earlier this year following IVF but at 8 week scan heartbeat had stopped & I had to have an ERCP. My sister fell pregnant at the same time, and our due dates were 2 days apart! Now she is so happy and big with bump. I feel so dreadful what can I do. Everywhere i look are pregnant people my best friend is celebrating 12 weeks mark this week, even 2 girls in the office are pregnant. I feel like I am going mad, and the drugs don't help!!!! HELP Eve xxx

woppa · Post by **woppa** » Tue Dec 10, 2002 6:50 pm

I can totally relate to what you are saying. I had to endure a phone call from a colleagues partner today as he announced that she had just given birth. I am totally gutted and trying to smile all the way through it but I feel like screaming!! Then another colleague asked me if I would organise the whip round for flowers and I replied "NO" !! Is it just me or do people not think that maybe following our recent miscarriage the last thing I want to discuss and organise is someones else baby pressie. I totally think they just think we had a medical proceedure that went wrong and not the loss of our prescious much wanted baby. sorry for totally ranting but just had to let it all out !! woppa xxxxxxxx

tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Wed Dec 11, 2002 12:24 pm

Woppa How insensitive can you get. I think you did so well just answering NO, I think I would have had a bit more to say and the second word would have been OFF!!!!!! People can be so stupid. Hang in there hon LOL Terri xxxxxx