Lumi,
take care. Sending you lots of hugs.
Tiger
Lumi and Sami - Test Tues 12 July
Lumi,
I am so sorry your signs are low, but there is still hope.Just try to rest and stay as positive as possible.
I will be praying for you...
Jenna
I am so sorry your signs are low, but there is still hope.Just try to rest and stay as positive as possible.
I will be praying for you...
Jenna
Jenna-31, DH-38
TTC for 3 years naturally-got pg dec 04 M/C at 6 weeks
Went in for EC, got 25! Only 9 fertilized, not bad!
Total freeze due to OHSS :(
4 beautiful thawed embies transferred on the 13th
Test date moved up to the 22nd!
TTC for 3 years naturally-got pg dec 04 M/C at 6 weeks
Went in for EC, got 25! Only 9 fertilized, not bad!
Total freeze due to OHSS :(
4 beautiful thawed embies transferred on the 13th
Test date moved up to the 22nd!
Oh Lumi, That was not the news we were expecting. A week seems like a long time to wait. Keep us updated dear. Hugs to you and dh. try to remain positive your embie can hold on. It will. x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Sami - I haven't seen your news update today. I hope you're okay, and have good news to share.
Sandra x
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Lumi .... I'm so so sorry you are being put through another week of agony. This is so very unfair. You've got to look at it from a positive perspective. There is a chance that everything will be fine. I admit it is a small chance, but it is there. With a straight negative, that would be the end. You're off school now anyway ? You make sure you take the best possible care of yourself over the next few days. As soon as dh is back, get him doing the errands etc and keep resting up.
My thoughts are with you.
Sandra x
My thoughts are with you.
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Thanks so much for the kind words. I have had a good chat with DH (even though it was 4am for him) and we have worked out how we feel. Men like simple yes or no results and this threw him so much!
However, we have realised this is the end of our dream this time (but will be careful, as there is still a slight chance..). But, we have felt some comfort from the fact that the embie did implant for a while and know that this couldnt continue because that embie just wasnt right. At least I know my body can produce hcg, so I feel a step closer (all my problems with hormones had me convinced I wasnt capable of hcg production!)
I have another 4 frosties - so maybe November!? third time lucky?
I really have everything crossed for you, Sami
Lot of love Lumi
However, we have realised this is the end of our dream this time (but will be careful, as there is still a slight chance..). But, we have felt some comfort from the fact that the embie did implant for a while and know that this couldnt continue because that embie just wasnt right. At least I know my body can produce hcg, so I feel a step closer (all my problems with hormones had me convinced I wasnt capable of hcg production!)
I have another 4 frosties - so maybe November!? third time lucky?
I really have everything crossed for you, Sami
Lot of love Lumi
me 31 DH 33
3rd FET...BFP...TWIN GIRLS!!!
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3rd FET...BFP...TWIN GIRLS!!!
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Wow Sammy and Lumi - I'm so so sorry for your news - it's so hard to find the words - even though we've all felt very similar pain it's hard to know how to help. I think you're both amazing - you've been so positive throughout and a great example to others. You both deserve it to happen (we all do) it's just maybe this wasn't quite the right time. You will get there in the end - don't make any rush decisions either of you and keep talking if you need support. Similarly - if you need time away from the boards - we'll all be here for you whenever you need us again. Much love, hugs and very best wishes, love Cherylxx
Third ICSI July 2005 BFP and praying it continues!! 6, 8, 12, 13(Nuchal) 20, 25 and 28 week scans successful! Emily Ann Cane born 8.4.06 - more beautiful than we could have imagined
Sammy - I'm so sorry you've had bad news this time. I know just how rubbish you're feeling. Take care of yourself.
Sandra x
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Lumi ... Glad you've been able to chat through with dh, but sorry he's not with you right now. Your words are so true. Stay strong, 'cos you will get there.
(Don't go on any bouncy castles though this week, just in case ..)
Sandra x
(Don't go on any bouncy castles though this week, just in case ..)
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Lumi,
Your outlook is wonderful my dear.
I can't imagine how hard it is to deal with this without DH right there by yourside you poor dear.
But you have all of us crazy ladies here for you anytime you need us.
Love
Joy
Your outlook is wonderful my dear.
I can't imagine how hard it is to deal with this without DH right there by yourside you poor dear.
But you have all of us crazy ladies here for you anytime you need us.
Love
Joy
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Lumi
glad to hear that you and DH have been able to talk it through. I know what you mean about men wanting a clear answer. DH is going nuts at the moment, constantly asking me if this seems like a normal period, is it still spotting. He can't bear the uncertainty.
Sammy, I'll post on the other thread in case you don't see this but I was so sorry to hear that it was a BFN for you. We're not the onew with all the luck, us ET buddies, are we?
take good care of yourselves
Caroline
glad to hear that you and DH have been able to talk it through. I know what you mean about men wanting a clear answer. DH is going nuts at the moment, constantly asking me if this seems like a normal period, is it still spotting. He can't bear the uncertainty.
Sammy, I'll post on the other thread in case you don't see this but I was so sorry to hear that it was a BFN for you. We're not the onew with all the luck, us ET buddies, are we?
take good care of yourselves
Caroline
me - 44, DH - 48
2002 ectopic (natural conception)
2004 1st IVF cancelled following brain seizure
2005 June/July 2nd IVF - negative
2005 Nov FET - postponed cos my Mum died
2006 - Feb FET planned, but neither frostie survived the thaw.
2002 ectopic (natural conception)
2004 1st IVF cancelled following brain seizure
2005 June/July 2nd IVF - negative
2005 Nov FET - postponed cos my Mum died
2006 - Feb FET planned, but neither frostie survived the thaw.