Not my time ....yet !

Dawn · Post by **Dawn** » Mon Dec 16, 2002 11:55 pm

Hi Girls Posting this late as once again cannot sleep. Had pg test yesterday but unfortunately negative. Dh seems to have taken it worse than me and normally nothing much seems to get him down. What's made it worse is he has had to go off this morning on a residential course but only until Thursday so I'm throwing myself into Xmas organising.Also heard news from a friend this morning which really gave me a kick up the butt & am counting my blessings. Going in to work Wednesday as feel if I don't go in now I won't want to go in at all ! (could it be all those day time TV programmes I seem to watch ?!) Anyhow, this was only our 1st attempt at Icsi & never expected to get even this far as I'm old (39 next month) well thats what my consultant keeps telling me- at least he's honest. Will book follow up appt in New Year & hoping to try again. I must say I still feel really hopeful with all the positive results flying around. Each time I hear I feel chuffed to bits for you as most of you have had many attempts.

Well done & good luck to everyone trying at the moment or in the New Year. Love Dawnxx

scorry · Post by **scorry** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 8:03 am

So sorry Dawn, Hope 2003 will be your year, take time to relax with DH over the festive season, stuff your face and get plastered - you deserve it - this will gear you up for looking positive for the new year ahead, best of luck. Take care, Scorry x

tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 9:58 am

Dawn So sorry it didn't work out for you and DH but it's good you're not giving up hope. As for being "old", get a grip!! You are only 39 and as long as you've got one good egg in you there's hope. There are millions of first time mums out there who are in their 40's even. So try to enjoy Christmas and the very best of Luck for 2003. LOL Terri xxxx

AMANDA D NEWELL · Post by **AMANDA D NEWELL** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 1:56 pm

Dawn So sorry to hear your news, as for being old I turned 39 on Saturday!! Dont give in to the negative thoughts about your age and outcome prospects I was talking to a woman recently who had just turned 44 and was pregnant with twins! she used her own eggs as well. I had ET on Sunday 15th (day after my birthday), I am trying to remain positive..... Take care of yourself and treat yourself to somthing nice from Santa - you deserve it Amanda xx

beck · Post by **beck** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 3:31 pm

hi ya dawn so sorry to see your horrid news..............you seen to be thinking positive, GOOD LUCK FOR 2003. you deserve it. have some time to do some retail shopping on yourself !! becks x

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 3:50 pm

Dawn, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Please don't give up hope. 2003 will be your year! Love, Michelle

sammy · Post by **sammy** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 4:31 pm

Hi dawn,so sorry for your news. I must say you certanily have the right attitude.I always think as long as the embies are put back in we all have as much chance as fertile fanny next door. Dont give up(i am sure you wont)you so to posotive a person. Have a great well deserved christmas Love sammyxxxxxxxxxxx

alison p · Post by **alison p** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 4:59 pm

Dear Dawn, Sorry to hear your news. There's lots of us out there that know exactly what you and you're husband are going through at the moment. Although you feel crap at the moment, it does get easier with time. Enjoy Christmas and look forward to having a better year in 2003. Alison P

Louiseg · Post by **Louiseg** » Tue Dec 17, 2002 9:20 pm

Hi Dawn, Sorry to hear your bad news! Keep positive and look forward to 2003 Love Louiseg

Dawn · Post by **Dawn** » Wed Dec 18, 2002 10:20 pm

Hi Girls Thanks so much for all your kind words. It really helped & I laughed out loud at your comments Sammy ! Well done to all of you that are pregnant,I know you have all been thru so much to get where you are- bless you. Good luck to everyone on treatment at the monemt or about to start in 2003. I'll keep an eye on everyones progress & let you know how I'm getting on. Amanda- look forward to hearing how you are getting on- gets loads of rest- if possible this time of year! Have a brilliant christmas ! I'm going to have a boozy one ! Love Dawnxx

charlotte7 · Post by **charlotte7** » Thu Dec 19, 2002 7:21 am

Hi Dawn Just wanted to add I'm 38 rolling on 39 and my consultant didn't say to wasn't going to happen - just that we should concentrate on it now rather than hang about. Stamina and belief... Have a good Christmas Charlotte7

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