Joanne, sorry to hear you are bleeding. I note that you’ve not yet gone in for a beta test to measure your levels of HCG and really recommend you do this. My clinic too let you test at home with a HPT, but then tell you to come in if you get a +ve as during the first weeks of pregnancy blood tests are the only way to safely monitor you (as you may know, IVF ladies are slightly more prone to ectopics).
Many ladies do bleed during the pg without problems though, but for your own peace of mind I would ring your clinic now and get yourself in for a blood test.
One of the "problems" with my clinic is that the test they give you to do is a urine test, which they would do their too (you have the choice of doing it at home or arranging to go there), when I phoned them on Monday to say it was positive and when was I having bloods she asked me "why do you want bloods taken, you've had a positive, what more proof do you need?" - what can you do but take their word for it??
I feel very let down by my clinic, called them at 8.30 and no one has phoned me back yet. My dh has had to go out this morning and will be back by 12 so he has said if they haven't been on phone before that we are just going down. But yes I agree they should do bloods - at least if it had been a low positive I might have been more prepared for this?? As it is I've been living in blissful ignorance for that last few days.
I will give you all an update when I can and thank you for being supportive
Joanne
x
me 34 - dh 39
ttc 4 yrs
2 ivf -ve
1 ivf Aug 05 +ve, miscarried 5.5 wks
Hello All,
Congrats to all who have a BFP and big hugs to all with a BFN. It will get better with time. Just remember to take care of yourselves and plan what YOU want to do next.
Take care all.
Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive
Oh Joanne, so sorry you having this **** to deal with, your clinic doesnt seem very professional.
hugs my dear x x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Joanne - I've just seen your news on this thread. I'm presuming the clinic got in touch / you went down there ? Hope everything's turned out okay for you. Pls let us know.
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Joanne I am hoping everything is ok with you. I'm sorry to hear about your clinics attitude. There are many reasons you could be bleeding but some people just do. Take care of yourself and really get on your clinics case. You payed too much financially and emotionally to have them treat you like that. Keep us posted and try to think positive.
3rd Aug - Sammylou -
6th Aug - Claire -
??? Aug - Joanne(104) -
8th Aug - Liberty -
9th Aug - Ultimatemama -
10th Aug - Lisa (Erjumper) -
10th Aug - Eviemp -
10th Aug - MB -
???? Aug - Smiler 31 -
11th Aug - Julia (Jg) -
11th Aug - Staci - (not Staci Amithis)
15th Aug - Wanda (Wantagrugrat) -
16th Aug - Cyra (Cycy) -
17th Aug - Kagome -
17th Aug - Joy (Princess) -
18th Aug - Katie -
19th Aug - Debbie -
21st Aug - Denise -
22nd Aug - Chanteq -
24th Aug - Nicola -
Up and Coming :
Pat19 - EC Monday 18th July. How are you Pat ?
Dancola - ET planned Mon 15 Aug
Gail - EC 8 Aug, then freeze due to potential OHSS. Gail how are you ??
Sharont - ET planned for Sat 13 Aug
Tonyacheek - EC Thurs 11 Aug. 9 fertilised. When's ET Tony ?
Jodi (Sleepyfox) - FET planned Mon 15 Aug
Jag - EC planned Thurs 18 Aug
Cally - Your ET was Wed 10 Aug. Do you want adding to the Test List above ? If so, what is your test date ?
Priya - Do you want your test date - 12th - adding to the list above ?
Alison - You had FET Fri 5 Aug ... When's your test Alison ? - Do you want adding to the list ?
CMeeks - Tests 17 Aug ... Do you want to be added to the list ?
Nuala - Do you want adding to Test List above ? What is your test date ?
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Joanne, this is aweful this has happened to you, and your heart must be broken. If you need to talk, I've been through this, and know how crappy it feels.
Take care.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
Joanne - I am so sorry to hear your news, what a blow. Take care, cry lots and be gentle with yourself
Sand: My test date is 16/17 - I'm confused - if I count Aug 3 ET as Day 1 then its August 16th - if I add 14 days to August 3 its August 17th so I shall test on both days. Any advice welcome.
This 2ww is torture with lots of highs and lows. I'm full of henrietta hormones and vary from crampy to bloated to nausea to having no strange symptoms. PMA is very difficult to hold onto as I am at heart a realist but I did choose to go on this journey knowing the statistics so of course there is alwas the hope that you can defy them!!
Wishing everyone who is testing this weekend +ives. I'm off to buy a batch of HPT's in ever colour as my clinic asked me to do HPT first as I live outside London.
Joanne - I am so, so sorry this has happened to you both. So unfair. Not right now, but I hope that in time you can see some positive things from this cycle - ie. you can get pregnant.
Pls take care. Lots of thoughts are with you ..
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11