2nd time unlucky

Nina1 · Post by **Nina1** » Thu Dec 26, 2002 11:23 pm

Dear all, Well, it's a big fat negative for us this Xmas. Second ICSI attempt and it hasn't worked again. I've been so so upset and disappointed, as has my partner, and it's crossed over big time with Xmas. Did the test on Xmas morning, knowing I had my usual af pains etc. and as I'd suspected the test said NO. My younger sister has told me she's just discovered she's pregnant with her 2nd, and I practically haven't been able to cope with that. She's been such a good support to me over the past yaer of treatment, and I feel I've lost that now. I'm such a calm, philosophical person usually, but with bumper hormones flying around and all the psychological pressure it's just seemed so uncopable with. I'm still trying to calm down - Amanda, I'll be looking or your post tomorrow. love, Nina

beck · Post by **beck** » Fri Dec 27, 2002 8:48 am

nina im so sorry to see your post.what a horrid time as well. all i can say i hope 2003 is your year! take a little time out now to chill out for a while. beck xx

hayley · Post by **hayley** » Fri Dec 27, 2002 1:39 pm

oh nina i am so sorry- life is so cruel at times!! you replied to my posting on 'my sisters pregnant' and i want you to know i completely understand what you are going through. you need to take time now just you and your dh to come to terms with this (even if it means avoiding people for a few days) just to make it as easy on you as possible. time is a great healer and you will get the courage to be there for your sister and who knows 2003 may be the best year for all of us. sending a big hug for you and dh take care hayley

Mandy · Post by **Mandy** » Fri Dec 27, 2002 3:37 pm

Hi Nina, I know where u are coming from and my thoughts are with u {{{HUGS}}}}. We have had 2 failed icsi this year and one cancelled fet in November. My SIL gave birth in May just after my first failer, and I had to cope with every one cooing over the adorable nine month old on Christmas day!!!!!!!! feeling like sreaming it should be my baby!!!!!. We are all here for each other,thank god for this site, and 2003 will be our year. love Mandy.xxxxxxxx

AMANDA D NEWELL · Post by **AMANDA D NEWELL** » Sat Dec 28, 2002 11:03 am

Nina, So sorry it didnt work for you either, I think the timing of all this is just the pits. Try and take care of yourself . I know exactly how you are feeling, going through all the same emotions myself.... Love Amanda

Loonpants · Post by **Loonpants** » Sat Dec 28, 2002 11:50 am

Nina Sorry about your result it makes it even harder at this time of the year I know. You need to take time out just you and hubby, close all the doors and be together because that is the most important thing when this happens. It is never easy when it feels like everyone around you is having the one thing you really want but we all end up so strong when going through this and we find a way of coping even if we have a good old moan to each other. We are all here for you so if you want to rant and rave go ahead. Hoping that the New Year is a good one. Lisa(Loonpants) xxx

Michelle · Post by **Michelle** » Sat Dec 28, 2002 12:33 pm

Nina I'm so sorry that you didn't get a positive. Please don't give up hope as it may be your turn next time - what with all the positives recently. Good luck for 2003. Love, Michelle x

tshepher · Post by **tshepher** » Mon Dec 30, 2002 8:58 am

Nina So sorry it hasn't worked out for you this time and it's especially hard with the other news you've received. Try to stay positive for 2003 and please God it will be your year as well. LOL Terri xxxx

alison p · Post by **alison p** » Mon Dec 30, 2002 10:59 am

Dear Nina, So sorry it didn't work again - it's a real bummer at any time, but especially at Christmas. Let's hope that 2003 is the year for all of us!! Alison P xx

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