Denise MY DEAR GOOD FRIEND, YOU KEEP HANGEN IN THERE.
i know it is hard but for right now you set the hpt out of your mind..
remember you can get a false neg from hpt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i will say a extra prayer for you..
your friend becky
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Hang in there. Wishing all good things to you and DH.
love
clairx
Me -31
DH - 35
1st Attempt IVF Aug/Sept 05= BFN
Next cycle with ICSI, hopefully April 2006 = BFN
Hydrosalphinx being removed in November. ICSI next year. Last chance saloon!
Denise - I'm sorry the bad news has been confirmed. It sounds like you've got the best idea - using the next few weeks proactively. I could definitely do to join you at that gym ! ...
Take care ..
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Denise, my heart is aching for you and I'm deeply sorry for your BFN. How tragic that it has to happen much less be compared to the stifling loss of a miscarriage. I sincerely can't imagine the pain that must be, yet I share in your loss. Life sucks sometimes. It just plain sucks. Like I said, I'm here to chat if you need a confidant. FYI: I'm a fitness professional and could give loads of motivational support on nutrition and excercise plans that may guide you (anyone else?) along. Sometimes it can be so confusing and overwhelming... similar to our shared circumstances. The one thing that helps me, personally, is keeping my body active. It tends to dull the pain of the heart yet at the same time, makes it stronger.
"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try" - Beverly Sills.
Wanda, anything you want to offer would be welcome. I've had to quit playing soccer with tmt, so my physical fitness is definitely lacking right now, let alone the havoc two iui's and 5 cycles of clomid has done to my body.
Anyone else who wants to participate in a weekly weigh-in, and encouragement is totally welcome.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009