My AF suddenly made an appearance last night (2days prior to test date)...Of coz i was devastated, as i was feeling extremely well the past few days...What a rude shock it was ....
I snuggled up to my DH and had a good cry for 20 mins, after which we gradually recovered from our "losses"..(3 embies)...
Nevertheless, i do feel like the luckiest person on earth as i have a strong network of family and friends (...all of you here, included ) supporting me throughout my ordeal.
You know what i did today? Well, my DH treated me to a sundae treat and some power retail therapy ... We plan to go for a self-indulging spa this next few days .....and maybe a cruise next weekend .......
As for the future, we give ourselves within these 2 years to think about our 4 frozen embies....who knows?
Thank you, everyone for your love and support!!
Love,
Chanteq ~ My attitude's 4eva "BFP"!!!!!!
Me : 30yrs DH : 34yrs ttc : 5yrs
IVF : Aug 2005 > Unsuccessful
DECEMBER 2005 > PREGNANT!!! Natural Conception!!!
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Chanteq,
i'm so sorry to hear of af's unwanted appearance..hope the pain gets beter soon..this week seems to suck!
Your attitude is tops though- as ever
Wishing you lots and lots of happiness always..
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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Chanteq- my hearts is sad for you, but I am so happy to see such a pms. You are rock solid and I wish the best for you and your DH(they are so good to snuggle up too aren't they?)
Heather14
32yrs old, dh is 29
ttc 3.5 years
1st ivf, no eggs
2nd ivf -ive test
3rd ivf -ive test august
4th ivf march 06-BFP
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Chanteq ... Sorry it wasnt' your turn this time. We know just how much it hurts ... You are full of sunshine though, aren't you ? ... Best of luck for the future ..
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
so sorry to hear you news. You are an absolute inspiration. Take care and get pampered you deserve it.
love
clairx
Me -31
DH - 35
1st Attempt IVF Aug/Sept 05= BFN
Next cycle with ICSI, hopefully April 2006 = BFN
Hydrosalphinx being removed in November. ICSI next year. Last chance saloon!
Chanteq,
I'm sorry you received a negative result. You were, and still remain, one of the most inspirational and positive gals on our board and we can all learn from your strength and "can do" attitude. Take time to reflect and then begin to make a new plan to move forward. This isn't the end, but rather a detour, on your path towards motherhood.
Sometimes if you want to see the rainbow ya gotta put up with a little rain.
dear chanteq,
so sorry about yr news. It may be a bfn this time but your attitude is waaaay BFP. Keep it up! It would do all of us, me especially, a world of good if we could just adopt a sliver of your PMA.
lots of hugs to you,
quasi
Me 30 DH 32
ttc-5years
4 IUI's -ve
ICSI 05/05 -ve
ICSI 08/05 -ve
FET 11/05 -ve
ICSI 03/06 -ve
5th time lucky?? ICSI 11/06
....
) supporting me throughout my ordeal.
.....and maybe a cruise next weekend 
.......