Denise M, Jag, Kagome and all the rest of us who have not received positive results these past few weeks:
I am truly sorry to everyone (myself included) facing a challenging and dissapointing outcome. It is so difficult to know why things don't happen they way we want them to. It seems unfair but we know that "life isn't about fairness" and sometimes, it just means that we have to be that much stronger to wake up and face a new day with a new plan, to move forward and realize the dreams we can't let go of. The simple dream of having a child will be ours, it just may take a little longer than we thought or may come wrapped in a different package than we envisioned. Just know and believe IT WILL happen!
"Success is often achieved by those who don't know that failure is inevitable" - Coco Chanel.
With love and blessings for a brighter tomorrow,
Wanda
Keep the Faith
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wantarugrat
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Keep the Faith
Wanda 41
DH 41
4 IUI = -ve
1 IVF (with egg donor) = -ve (Aug/05)
1 IVF (with new donor) = +ve (Nov/05)
DH 41
4 IUI = -ve
1 IVF (with egg donor) = -ve (Aug/05)
1 IVF (with new donor) = +ve (Nov/05)
glad you wrote this..
it is always great to know that there are friends who know!!!!!!!!!!
it is always great to know that there are friends who know!!!!!!!!!!
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
Great post. I am feeling sad. tested 3 days early. got BFN.
Life is shit, and it's unfair....why us??? what did we do???
Life is shit, and it's unfair....why us??? what did we do???
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Hello All,
Despite my great pleasure in getting my +ive result I also feel very sad for those of you who have not been successful. This was our 3rd (and final) IVF so I truly know how disappointed all of you feel. Following my 2nd -ive I was sooo sure that I would never be in this positiion but look, it has happened. I'm sure it will happen for many of you too. I know it's hard to keep positive (goodness knows I'm the last person to preach about keeping up a PMA) but good things can and do happen. I truly believe that things happen for a reason so if things haven't worked for you this time then this is meant to be but who knows on your next cycle.
Try not to lose hope and I hope that you all get what you want.
Take care all
Love
Debbie
Despite my great pleasure in getting my +ive result I also feel very sad for those of you who have not been successful. This was our 3rd (and final) IVF so I truly know how disappointed all of you feel. Following my 2nd -ive I was sooo sure that I would never be in this positiion but look, it has happened. I'm sure it will happen for many of you too. I know it's hard to keep positive (goodness knows I'm the last person to preach about keeping up a PMA) but good things can and do happen. I truly believe that things happen for a reason so if things haven't worked for you this time then this is meant to be but who knows on your next cycle.
Try not to lose hope and I hope that you all get what you want.
Take care all
Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive
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Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive
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wantarugrat
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Debbieed, it's replies like yours that give us the strength and motivation to move forward, I know it has for me. This is certainly not a game for the faint of heart nor a lack of positive thinking.
Niki, I'm sorry to learn of your recent dissapointment. Yup, sometimes life sucks and bites the big one. Well, we're all just gonna bite right back and take a big chunk out of Mother Nature's Ass!
Love to you all.
Wanda
Niki, I'm sorry to learn of your recent dissapointment. Yup, sometimes life sucks and bites the big one. Well, we're all just gonna bite right back and take a big chunk out of Mother Nature's Ass!
Love to you all.
Wanda
Wanda 41
DH 41
4 IUI = -ve
1 IVF (with egg donor) = -ve (Aug/05)
1 IVF (with new donor) = +ve (Nov/05)
DH 41
4 IUI = -ve
1 IVF (with egg donor) = -ve (Aug/05)
1 IVF (with new donor) = +ve (Nov/05)
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Wanda,
Love your attitude!
Hope you all get to get that big bite real real sooon! Lots of love , luck and laughter!,
smita
Love your attitude!
Hope you all get to get that big bite real real sooon!
Lots of love , luck and laughter!,smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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Heh Wanda
Thanks for that. We just have to believe that this time it wasn't for us, which is sad but we will all get there. We will never know why this is happening to us however we are wonderful women who ARE going to be wonderful mummy's very soon.
We are in this together ladies - we WILL do it!
"What doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger" and we are very very strong women.
So are you lovely ladies starting November time?
Here's to a very lovely Christmas present
Luv JAG xxx
Thanks for that. We just have to believe that this time it wasn't for us, which is sad but we will all get there. We will never know why this is happening to us however we are wonderful women who ARE going to be wonderful mummy's very soon.
We are in this together ladies - we WILL do it!
"What doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger" and we are very very strong women.
So are you lovely ladies starting November time?
Here's to a very lovely Christmas present
Luv JAG xxx
Me 30 DH 47 TTC 2.5 IUI Nov 04 -'ve
IVF Aug 05 -'ve 8 eggs 0 embies
ICSI - on 2ww and 11 frozen embies too!
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IVF Aug 05 -'ve 8 eggs 0 embies
ICSI - on 2ww and 11 frozen embies too!
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Wanda,
I admire your strength during this time. I know how you're feeling because my first IVF failed. I went through such a depression, but had faith that it WOULD happend when the time was right. With this second IVF, it was positive. I am still nervous because my center takes a few blood tests just to make sure the pregnancy is progressing. So far so good, but it's not as high as it should be.
Well, we'll keep our fingers crossed!
Wanda & all the other gals on this message board...Thank you so much for being so helpful & positive. I wish all of us futures filled with babies!!!
I admire your strength during this time. I know how you're feeling because my first IVF failed. I went through such a depression, but had faith that it WOULD happend when the time was right. With this second IVF, it was positive. I am still nervous because my center takes a few blood tests just to make sure the pregnancy is progressing. So far so good, but it's not as high as it should be.
Well, we'll keep our fingers crossed!
Wanda & all the other gals on this message board...Thank you so much for being so helpful & positive. I wish all of us futures filled with babies!!!
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