Chanteq and Heather - Test Monday 22 August

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Post by LittleP »

Heather

Just one more sleep and it's your day. Remember those AF pains could so easily be the sign of something wonderful :D

Hang in there

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Chanteq - I saw your news elsewhere ... So sorry it wasn't your turn this time. It's lovely that you're so positive. Keep it up and everything crossed you'll get there one day.

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Good luck tomorrow...you'll be in my thoughts and prayers :)
Me 33 endometriosis; DH 36 male factor
1st IVF -ve May 05
2nd IVF +ve Sept 05 DD Morgan born May 25th 2006
3 failed FETs in 2007
3rd IVF March 05 +ve :)
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Heather - any news?

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Heather,
whats happening? Hope its BFP
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
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Post by Sand »

Heather ... You're keeping us all waiting !!!!

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by heather14 »

Sorry to keep everyone waiting--------
It is a BFN, once again. But I must say that I am somewhat relieved to get this all over with. Of course I would love to be pregnant but I am tired of the ivf's. I have done three consectively and in a dire need for a break. I cannot wait to feel like myself and not have a bloated, bruised shot induced body. And I cannot wait to have sex again!!! I am going to take 3 months off, go on Zita's detox diet, continue with acupunture and re-evalute our options for the future. Maybe even a surrogate or adoption. I am thankful to have found this website and talk to all of you. You are all inspirations to me and we are all very lucky to have what we have today!! I have learned so much from your postings and lots of times it seems like I learn more here than my clinic.
I will still check on all of you.

Love and kisses and PMA, Heather
32yrs old, dh is 29
ttc 3.5 years
1st ivf, no eggs
2nd ivf -ive test
3rd ivf -ive test august
4th ivf march 06-BFP
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i'm so sorry to both of you!!!

take care of youselves!!
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Post by Sand »

Heather - I'm soooo sorry it hasn't worked out for you. You are doing absolutely the right thing .. a good 3 month break sounds a great idea... Apart from all the bruising etc, I don't think we realised just how tired we become ... You've got all my best wishes for the future - but with a good break first ..

Take care

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by DeniseM »

Heather, I understand how you feel about being relieved.

Good luck with your detox diet(considering it myself) and good luck exploring your options.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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Post by wantarugrat »

Dang it! Sorry Heather to hear of your news. Sometimes just walking away and putting it aside for a while brings on fresh thoughts. Enjoy getting lucky with your DH again... Seems there are quite a few of us gals that will be doin' the mattress dance as August comes to a close.

Wanda
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DH 41
4 IUI = -ve
1 IVF (with egg donor) = -ve (Aug/05)
1 IVF (with new donor) = +ve (Nov/05)
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Post by clair55 »

Hi Heather

Sorry to hear your news. Make sure you get plenty of R and R.


Take care
Clairx
Me -31
DH - 35
1st Attempt IVF Aug/Sept 05= BFN
Next cycle with ICSI, hopefully April 2006 = BFN
Hydrosalphinx being removed in November. ICSI next year. Last chance saloon!
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Post by Jeni Babes »

Heather

Sorry for your sad news...Hugs...take care of you and do lots of R and R
( sounds like that may include loads of romantic /wild weekends away with DH).

jen
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Post by brs888 »

So sorry for you and DH. A break sounds really good :) You both probably need it not just from the wear and tear your body takes physically, but this is an emotional roller coaster, too. Best of luck to both of you :)
Me 33 endometriosis; DH 36 male factor
1st IVF -ve May 05
2nd IVF +ve Sept 05 DD Morgan born May 25th 2006
3 failed FETs in 2007
3rd IVF March 05 +ve :)
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Heather,
Really sorry that this wasnt your time..
You sound very focussed for the future,
wishing you and your dh lots and lots of fun in your R&R period and happiness for the future.
Hugs,
smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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