SOOOOO SAD

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Want2BAMommy
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Post by Want2BAMommy »

I had my Blastcyst transfer Wed the 17th and took an early preg test this am..... NEG..... I knew it..I have cramps and feel like I'm going to get my period. I have even gained 5 lbs. This whole process is soooo freakin emotional and it gets to be too much. I am soooooooo bummed.....
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Post by LittleP »

Is there not a possibility that you have tested too early - when was your official test date. After a 5-day transfer I did not test for 10 days so fingers crossed there is still a chance, what do you think?

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Post by ogr1 »

dont trust that test!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

it is to early!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
keep taking your meds!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by NickiMark »

I know how u feel. I tested early on sunday got -ive. But had tummy cramps since Saturday really thought AF was here but not yet...... Mild cramps and browny discharge.....
My clinic said that it's pssable im preg as mild cramps and browny discharge or light period blood is normal..... So i might be in with a chance and so might you.
Hang on in there!!! x x xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by Want2BAMommy »

My offical test date is the 29th but i hear all you ladies testing day 9 and 10 and getting +. I just don't feel pregnant..I feel like Im getting my period. I'm going crazy and I guess I'm trying to prepare myself for the worse
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Post by NickiMark »

I dont feel preg either. I feel like AF is coming but until it does come... We are still in the runnings for being mummy's!!!!!

Have u been preg before??? How do u know what preg feels likes???
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by sleepyfoy »

Dear Want2beamommy....

Girl!!!!!! You and I have the same test dates!!!!! I too tested with the HPT and theses ladies here certainly kicked my hinney... ( I asked for it!)... I am banned by DH from any pharmacies.....I had the sister of my dental hygienist offer to go get one for me today and it took EVERYTHING I had to say NOPE!!!!! Hang in there- we can do it together!!!!!!!!!!! Monday is just a few days away!!!!!!!!!!

Keep thinking GREAT thoughts!!

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Post by Want2BAMommy »

OMG jodi.....are you going nuts???? Did you have a day 5 transfer on the 17? do you have cramps...I am just going crazy and so depressed with my cramps and the neg test.
Thank you ladies for the positive thoughts and comments....I'm hanging in there..just feel awful.........I've been pregnant 2 times before and misscarried early...6 weeks and felt the cramps...so nervous.....
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Post by taylorjools »

Sweetie, my heart goes out to you, but there is no cheating in this game as you know...

Will think of you all the time til Monday

LOve and hugs

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Post by Want2BAMommy »

I know...just so hard to keep positive...especially since i took that stupid home test! Just thought it would show a faint line if I was.......trying to ignore the cramps, my feeling...just not working to well....lol
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having twins!!!!
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Post by LittleP »

Remember - one of the first signs of pregnancy is the same as AF pains.

Hang in there ladies.

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Post by k »

Want2bamommy

Its too early to test! I had AF type cramps for the whole afternoon and evening before my +ve test and no AF started. Im now 19 wks pg. Had AF type cramps on a daily basis until past 12 weeks. Hang on in there!
Love Kim
Me 36 DH 33 Male factor due to chemotherapy. IVF\ICSI May 05 +ve.
Jenna Grace born 19.1.06 then natural BFP!
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Post by Want2BAMommy »

Congratulations Kim...I am so happy for you. This too is my 1st IVF. We did IUI 3 times.Pregnant 1 time and misscarried the day I found out I was Pregnant. Docs say unexplained infertility. Nothing wrong with me or my Hubby...Go figure...Then why sooo hard. How are you feeling so far?
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FET 11/10/05, HPT+ on 11/15/05 [img]http://bestsmileys.com/excited/3.gif[/img]
having twins!!!!
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Post by sleepyfoy »

Dear Want2bmommy!!!

Yes!! I am going crazy- yes I have been having pains a lot today.. Making me worried... But we will get through this. I tested 4 days after my transfer and it was a BFN.... I was depressed until I spoke to the ladies on this board. I am not allowed to buy any more HPT they are EVIL!!!! WE CAN DO IT!!!!
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Post by sleepyfoy »

Dear Want2BAMommy..

Where are you from?
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