Another BFN....

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Lori05
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Another BFN....

Post by Lori05 »

Well ladies...clinic just called and and said it was another BFN....AF will most likely arrive tomorrow, and the doctor said that we can go right into another cycle if we wanted to.....I really didn't expext it to take this long since I don't have any health issues except having no tubes...I'm so afraid that out of 25 embryos, none of them will take. I'm already down to only 9 "frosties"!!! Money is really starting to be a big factor, so DH and I will have a few days to discuss things....Thank you for all your support...I love reading all your positive messages!! I will post in a few days to let you all know if I'll be cycling this month.
Me- 30 DH- 27
09/2003- Ectopic- lost both tubes
IVF #1 02/2005- 33 egs retrieved, 25 fertilized!!! -ve
FET#1 06/19/05 -ve
FET#2 08/22/05 -ve
FET#3 12/03/05 ve
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LittleP
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Post by LittleP »

I am so sorry to read your news.

You take good care of yourself - big hugs to you and DH. I know nothing I write will make a difference, but know that you are in my thoughts.

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Post by princess »

Oh Lori,
I am so sorry , I know this must be very hard for you.
We are here when you need us.
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Post by sleepyfoy »

Lori

Sorry about the BFN- I hope that you and DH are doing something fun this weekend to kinda of take your mind off things- I know that it is very hard but know that people are thinking about ya'll.
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Post by kbell »

Jody, I am so sorry about your beta result. Hopefully the next FET will be the one with your baby. He/She's just hanging around waiting for you to thaw them.

Katrina
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Post by DeniseM »

Lori,

Sorry that this wasn't your month. Better luck if you decide to try again this cycle.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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Post by ESTHER »

Lori

Iam so sorry sweetie. Please take good care of yourself and DH.
ttc 6,5year
1st ivf..20/06/05..positive

Baby girl Paris Ruvarashe Born on the 10th of March 2006.
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Post by Terri2 »

so sorry to hear your news Lori. I only just found this board but have been reading all the messages and feel like I know everyone already. I kept thinking about you today and hoping it was good news.
I just bought Zita Wests book and found it has really made me feel more positive. Please keep thinking positively, like you said, you don't have any health issues.............hopefully next time will be your time.
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Post by Smita »

Lori,
I'm really sorry to hear your news..
Give yourself some time to bounce back again.
hugs,
smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
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Post by clair55 »

Hi Lori

I am so sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself and get in some pampering you deserve it. Thinking of you

clairx :(
Me -31
DH - 35
1st Attempt IVF Aug/Sept 05= BFN
Next cycle with ICSI, hopefully April 2006 = BFN
Hydrosalphinx being removed in November. ICSI next year. Last chance saloon!
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Post by DebraP »

Sorry you didn't get your +ve this time Lori.

Take very good care of yourself and DH.

hugs
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Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
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Post by gailp »

So sorry to hear your news Lori
me 38 DH 43 TTC 7.5 yrs. 1st IVF June 05 ended in severe OHSS never made it to ET. FET Nov 05 -ive. FET April 06 -ive FET June 06 OMG BFP
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Post by Sand »

Lori - I've already posted on your test thread, and the Sep test thread, but just to say again that I'm sorry it hasn't worked out for you this time. Make sure you both take care ..

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
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Post by NickiMark »

So sorry to hear about another BFN. It's shit, I know!!! I hope that you are soon strong to go again!!

Dont give up! x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by jkos »

Lori,

I'm so sorry you got a negative. I can say that I know what you're going through right now.

I am praying you will have a better month this time. Keeping you in my prayers.


I noticed that you are in NY -- I am in NJ, small world.
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