It was a chemical pregnancy

americnliberty · Post by **americnliberty** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 7:31 pm

Chitra, I'm so sorry to hear your news!

I hope that you will be able to try again and may your heart mend itself back to whole.

DeniseM · Post by **DeniseM** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 8:56 pm

I've had a m/c myself, so I understand some of the pain you're feeling. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, it really stinks.

Give yourself time to grieve your lost one, before making permanent decisions.

Hugs.

jkos · Post by **jkos** » Thu Sep 08, 2005 11:51 pm

No words can express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.

Your body and soul deserve time to heal and get ready for wonderful things to come.

Know I am thinking of you and your husband at this time.

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Fri Sep 09, 2005 12:22 am

i have had a mental pregnecy once but never a chemicale one.

life has it heart aches... i am so so sorry that you and your dh are going threw this.
please please remember that you have lots of friends here.
and we truley do care...

sleepyfoy · Post by **sleepyfoy** » Fri Sep 09, 2005 12:27 am

Chitra
Like many others- my blood ran cold when I read your news. What has happened to you is my biggest fear. Please know that you and your Dh are being thought about in this time. take care and try to regain some happiness in your heart.
Truely Sorry.
Jodi

doraglasses · Post by **doraglasses** » Fri Sep 09, 2005 1:07 am

I'm so sorry Chitra. I have gone thru the same thing (twice) and I know exactly how you feel. To cope with it, I cried all my heart when I found out, so cry it out. It'll put you a little at ease. if possible, take a sort break for a while, maybe do some research about clinics in India (like Smita had mentioned). God forbid, if things don't work out for me this go round, I will look for other options in India.

Chitra, I know its easy to say all this, but some of us have gone thru what you are going thru, but you can't loose hope, hang in there and things will work your way soon. Luv.

k · Post by k » Fri Sep 09, 2005 6:51 am

Hi Chitra

Im so sorry to read your news.

Look after yourselves.
Love Kim

chitra · Post by **chitra** » Fri Sep 09, 2005 1:05 pm

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate all the kind words you all have said to me. thanks to you I am feeling better today. Now it is all like a dream to me. when I get up in the morning I feel so sad like someone in our family had died.
My dh and I have convinced ourselves to give this another try. I have an appointment with my RE in 2 weeks to discuss what went wrong then ask him if we can do this again in 2-3 months. Thanks once again to everyone of you for being so kind and understanding.
Chitra

hlloyd · Post by **hlloyd** » Fri Sep 09, 2005 10:22 pm

Chitra, so sorry to read your news. What a nightmare. It is not surprising that it feels like a death in the family, it is exactly that really. Take care of yourself over the coming weeks and good luck with your appointment. I truly hope it all works out for you.

Best wishes
Heather

LucyC · Post by **LucyC** » Mon Sep 12, 2005 1:35 pm

Chitra
So sorry to hear your news, i had a chemical pregnancy with my 2nd cycle, beta dropped 2 days later. It's such a devastating time right now, but take time out and look after yourself!
Don't give up! This result shows that you can get pgt!!! I know it's such a strain on emotions and bank balances( am saving up for next FET myself )
Try to stay positive
love and hugs to you and dh
Lucy

clair55 · Post by **clair55** » Tue Sep 13, 2005 8:20 am

Chitra

I'm so very sorry to hear your news. Thinking both of you and dh.

love
clairx

brs888 · Post by **brs888** » Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:47 pm

So, so sorry...imagining the pain you must feel...am crying for you

CC · Post by CC » Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:21 pm

So vrey sorry Chitra - hope you get the strength you need to try again after a rest period - it will happen eventually,
love and hugs, Cherylxx

crasmus · Post by **crasmus** » Tue Sep 13, 2005 7:23 pm

i'm so sorry... i know how you feel.. as we have had two of those, and i know that nothing we can say will make it better, but have hope, i have a DS and know that it does work..... take care of yourself!!!!
colleen

Meg · Post by **Meg** » Sun Sep 18, 2005 8:49 pm

Hi Chitra

So sorry to hear yours news you must be devestated. I too had a chemical pregnancy in July so I know excatly how you are feeling. It feels like so near but yet so far and the medics can be very cold about this type of pregnancy which made me feel worse.

Make sure you take care of yourself and I wish you all the luck in the future.

All the best x

It was a chemical pregnancy

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