Hi All
I just wanted to let you know that as I have to wait 11 months to start IVF, I have decided to try and take control of things again. I feel I live, eat and sleep infertility, and I need to somehow step back a bit, and start enjoying life again. I need to spend time again with DH, having a laugh and doing all the things we used to do. The support I have had on this site has made a huge difference to how I have coped these past few months, and I want to say thanks to each and everyone of you who has given me support and answered my posts. As I am writing this, I am not sure if it is the right thing to do, and I will probably panic and be back in a few weeks!
I wish you all the very best of luck, and hope that when I do return, I will see many happy, successful stories.
Nicki - I am sending you lots of PMA. Thank you for your support, and hope the next stage in January goes well.
Thanks again to everyone. Even although I will not be posting I will be thinking of you
Take care
GOODBYE AND THANKS
GOODBYE AND THANKS
Yvee
Yvee
Just wanted to wish you loads of fun and happiness over the next year - we will miss you here, but totally understand your need to re-focus on other aspects of your life.
You'll be welcomed back with open arms when you return and we'll all be eager to hear about your adventures over the next months.
Take care of yourself and big hugs to you.
Little P
Just wanted to wish you loads of fun and happiness over the next year - we will miss you here, but totally understand your need to re-focus on other aspects of your life.
You'll be welcomed back with open arms when you return and we'll all be eager to hear about your adventures over the next months.
Take care of yourself and big hugs to you.
Little P
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Smita
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Yvee,
Hope your break is wonderful and rejuvenating..
I understand how fertility can take up your whole mind..Its good to take a break once in a while- it gets too overwhelming..
Wishing you lots of Luck,
Do pop in when you are in the mood for friends..
smita
Hope your break is wonderful and rejuvenating..
I understand how fertility can take up your whole mind..Its good to take a break once in a while- it gets too overwhelming..
Wishing you lots of Luck,
Do pop in when you are in the mood for friends..
smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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YVEE, I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND, I AM ALSO TRYING TO STEP BACK AND FOCUS ON ME AND DH THATS ALSO WHY I HAVEN'T BEEN ON HERE LATELY MUCH BUT I DO POP IN WHEN I CAN. I AM ACTUALLY ADDICTED TO THIS SITE!!!!
BLESS YA, I AM SO HAPPY THAT I HAVE GIVEN YOU SUCH PMA!!! X X X
ALL THE BEST THEN AND HOPE TO SEE U BACK IN 11 MTHS X X
BLESS YA, I AM SO HAPPY THAT I HAVE GIVEN YOU SUCH PMA!!! X X X
ALL THE BEST THEN AND HOPE TO SEE U BACK IN 11 MTHS X X
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Yvee, many of us know exactly where you're coming from. It easily becomes overwhelming and relationships can definitely suffer, which is sad and somewhat ironic as ttc should be fun.
Enjoy your break, you'll be the better patient for clearing your head of it all for a while.
take care
Debra.
Enjoy your break, you'll be the better patient for clearing your head of it all for a while.
take care
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
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Jeni Babes
Yvee,
I had just posted a msg for you on limbo asking how you were...Good to here from you.
I think whatever choice you have made in this moment is the right one. To give you and DH some a well needed rest to focus relationship time, To bring some peace, light and humour into your lives is a good choice.
I wish you all the luck in the world when you choose to start again. Whenever that may be...take your time to enjoy life.
All your helpful posts to me were/are very much appreciated.
Good Luck in the coming months...
Love
jen
xxx
it is so important to find your laugh.
alot gets put aside during treament ..
i couldnt stay away long.. as nick i am way to addicted.
you will have to post photos of your tans when you get back
alot gets put aside during treament ..
i couldnt stay away long.. as nick i am way to addicted.
you will have to post photos of your tans when you get back
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!