Thanks so much for all of the "good lucks." I really love all of the support. I feel like I have not been able to talk to anyone for the past 3 years. However, my AF did arrive a couple of days ago, so sad face for me. My doctor still had me take the test, he said just in case a baby lodged somewhere else - which would not be good. I took the test yesterday and am waiting to hear from my doc - I called the doctor to find out the results and the receptionist said the results were in but she could not tell me what they were. Thus, I am waiting for the doctors call. I guess that is standard proceedure.
I just called the nurse, and she told me it is a for sure negative. We'll get it in the future. I feel much more confident about next time because at least I will know what is going on and won't be surprised by every day. It is always encouraging to see others who have success, their success reinforces the notion that it can be done. After this cycle we are just amazed at what a miracle conveiving and having a baby really is. We are forced to realize it. Thanks again for all of your support.
Spanning - I'm so sorry you've had bad news this time. Make sure you take some time to relax and pamper yourself a little. It'll hurt so much right now, but it will ease eventually.
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Spanning - Words can not help right now but I am really sorry it did not turn out the way you wanted. Take some time away and for yourself. We are here when you need us.
I'm sorry Spanning, I'd hoped against hope that it wasn't really AF.
You're right of course, going through tmt gives you a totally new perspective on the whole ttc issue and having been through the mill once gives you so much more information about what will happen next time.
The best of luck and I look forward to hearing about your next round.
hugs
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.