Hi guys,
Visited a clinic recently and the doc identified low sperm motility/count as factors, recommending IVF/ICSI treatment. I am 31male, partner 34 and trying for 2years. He said there was a slight risk of abnormalities and birth defects as a result of the treatment which was higher than IVF alone and higher than natural births. The studies, he said, and by my reckoning on a quick google search are split, but I am still concerned.
The procedure has been around only 10years so there is not a big sample of babies to 'test' for any study. Secondly, you are totally reliant on the skill/luck of an embryologist to pick out a 'good' sperm, whereas in nature/IVF only the strongest sperm would make it through thereby enabling some degree of natural selection.
On the other hand, neither IVF or a natural birth guarantees a healthy child either.
So....Im worried, and maybe irrationally so. I guess I'm looking for some pyschological reassurance that all is well, but I'd also like to hear from people who have had no problems with ICSI.
Thanks in advance