Congratulations, BonBon! Wow, a first timer! Good for you guys!
To the rest of you testing tomorrow...Here's lots of baby dust coming your way!
Me 33 endometriosis; DH 36 male factor
1st IVF -ve May 05
2nd IVF +ve Sept 05 DD Morgan born May 25th 2006
3 failed FETs in 2007
3rd IVF March 05 +ve :)
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congratulations bonbon!!!
I got a BFN I'm afraid. I was expecting it though, as last night AF came in full force. It was the first try, so I just need to concentrate on getting well and ready for the next try...
On the brighter side, I have got some good things out of this ivf attempt. I've taken control of my health and I generally feel really good. I've had a chance to look at my career (am planning career change) and my marriage has strengthened through it. I know I will get pregnant, I just need to develop my patience.
I'll be back on this thread from Jan!!
Thanks to everyone for such caring and invaluable support, you've been amazing.
Paula
34 yrs old, DH 40
ttc for 2yrs
ectopic in 2003, lost tube
endometrial cysts 2004
2 ivf attempts 2005/06, both -ve
Paula - I am so sorry it didn't work out this time. You definitely have the right attitude and your time will come. Don't be afraid to cry...when I got my negative I was very stoic and then about 2 weeks later I just broke down...so if you feel it coming on...go with it...it will make you feel better...as well as a nice glass (bottle) of red wine.
thanks to everyone for your empathy and caring. I have been crying on and off....I swing from feeling really upbeat, to teary and awful. I generally do tend to 'over cope', so I'll make sure I attend to my soreness.
Both my sisters in law are currently pregnant, and its really brought up the deeper stuff for me. Jealousy, envy, anger etc. And I dont want to see them when I go back home (they live in south africa), I'm afraid I'll feel so small.
Sigh. You ladies have really helped me feel normal and a bit more able to own my more 'unacceptable' feelings.
Here's to community and women supporting women
Much love
Paula
34 yrs old, DH 40
ttc for 2yrs
ectopic in 2003, lost tube
endometrial cysts 2004
2 ivf attempts 2005/06, both -ve
hi paula--
so sorry to read your news, we got a +++++ on our 2nd attempt, so theres hope, give your mind a rest, god knows this takes its toll on us and we need to revive our batteries again, you will get there.
take care xxxx
lulu and bonbon----
so pleased to read your ++++, try to relax a little now, enjoy.
take care love jackie xxx