Hi All,
Thought I'd let you know we got a BFN . We are both gutted and feeling totally exhausted. DH and I have been for a long walk on the beach and spent the afternoon putting the world to rights. Were going to have abit of a break, enjoy life together, and then try another cycle of ICSI in the spring (we only have one embie left frozen and I can't face all the build up for it not to defrost).
Sarah, I hope your transfer went well and those little embroys are getting on with dividing and implanting....
Debra, I hope you pain is better
Nicky I hope you got a BFP
Sending you all lots of good hopes for BFPs
x tg
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Me 32 DH 38
Severe male factor and PCOS
IVF/ICSI June 05 - misc 5/52
FET Oct 05 -ve
Hi there tg, so sorry you got a -ve. Taking a break is such a good idea. The intensity and stress of tmt can't be exaggerated. Being yourselves again and enjoying a normal life can only do you both good.
When you're ready, you know where we are. The monthly tmt threads normally appear about 2m in advance so it's never too early to pop on and see who you'll be able to chat with next time.
Be kind to yourself, a BFN is a horrible shock.
hugs
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
So sorry to hear your results tg. Sounds like you and DH are taking great care of each other and I am sure a break will turn out to be a very positive thing.
Best wishes
Heather
Me 39+4 DH 41
4th IVF May 06 - +ve
Natural conception Sep 07
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Just had my ET - all went smoothly ........fingers crossed! I have absolutely no cares who looks at what now!
We had 9 embies but sadly looks like no frosties.......will know for sure next week - the 2 embies we had reached 8 cells each - the others less........
Tg - Keep trying - I am sure a break is a good idea.....now I know what it involves.....how soon can you try again? Best of luck next time!
SJ
Me 37/ Hubby 41........
Postponed treatment / pnemonia!
IUI x 2 July & Aug 05
1st IVF started 14/9
EC 12/10
ET 15/10
Test date 26/10 - A BFP ! Feel so lucky...but
sadly one twin only made it to 8 wks ..
Sarah J - Really pleased for you that your et went smoothly, now the 2ww awaits!! try and stay sane, although it is so hard. Hoping you get a BFP at the end.
tg- sorry sorry to read your news, take care of yourself. Hoping your break will do you the world of good.
Love
sue e xx
Age 33 dh 34 Married Nov 03 /ectopic dec 03
1st ICSI start July 05, +ive Hpt 10th oct / m/c
FET Feb - +ive
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Sarah - so pleased your ET went well, now in 2ww, hope all goes well.
Sue E - may I wish you a belated congratulations on your results, wishing you all the best.
loads of baby dust..
love Mrs M
xxx
ME 34 DH 32
TTC 6 Yrs Married Aug 00
1st IVF/ICSI Aug 05 Test 14th Oct BFN
2nd FET June 06 Test 15th June 06 BNF!!!!
3rd attempt hoping to start in a few months at a brand new clinic!!!
How are you feeling? I thought you sounded really geared up for your next round, you have got amazing strength.
thinking of you and hoping that number 2 is your lucky round
Love
sue e xx
Age 33 dh 34 Married Nov 03 /ectopic dec 03
1st ICSI start July 05, +ive Hpt 10th oct / m/c
FET Feb - +ive
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Sue - Thanks for good wishes. I really do hope my turn is next, myself and DH really want this to work just like everyone else. Not sure if its strenght or shock. I just hope my awaiting embies are ok as they are not so good grade as the 2 I have just used.
take it easy and be good to yourself.
love and babydust to all.
Mrs M xx
ME 34 DH 32
TTC 6 Yrs Married Aug 00
1st IVF/ICSI Aug 05 Test 14th Oct BFN
2nd FET June 06 Test 15th June 06 BNF!!!!
3rd attempt hoping to start in a few months at a brand new clinic!!!
Lots of people have been successful with embies their clinic thought were not perfect, so you never know!!! Hopefully because the fet is less invasive it will work for you. Will be keeping everything crossed.
Take care
Love
sue e xx
Age 33 dh 34 Married Nov 03 /ectopic dec 03
1st ICSI start July 05, +ive Hpt 10th oct / m/c
FET Feb - +ive
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I just realised that you had a +ive!!!!!!!!! Hooray! That is wonderful news ..............
Mrs M
How are you ? ... I would think that your embies are ok - they wouldn't freeze them if they didn't think so.........fingers crossed for you x
I am still feeling rather fragile from the EC on Wed - having an active puppy is proving rather a challenge!! DH is being rushed of his feet now!........
Desperately trying to stay calm and collected! Will know result of ET on 26th........
SJ
Me 37/ Hubby 41........
Postponed treatment / pnemonia!
IUI x 2 July & Aug 05
1st IVF started 14/9
EC 12/10
ET 15/10
Test date 26/10 - A BFP ! Feel so lucky...but
sadly one twin only made it to 8 wks ..
Sue E - Hope your doing ok... thanks for good wishes, like you say FET is less inavasive, don't really know much about it as yet, have just started reading up on it, didn't think you would still have to take so many drugs.
Sarah J - Hope your ET goes well, fingers crossed for you. also enjoy being waited on while you can, my DH was fab all the way threw our treatment and 2ww bless them eh..
love to all and loads of baby dust
Mrs M
ME 34 DH 32
TTC 6 Yrs Married Aug 00
1st IVF/ICSI Aug 05 Test 14th Oct BFN
2nd FET June 06 Test 15th June 06 BNF!!!!
3rd attempt hoping to start in a few months at a brand new clinic!!!