DebraP - Test Date 20th Oct

Terri2 · Post by **Terri2** » Thu Oct 20, 2005 8:20 pm

so sorry Debra and I admire you for being so brave.

princess · Post by **princess** » Thu Oct 20, 2005 8:40 pm

Oh sweetie big HUGS to you.
WE love you honey.
Love
joy

smokeroni · Post by **smokeroni** » Thu Oct 20, 2005 9:38 pm

Debra,

Sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself. Do something extra nice for yourself today and take your time to regroup.

Pam

JackieT · Post by **JackieT** » Thu Oct 20, 2005 10:53 pm

debra
im so sorry to read your post, i dont know what to say to make you feel any better.--nothing -- just be gentle with each other
love jackie xx

Smita · Post by **Smita** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:46 am

Debra,
I'm so sorry to hear what you're going thru.. I'm hoping something good comes out of this..

hugs,
smita

eskavon · Post by **eskavon** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 8:05 am

Debra
Just to let you know I'm thinking of you and your sad news. Take care of yourself and family.
xx

jay · Post by **jay** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 8:23 am

im so sorry to hear your news...but im glad to see ur brave about it, please continue to be strong xx jay

SallyP · Post by **SallyP** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 9:22 am

Oh Debra I'm so so sorry. I haven't been on this board much at all, what with time and everything, and I've been on Shell's friend's site whenever I do have a moment, but I knew you were on the dreaded 2www. I tried to post a reply to you yesterday but for some reason it wouldn't let me so I gave up after about 5 attempts.

I thought of you as soon as I woke up this morning and was hoping so hard that it would have worked for you. I'm so so sorry. Everyone who's ever had a negative knows exactly how you are feeling and it's completely sh**e (sorry!) and no-one can make it any better, even though we all wish we could take your hurt away.

I'm sending you a big hug and lots of love, and I know that you'll get through this with your treasured family.
lots of love, Sally xxx

pauline69 · Post by **pauline69** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 12:08 pm

Dear Debra

I'm so very sorry to read your news. Nothing I say can help but know that I'm thinking of you. Take care of yourself & DH.

Love Pauline xx

camilla · Post by **camilla** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 12:43 pm

Dear Debra

After all the positivity it doesn't seem fair. Just wanted to say thinking of you and take care.

Love Camilla xx

DebraP · Post by **DebraP** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 1:39 pm

Finally, finally we have closure. Clinic confirmed -ve result this afternoon and we can start to move on.

It's sad but not tragic. We did the very best we could, gave it 2 years and 6 futile attempts. I'll regret the ectopic most as we were so close but it wasn't meant to be.

I'll be around on the board for a bit longer but not forever. I need to start living for the here and now and stop every sentence from beginning with 'If we get pregnant again.....'.

Thank you, you've been amazingly supportive.
Debra.

Smita · Post by **Smita** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 2:13 pm

Debra,
I just wanted to say thanks for all the support you have given through your posts - it has helped me loads..
Wishing you sunshine, love, luck and laughter always..

smita

SallyP · Post by **SallyP** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:26 pm

Hi Debra,

Have you checked out Shell's friend's site - I post mainly over there now, that's why I haven't been on this board too much - might be of use/help/interest
Sending you love and light, S x

Claire · Post by **Claire** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 3:52 pm

Hi Debra,

I'm so sorry it's turned out like this for you because you so deserved it. I wish you all the very best for the path you decide to take next.
Take care,
love claire x

ogr1 · Post by **ogr1** » Fri Oct 21, 2005 4:26 pm

wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts..
and you are right about the if...

DebraP - Test Date 20th Oct

hi debra

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