The 30-40 Group

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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gailp
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Post by gailp »

Hi Cla, My IVF was cancelled due to severe OHSS, now doing a FET. My first 2 AF's came reasonably on time the 3rd however was 10 days late, I came on the day after I did a test, always brings it on :? I put it down to the drugs, but like you its strange the first 2 were ok. Hope your feeling ok :D

Hi to everyone else :D
me 38 DH 43 TTC 7.5 yrs. 1st IVF June 05 ended in severe OHSS never made it to ET. FET Nov 05 -ive. FET April 06 -ive FET June 06 OMG BFP
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Cla
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Post by Cla »

Cheers Gail - I was sure it was prob. the drugs but always nice to have some reassurance. I'll just have to be patient! Thing is the longer it stays away, the longer I'll have to wait to start my FET!!!!
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FET - Jan 06 - BFP!!!
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KTF
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Post by KTF »

Hi Girls,

I'm in too! "Just" 30.

Bit fed up today, :( had my first FSH test result back (hoping to do first cycle early next year). It was 8.1. I know it is in the "normal" range but I was hoping for a great score. :oops: We are having treatment for MF (failed vas reversal) so I have never thought about my fertility before.

KTx
NickiMark
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Post by NickiMark »

Hi girls!!

Gail, can i ask? Did u have to pay for ur cancelled ivf?
apparently we have to pay for the scan still, but the rest is refunded... feeling a tad miffed at this....
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by gailp »

Hi Nicki,

With my IVF because I had the EC and they froze the embryos, by doing FET now it still counts as the same cycle, so no refund. However the clinic did tell me that if the cycle had to be cancelled before EC I would have got a part refund but I dont know how much.

Where has your PMA gone, you still have a good chance that your follie will grow, im crossing everything for you and praying that it has. Sending hugs and PMA to you xx
me 38 DH 43 TTC 7.5 yrs. 1st IVF June 05 ended in severe OHSS never made it to ET. FET Nov 05 -ive. FET April 06 -ive FET June 06 OMG BFP
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Post by NickiMark »

Thanx Gail, I am no longer with PMA, it went when i got my BFN in aug xx

Sorry, but I do feel low...it's geting to me now, just want my babe. x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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gailp
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Post by gailp »

Im so sorry your feeling so down. What times your appointment tomorrow?
me 38 DH 43 TTC 7.5 yrs. 1st IVF June 05 ended in severe OHSS never made it to ET. FET Nov 05 -ive. FET April 06 -ive FET June 06 OMG BFP
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NickiMark
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Post by NickiMark »

11am..... sorry, for being so low, just had tears with dh...why us?
Just feeling low because of a certain so called friend too.....
I have got a cuppa now, and will off to bed by 10 i think, parhaps tomorrow will bring happinesss
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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jkos
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Post by jkos »

Can I join this group too?? I'm 31 and am in the middle of my first IVF cycle -- I start stimms on 11/11. Not sure when to anticipate ER and ET?? any one have any idea?

Thanks for starting this thread -- it's one more place for us all to go.
jag
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Post by jag »

Hello ladies
I was 30 this year so I guess I''m in too!

Heh Nicki we were going to have a 30th Birthday party for you on line. We both came off the boards after our yucky time in Aug. Perhaps we should still have one. Cheer up hon but I know what you mean about PMA, we can be positive but quietly positive. It will be ok....

Cla - cycles!!! Tell me about it! My first cycle immediately after IVF came bang on 14 days after profasi. I was told my next cycle should be normal as there would still be drugs in my system - oh no I had to wait until day 54 before my cycle started!!! Crazy business. I think our systems are so messed up with the drugs they don't know what they are doing. I would go to the doctor sooner rather than later if only to put your mind at rest.

Jkos hope you are well. If you are starting stimms on 11th then maybe 10 days after for EC? It will all depend on your ultrasound and estradiol levels. Good luck!

Hi to everyone else and take care
:) JAG x
Me 30 DH 47 TTC 2.5 IUI Nov 04 -'ve
IVF Aug 05 -'ve 8 eggs 0 embies
ICSI - on 2ww and 11 frozen embies too!
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chanteq
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Post by chanteq »

Yey, count me in too, girlfriends!!

And a big, fat cyberhug Imageto everyone here in this thread...

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Me : 30yrs DH : 34yrs ttc : 5yrs
IVF : Aug 2005 > Unsuccessful

DECEMBER 2005 > PREGNANT!!! Natural Conception!!!
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NickiMark
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Post by NickiMark »

hi jag, u r right, the 30th party never happened..... not only on line but with friends too..... touchy subject friends let me down.... Not happy, one of them annouced she was preg, then all others couldnt get child cover, pissed me big time... more like everyone ignores me coz we are with out children.
Ended up just going out for a meal with my family, had the evening in with dh...OOOhhhh so exciting!!!

Oh well, never mind it's only a day....

chanteq, how's u? where r u with tmt?

Big Hi to every one else! Pam, Holly, Sue, stephanie, Gail, cla, Xristina, KTF,& jkos.

Xxxx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Cla
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Post by Cla »

Hi All!
Congrats Nicki - see all that PMA everyone was sending you rubbed off. Keep it up! I thought I'd try and do one of those lists I keep seeing on the other threads. I've tried to cobble together info. from this and other threads but have a memory like a sieve so feel free to change it accordingly!!!

Chanteeq - ?
Cla - FET in Jan. Waiting for af
Gailp - FET December
Holly - FET November (?!)
Jag - ICSI December
Jkos - Start stims 11/11
KT - IVF 2006 - testing (?!)
Nicki - DIUI - next scan 11/11
Pam - FET December(?!). Waiting for af
Stephanie - ER 6/11.
Sue e - FET Jan/Feb
Xristina - ?
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Hope your day is going well!
Cla
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Me: 35 DP : 38
1st time IVF - Aug/Sept 05 -ve
FET - Jan 06 - BFP!!!
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rachel1
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Post by rachel1 »

great idea for a new thread. i'm 33 so i'd like to join you girls. this is my first ivf cycle and i just started stimming yesterday. i'm hoping to have ER towards the end of next week if all goes well. i had a nightmare last night that my fsh levels had shot through the roof to some ridiculously high level, i guess it's because i'm a bit worried about my 10. so ktf don't worry about 8.1, it's really good.

sorry to hear you're down nicki. i kinda know what you mean about friends with babies. i recently went to my friend's daughter's birthday party and none of the other mothers were interested in talking to me once they heard i wasn't in their club. it's just an extension of the singles hanging out with singles, couples with couples mentality. oh well..... their loss!!
hang on in there. things always get better.

good luck to all you ladies.

rachel

Chanteeq - ?
Cla - FET in Jan. Waiting for af
Gailp - FET December
Holly - FET November (?!)
Jag - ICSI December
Jkos - Start stims 11/11
KT - IVF 2006 - testing (?!)
Nicki - DIUI - next scan 11/11
Pam - FET December(?!). Waiting for af
Rachel - IVF november
Stephanie - ER 6/11.
Sue e - FET Jan/Feb
Xristina - ?
smokeroni
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Post by smokeroni »

Hi all,

Cla - the list looks good. It is nice to see where everyone is at.

Nicki - sorry to hear about your birthday party. That can be very hard when someone announces they are pregnant. I hope you are doing well.
I read your other post and hear your follie grew!! I am so happy. I am doing the happy dance. Let us know what friday does.

chanteq - welcome to the thirties group.

jag - where are you at with your cycle?

jkos - sending you lots of babydust.

ktf- hoping your numbers are ok to go in the early part of next year.

gailp - when are you going through your FET?

Good luck to all,

Hugs.
Pam
Pam 36 DH 45 and DS 19 months old
7 DIUI / IVF's -ve
1 DIUI +ve DS 19 months old
DIUI cancelled for March, hopefully a go ahead in April
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