nov. 12th test date,really nervous!!

Jeni Babes · Post by **Jeni Babes** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:28 am

GOOD LUCK with today's test Tony........hope you and Dw have a BIG smile on your faces

Love
jen
xxx

gailp · Post by **gailp** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 11:03 am

Good luck to you and your DW today Tont, thinking of you both

amfy · Post by **amfy** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 12:51 pm

Good Luck Tony and DW. Thinking of you and holding my breath!

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 5:08 pm

All the best toni, how r u? x x

souris · Post by **souris** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 8:55 pm

Tony,

hope you are both alright, any news?

take care
souris
xxx

tony · Post by **tony** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 9:37 pm

hello all,first let me thank you for your love and support,after about 5 hours of waiting we got the call ,but unfortunately the test came out negative....yep..so right now we fill like some one close to us has died...
this is the worst felling ,i can't stop tinking why ,i mean all the nurses and doctors where positive about this,they made fell us really good and at the end we are the one that lost.
Is like God don't whant to send us kids yet or not at all,maybe God has different plans for us ,maybe he whant us to adopt kids so that they will have a chanse in life once they get a new family....
anyway ....i just can't belive how strongs some of you are, 4, 5,6 failure
and still hopping ???i don't know how you guys do it .See this is what we need to be like you keep on going strong and never give up hope, but is hard really really hard ..........

Tony C

janiesgirl · Post by **janiesgirl** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 10:54 pm

I'm so sorry to hear that Tony! I know how devastating it is. But don't give up! Our first try didn't work either - we were totally unprepared for the let down. On the bright side - you've just gone through your first cycle, you know what it's all about now, what to expect as far as the schedule, the meds and the anticipation...so next time it will be a lot easier. Looking back on my own experience - and knowing how you are feeling right now - we were able with the second cycle to focus more on each other and because we knew exactly what we were doing, it was so much easier - and it worked!

So don't give up! Lots of hugs to you & your wife!

janiesgirl · Post by **janiesgirl** » Sat Nov 12, 2005 10:54 pm

I'm so sorry to hear that Tony! I know how devastating it is. But don't give up! Our first try didn't work either - we were totally unprepared for the let down. On the bright side - you've just gone through your first cycle, you know what it's all about now, what to expect as far as the schedule, the meds and the anticipation...so next time it will be a lot easier. Looking back on my own experience - and knowing how you are feeling right now - we were able with the second cycle to focus more on each other and because we knew exactly what we were doing, it was so much easier - and it worked!

So don't give up! Lots of hugs to you & your wife!

DeniseM · Post by **DeniseM** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 12:19 am

Tony,

It's tough, I know. I think we've all been down there at some point. Keep your options open... tomorrow will already feel better than today does, and then you can start to decide what to do next.

You're in my thoughts!

tony · Post by **tony** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 2:14 am

well janiesgirl actually this is the 2nd time,and yes we had a little more experience and we had mutch better embys ,so if this did not work , what will??

Smita · Post by **Smita** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 3:51 am

Tony,
Sending you and dw hugs..
Also sending prayers up for you that your time WILL come.. God has his plans, and the sun will shine on you too as well.

hugs,
smita

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 8:39 am

sorry to hear that, hugs to u xx

leigh · Post by **leigh** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 9:16 am

Tony
So sorry it was negative. You don't need to worry about being strong right now, you cry for your loss, being strong will come back to you when you and DH are ready.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Jeni Babes · Post by **Jeni Babes** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 9:42 am

So sorry to hear your news........
please, Give yourself time to heal you grief, before even thinking of what the next step is....you are allowed to be angry and to cry.

Loving hugs
jen
xxx

souris · Post by **souris** » Sun Nov 13, 2005 11:04 am

Tony,

lots of love.

Take care
keep faith

souris
xxx

nov. 12th test date,really nervous!!

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