JENI(BABES) - TEST DATE 3 OR 5 DEC

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annieb
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Post by annieb »

Oh b****r!

I am so sorry, it is just so unfair.

Take care, Annie x
me 34 dh 42 TTC 4 yrs
No periods - maybe PCOS (docs undecided)
Laparoscopy/ovarian drilling/Clomophene unsuccessfull
IVF march 05 - abandoned poor response
IVF may/june 05 -ve
IVF Oct/Nov 05 -ve
End of the IVF road for us - had enough!
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elleR
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Post by elleR »

Jen,

Likewise I too got a BFN. Let's hang in there ok? Take care, elleR
IVF/ICSI 4/05 ; m/c at 7wks
DIUI x 5 BFN =(
IVF/ICSI 7/06 BFP =)
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NickiMark
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Post by NickiMark »

Oh no!!! Jen, I really thought u' do it too!!! I guess that fat lady was singing yourway too!!!

Arghhh!!! I am really sad for you too, I know where u are at, but trust me it does get better, have a good cry!! It helps to cry!!! OMG I am crying for you too, and for Elle, and MLG and AMfy..... All of us tetsing within a week and got BFN..... :cry: this is terriable......

Love you all and hugs to Jen, xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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amfy
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Post by amfy »

Jeni!

I am so sorry. I was really hoping you were going to be the one to break the run of bad luck. It was a week ago today I got my BFN, I am starting to feel more normal now so that I don't cry anytime anyone asks how I am or shows me the slightest sympathy.

I found that it didn't really sink in for about 12 hours and the hours 12-36 were the worst time. From there it has been a steady plod back to where I was before this started. I'm just saying this so that you know that when it feels terrible, it will be passing.

Look after yourself, i'm thinking of you.
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Terri2
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Post by Terri2 »

so sorry Jen
take care
Love Terri
TTC 2 years
Me 33 DH 44
Clomid 6 months - no success
HyCoSy in October - diagnosed PCOS
April 2006 Menopur - worked 3rd month with acupuncture
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NickiMark
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Post by NickiMark »

Just sending you some more Hugs. keep smiling. love ya xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Jeni Babes

Post by Jeni Babes »

Hi guys

you are all so wonderful

Amfy- thanks for that i am still in shock...i had a good cry about an hour ago, but i feel so distant from everything.

Nicki- you are wonderful thank you for all the hugs and support

elle and MLG- I guess this time we aint gonna be bump buddies.

maud & penny hope you guys get the BFP we all want for you.

Adam and I are waiting for a good 3-4 months before trying again...just to get the drugs out of my system... and have some time before going through it all again....

thank you all my Buddies for the hugs and love... you guys are great :)

Love
jen
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LittleP
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Post by LittleP »

Jen

You take care of yourself and indulge over the next few months.

I'm still so shocked by your news - big hugs sweetie.

Little P
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DeniseM
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Post by DeniseM »

Jen, so sorry.

Hugs from Canada. Hope that the sun comes out again for you soon.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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lolajones
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Post by lolajones »

Jen
I'm so sorry to hear your news and am thinking of you. You deserve better, man we all do! Thank you for your messages of support - it really makes a difference.
Take care of yourself and it will happen!

Lots of love, Lola
xxxx
me 39 dh 41
2 ivf, 3 fets - 2 bfn, 3 bfp (1 ectopic, 2 m/c @ 9wks and 12 wks)
3rd fresh ivf - bfp, fingers crossed
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MLG
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Post by MLG »

Dear Jen

I'm SOO sorry. Image I really wished you a great big BFP!
Hang in there and don't give up, We'll be back in a few months
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smokeroni
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Post by smokeroni »

Jen - I am so sorry for your news. I am so sad for you. Please take the time and enjoy DH and yourselfs company.


Hugs,
Pam
Pam 36 DH 45 and DS 19 months old
7 DIUI / IVF's -ve
1 DIUI +ve DS 19 months old
DIUI cancelled for March, hopefully a go ahead in April
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Smita
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Post by Smita »

Jeni,
You just have to be phoenixes and rise again rejuvenated..
I can only send you love and hugs..
December sure has had a depressing beginning..
Just get sloshed- maybe that'd help numb the pain..

smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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Jeni Babes

Post by Jeni Babes »

Thanks again everyone....

I did a test this morning it was negative...surprise eh! ( sarcasm suits me today!!!)

I slept for 2 hrs and wakened up with nightmares at 2 am...4am and 6.30am. I Cried buckets and now i think i can face the day... :)

Df and i are going away for the day to Bonnie Loch Lomond for some time together walking with nature...they have a beautiful hotel there that sells does some great hot chocolate with mashmallows mmmnnn!!!
so i will catch up with you all later.

thanks for all the fantastic support you guys have given me...you lot are so apecial
take care Elle & MLG...
love jen
xxx
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Smita
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Post by Smita »

Jeni,
We love u lots..
enjoy the hot choclate.
Bounce back and give it all back to life.

hugs
smita
me-32, dh 40
ttc 4+ years
4 failed IUI's
1st ICSI +ve 17/6/05:)
Baby girl Dhruvaa born on 14/02/06
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