KARENSMIFF - TEST DATE 11 DEC

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Post by AMck »

Only one more sleep !

Hang in there and step away from the hpt!!!

Wishing you a BFP tomorrow :D Baby dust your way in a bucket!!!

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Post by KarenSmiff »

I am not feeling as positive now :(

I did a sneaky test (predictor) on 13dpt (evening) & 14dpt (morning)and both said neg :( So i am guessing that is what it will say tomorrow also.
DH said it was probably not such a sensitive test, so I have bought two First response tests now, will do one tomorrow (test day), but the dr said if AF doesnt arrive, test again 18dpt !!!! aaarrrhhh - prolonging my agony even further!

I am obviously hoping that the predictor was a crap test, and not sensitive enough (says result on day period due i think), but I may be clutching at straws...I was gonna say one more sleep ! but then it will be another three more sleeps if still negative and no AF tomorrow!


AAAArrrhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Good luck to everyone else - and thanks all for my good luck wishes too

4th and final ICSI
Me 31 Poor responder, DH 37 failed vasect.reversal.
1st ICSI 3 eggs, 1 embie - neg
2nd ICSI 4 eggs, 3 embies - neg
3rd ICSI 5 eggs, only 1 egg mature, 1 x embie -POS, Miscarried early may 04 at 9 wks
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Oh I am sorry that the hot said -ive. Hang on in there dear, hugs to you xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by LittleP »

Fingers crossed that tomorrow delivers you more positive news.

Take care

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Post by elleR »

Karen,

Hang in there. Wishing you a BFP!
IVF/ICSI 4/05 ; m/c at 7wks
DIUI x 5 BFN =(
IVF/ICSI 7/06 BFP =)
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Post by Jen1d »

:lol: Good luck Karen, its not over yet

Love Jen x
me 38 dh 38, ttc for 6yrs,
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Post by taylorjools »

Hi Karen

just wanted to tell you that it is worth waiting. I have a friend on another board who had a beta of 6 on test day so she couldn't test +ve with a HPT until about day 18/19 post transfer so keep up the PMA and the "2ww" good behaviour OK???

sending you special baby dust

Love and hugs

bigJ 8)
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Post by Smita »

Wishing you lots of luck for today


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Good Luck Karen xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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Post by KarenSmiff »

The fat lady has sung ....it is all over

BFN for me I am afraid - why is life such a ***** sometimes? aarrrhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Still no AF and boobs really sore - doc said I must carry on with pessaries and re-test Tues - but as we all know, 99.99999999% sure it is a non runner.

This was my final attempt -
at the age of 32 and three quarters, 6 yrs ttc, 4 Icsi, 2 abandoned, 1 m/c, and £20,000 down the drain - we have decided that enough is enough. No more baby making. I know dh would let me carry on, but I cant stand this heartache of a roller coaster any more. I just need to focus on the good things in my life and try to be the best wicked step mother there is !

Its a sad thought, not ever being a mum, or holding your own baby in your arms, having grand children etc and brings tears to my eyes at the thought, but I must be thankfull for what I have got and not what I havent.
Ive just had a horrible thought....means I will have to work for the next 30 years - oh my god ...where's the cliff!!!

I would never ever leave my dh because of his sperm problem - I love him too much. He texted me yesterday "weve got eachother babe".

GOOD LUCK to every one else out there.

Love from me
Me 31 Poor responder, DH 37 failed vasect.reversal.
1st ICSI 3 eggs, 1 embie - neg
2nd ICSI 4 eggs, 3 embies - neg
3rd ICSI 5 eggs, only 1 egg mature, 1 x embie -POS, Miscarried early may 04 at 9 wks
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Post by ogr1 »

i am so sorry...
are you guys going to look at any other options?
but there may still be some hope if they want you to re test on teus!!
if you need a ear i am here
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by DeniseM »

So sorry this didn't work out for you. It's so disappointing when you hit a wall like that.

Are you thinking of adopting a baby?
You're in my thoughts and prayers. Take care.
IUI twins ~ July 2006
IUI singleton ~ due Jan 15 2009
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Post by MLG »

So very sorry for you. :cry: :(
Please take time to grieve, :cry: then think your options through. :?
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Post by smokeroni »

Karen - I am so sorry that it did not work out for you. Please take some time to heal.

Thinking of you,
Pam
Pam 36 DH 45 and DS 19 months old
7 DIUI / IVF's -ve
1 DIUI +ve DS 19 months old
DIUI cancelled for March, hopefully a go ahead in April
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Post by Jeni Babes »

karen,
your story is heartbreaking...thinking of you sweetheart...
take some time for you and DH over the festivities...
love and hugs
jen
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