Belfast Hayley, in case you didn't see this...

KJ · Post by KJ » Thu Jul 03, 2003 1:53 pm

Hi Hayley, Amazing that your sis lives in Prosperous. I'm about 30 minutes away in the village of Maynooth. Any time you're down, let me know. I can meet you there or somewhere nearby or you could even come to our home. You'd be very welcome! My email address is karenmcmanus01@hotmail.com. It's yours to use whenever you need it. Looks like you have been through the mill too with the whole pregnancy process. I have a good friend (Dublin girl, I met on the Ectopic Pregnancy Boards) who is going through the mill of clomid and ttc-ing after two ectopics. She's finding it really difficult and it's playing havoc with her relationship with hubby. I've been spared the horror of officially ttc. I've been told I am endangering my life (I'm in the upper end of high-risk for ladies who have had ectopics because one tube is completely blocked and the other is just partially open) and my doctors have warned me that to try and have a baby on my own could kill me. Wasn't happy with this news and I rebelled, Tim and I continuing as we always did. Then the doctors go and prove they are right when last month I was taken back into hospital with a suspected second EP. Tim has now put the foot down and won't run the risk anymore. No unprotected BDing around ovulation! And that's his rule. So I've been spared, unlike my friend Ali, using clomid and getting hCG injections to stimulate ovulation. It's sad, but I've frogleaped that process and I suppose me and Tim have to concentrate on enjoying one another until November when it all kicks off. Hope haven't ranted on too long. Tim (38) and I (35) have been together nearly four years after meeting in Paris, wanted a baby for two. Not married, hoping to soon (very small/private, not a white wedding...) I work in Dublin for a newspaper, Tim has his own business. My family live in Newry, sister in Hollywood, Co Down! Lovely to hear from you, keep in touch. K xox

hayley · Post by **hayley** » Thu Jul 03, 2003 5:24 pm

hi karen sorry im only replying now! this is my busiest time of year at work as i have opened a travel agency and i'm working from 8am-11pm !!!! (think i need a holiday myself !) anyway, hope you are well...glad to hear you live near my sister, i'll let you know the next time im down and we can meet up. im feeling very pre-menstrual today so hopefully af will be on its way and i'll be able to start isci cycle soon. keep in touch lv hayley