FEBRUARY TEST DATE THREAD

Discussion group for all topics related to infertility including preparation for pregnancy, causes, investigation and treatment of infertility.
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maybebaby
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Post by maybebaby »

Dear all

Thank you so much for all your comments and help - it is so nice to talk to others who are going through the process and who understand how important every little occurrence is!! ... and sorry that my posts have been a bit depressing.

Well - I now have to admit that my bleeding is sooo heavy that this cannot be anything other than AF ... so - i am admitting defeat and putting myself down as a BFN for this month :cry: BUT - I think DP and I will try again as soon as poss and next time I will go for the bed rest and try and avoid the food poisoning :shock: - next time will be BFP ... yaaayyy :lol: :lol: :lol:

At least with the food poisoning I have lost 3Kg :D - good inspiration for finally getting down to that ever elusive diet - have also decided to join the gym and really get my body in shape for next time!

Sooo - I will stay around on the thread as I can't wait to hear how everyone else gets on ... it may not have been my month this month but I know there is going to be good news for lots of you waiting - sending you all heaps of babydust and tons of positive news....

Joanna and Gabriella ... GO FOR THOSE BFPs tomorrow!!!..... let us know asap!!

Hugs to you all and thanks again

maybebaby
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sue e
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Post by sue e »

Maybebaby

So sorry to read your news but i am really pleased that you have kept your fighting spirit and with that determination YOU WILL get your hearts desire.

Sending you hugs, Image

love

sue e xx
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maybebaby
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Post by maybebaby »

Thanks Sue

I thought I would start the results list for this month ... hoping to see lots of smiley faces!

Joanna - 1st Feb
Gabriella - 1st Feb
Gregmbarry - 2nd Feb
Cla - 3rd Feb
Carly - Feb 3rd
Maybebaby - 3rd Feb .... BFN :cry:
Saraid - 8th Feb
Chellejaya - 9th Feb
Paula - Feb 11th
Maryjane - 13th Feb
Kelly - Feb 13th
Kate - Feb 14th
Randa - Feb 16th
Laura - Feb 16th (?)
Sophie - Feb 22nd
Tracii - Feb 26th
Charlie - feb 26th
Ramona - Feb 29th
Crystal - ???????
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LittleP
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Post by LittleP »

Maybebaby

I'm so sorry to see your news - sending loads of hugs your way. Your positivity is a credit to you and shows what a strong and determined you are.

Good luck with everything and fingers crossed you get your wish very, very soon.

Good luck to all you February ladies.

Little P
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paulag
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Post by paulag »

Maybebaby
I'm so sorry to hear your news. My heart is with you and your determination and positive approach is inspiring! It will get you what you want. Its a long journey and you've got so many chances left.

This is my second try, and I'm feeling so much more relaxed about it. I think I need to give a lot of credit to Zita West and her amazing book. Maybebaby, if you havent read it, you should give it a go for next time round. It has some brilliant advice and its so easy to read.
I'm glad to hear you're going to stick around though, we need your support and graciousness!

lots of luck and baby vibes to everyone!
Paula
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Post by saraid »

Dear Maybebaby,

Huge hugs to you. It is dissapointing for you but not the end of the road and wiht your attitude i am sure it will work out for you. Kep mus posted with what you are up to.

Saraid
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Post by Cla »

Maybebaby,
So sorry to hear about af. I'm sorry that it wasn't your turn. Great to see that you can take some positives away from the experience. I think if we allowed ourselves to get too pulled down then it would be too tough to get back up again. Take care and be kind to yourself.

As for me, having said I had no symptons yesterday, have been having af cramps myself since last night. Also quite a bit of discharge (tmi :oops: :oops: ) and am pretty sure af will arrive before test date. I know that sounds like my pma has left me and I've got a bout of the negatives but honestly it's not. I think the one thing this whole experience has taught me is how to read my body better. I really had no idea before but now I am much more aware. I think it's telling me that my turn isn't here either.
Of course there is always a story where the ending turns out happy, but I don't think I'm on that page just yet?? Will just have to wait and see.
Soz - that turned into a very selfish post.

To all those testing this month - very best of luck to you all.

Cla
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Post by Smita »

Maybebaby,
I'm so sorry this wasnt your time- I am amazed at your positivity and am sure next time will be your time!

hugs,
smita.


Cla,
hang in there
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Hi Everyone

Wow - I am overwhelmed at your kindness - thank you all so much.

Cla ... don't give up now - only a couple of days to go - it is really difficult to stay positive when you are so full of hope but also preparing yourself for possible disappointment but I have read comments from so many people on these boards who have had cramps and discharge :oops: and still had a positive result - stick with it .... am sending lots of positive vibes.

Paulag - thanks for the book advice - I will get on to Amazon and give Zita a go .. anything that helps you to relax during all this is certainly extremely welcome - giving up wine, cigarettes and other enjoyable vices :wink: for what seems like forever has not helped my relaxation status!! My poor DP is not going to know what has hit him this weekend once AF has gone (sorry tmi :oops: but there has to be some consolation to a failed attempt!!)

Once again - many thanks to everyone for your thoughts and loads of luck for all the Feb testing team - take care all.

Maybebaby
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Post by gregmbarry »

maybebaby -

Sorry to hear the news :(

Things will work out. I heard a quote that has stuck with me for years. Everything will be okay in the end - if it's not okay - it's not the end. So you still have a few more miles in you!! I know you've heard it a million times like I have from family and friends - but if we didn't have faith....and it sure sounds like you do :) Good luck in your future path!!!
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Evening everyone,

Has anyone else experienced abdominal pain that feels like you have been doing sit-ups? Very odd as have not exercised for a while and as i have been mostly horizontal since ET on 25th Jan find this rather bizarre :?

Bloating has practically dissapeared and no boob tenderness either just tender in centre of lower abdomen a few inches below belly button. Maybe sub conciously doing sit-ups in sleep as aghast at fat belly!

A BFP :P :P is what we need for Joanna and Gabriella tomorrow - everything is crossed for you both.

Saraid
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2#FET Sep 08 BFN
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Post by AMck »

Sending good luck to Joanna and Gabriella for tomorrow. Let's see 2 BFP's!!!

Baby dust to you both
Anna x
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Post by sophie »

Maybebaby - so sorry that this time wasn't what you hoped for. I am sad to hear your news. I hope you and DH work through the dissapointment. Love and best wishes to you both.....

Cla - you never know what's around the corner. I've read from lots of ladies who get the cramp and PMT symptoms only for them to get BFP! It still could happen!

Best of luck to Jo & Gabriella for tomorrow. Roll on BFP's!!!!

Hope we soon hear a BFP from Jackie.

Lots of love, Sophie x
Pituitary Tumour, PCOS
'01 - DD born
'02 - miscarriage
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IVF '05 - OHSS 13 embies frozen
FET, Feb06 - negative
FET, April06 - cancelled 2 days before ET
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Post by gregmbarry »

Hi all,

Just a quick note to let you all know that I won't be able to post the results of my test on Thursday until Friday morning. I'll be in a meeting out of town when I receive my results....so I'm praying it's a HUGE BFP so I can finish in the meeting! Will post as soon as I get to work on Friday though!
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Post by maryjane »

MAybe baby,

Sorry for your loss. I admire you as I have taken the strength from you to go on. My thoughts are with you. I relly believe that evrything happens for a reason. Your time will come. x x x

Does anyone know what the Zita West book is called..??

MAry
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