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charlie77 · Post by **charlie77** » Sun Jan 29, 2006 9:17 pm

lol nicki mark i hav no idea wot you just said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
told you i wa a dunce lol
my brain hurts now

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Mon Jan 30, 2006 4:34 pm

Hi guys,

Think it's a great idea for our gorgeous DH's to have a chat.

We start our next cycle at the end of Feb then i'm sure my DH will want someone to chat too as he asked the last time but there was no men around. Will get him to have a look for support then.

Good luck to you all

Love Jen x

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Mon Jan 30, 2006 4:44 pm

Forgot to say, Charlie77, i'm in your camp. Have tried to get the cool emoticons too but can't figure out how to do it.

When i go on the site the emoticons don't appear when you click on them. Please explain again for the less gifted in the brain department when it comes to computers.

Thanks guys

Love Jen x

charlie77 · Post by **charlie77** » Mon Jan 30, 2006 6:38 pm

hey jen1d
yea no problems get your dh to giv me a shout some time and we can talk bout how stressfull it all is and how sore our ovaries are and stuff lol
thats the funny thing for me we dont get that much bad stuff to do we get no aches no pains no injections no mood swings (which im sure charlie just uses as an excuse to shout at me lol

) we dont hav to have our insides hurt to get eggs out we dont hav to put up with sore inards for days then hav to go back in to have eggs put back into our sore bits infact all we have to do is well you know wot we hav to do and its not exactly back breakingly hard work is it but we are here for our Dw's thats all we can do and thats wot we do i think its the least we can do to be fair
as fr the the animations i hav not a clue its past me by (like many things do lol) i was told how to do it by some1 but if anything im more confused now but hey its how i live ny life permanantly confused
talk soon richard

BevT · Post by **BevT** » Mon Jan 30, 2006 9:38 pm

charlie77 wrote:
im sorry to hear about you guys losing a baby it must be awful to go through all the weks of treatment and then to get pregnant then to lose your baby

richard x

Hi Richard,

Just to explain a bit more, all my pregnancies have been through natural conception, since we lost our precious little girl, due to my then advancing years (I was 43 when she was born), we went for IVF as I thought it would be automatic, and of course it would work, because after all I'd been pregnant before - it wasn't as if I had never conceived before. It would be a piece of cake. How wrong I was. We had 2 cycles, both unsuccessful, with very poor follicle response on my part. DH's sperm was fine, but the prognosis from the consultant was that because of my age (again) my eggs were obviously poor quality (although we did end up with 2 x grade 2 embies for transfer). The clinic said that they would not consider any more treatment for us (because of my age) and recommended the only way forward for us was with donor eggs. So I'm on the waiting list in the UK, and have been for 15 months, but just recently, thanks to the wonderful girls on this site, have been considering going to either Barcelona or Kiev for egg donor treatment. Haven't quite got there yet, as it's a bit difficult to pin down DH at the mo, due to other family problems (elderly Dad being abused by his elderly wife - my stepmother, not my mum).

We will get there in the end, I am positive! Just need to tackle one thing at a time.

Richard, don't feel too bad about not having to go through all the injections, the painful ovaries, the uncomfortable proceedures and the undignafied positions we find ourselves in, after all, we could NOT do it without our DH's.

Take care ,

LOL Bev xxx

charlie77 · Post by **charlie77** » Mon Jan 30, 2006 10:41 pm

hey bev
my heart goes out to you both it must be awful
it is stupid that you have to go abroad to get donor eggs isnt it
i suppose its a lot worse now that the law has changed as far as confidentiality is concerned for the donor
charlie was up for being an egg donor when we first started out on this road and we were all ready to go ahead but we had to go for some counciling first and the lady we saw was not the nicest of people to be honest she asked a lot of very tough questions of us and in the end she said that she would reckomend that we were not ready to go ahead with donor scheme it took a while to get that all sorted out but we did in the end
chalrie decided that she wanted to be a donor but only if she could be guaranteed confidentiality so that meant we would have to do it before the law changed which we were told would be fine but in the end they took too long and the chance was lost
my guess is that a lot of women feel the same now that they only want to do it if they can be sure that there will be no come backs in the years to come
but anyway i will keep my fingers crossed for u guys and if i were you i would get on the first plane out there and get your self pregnant after all thats wot we are all striving for huh?

take care and talk soon
richard

Smita · Post by **Smita** » Tue Jan 31, 2006 4:53 am

http://www.cheesebuerger.de/smilie.php? ... =froehlich

Jen and Richard,
Just click on this link.
You'll get to the site- when you find the smiley you want(there are loads in different categories under headings on the left hand side) click on the smiley you want , its code will appear in the box underneath all the others on the same page.
Go to the box,highlight the code, right-click your mouse, you should see copy, press copy
Now come back to this forum, to your reply box, and right-click- you should see paste, click on paste, and that code should get pasted.

Paste it in the middle of whichever sentence you want to paste it.
.
You can preview your post to see if what you did has worked.

Also,
Just go to your 'Profile' on the top in this forum, when you log in and check under preferences that 'smilies' are ON, BB code is ON that is, enabled, both in your signature, and then under your preferences.
Thats about it..

I really hope this works.

smita

charlie77 · Post by **charlie77** » Tue Jan 31, 2006 9:47 pm

[img]http://www.cheesebuerger.de/images/smil ... h/a010.gif[/img]
hopr its worked lol

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Wed Feb 01, 2006 6:06 pm

Hi smita

Thanks for your help but as soon as i go into the link and click on a topic of smilie i want nothing comes up. There are no smilies to chose from, it only gives a list of smilies but nothing happens when i click on one.
Thanks for being so patient but this is driving me mad.AAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Love Jen x

Smita · Post by **Smita** » Thu Feb 02, 2006 3:38 am

Jen,
Thats weird!
Do u see the smilies?I hope you do- do u see a narrow box below all the smilies at least? thats where the code should pop up whe u just click once on any of the smilies.
Let me know..
If its the smilies you cant see, then theres some other problem, whoch is too tech for me I"m afraid..If you can see the smilies, then we can figure it out.

Richard,
I think you need to go to your profile(top of each page of this forum), and enable BB code etc.

hope this helps,
smita

NervousHubby · Post by **NervousHubby** » Thu Feb 02, 2006 8:17 pm

It is so great to see some many of us DH's here. My DW and I just transferred 2 blastocysts on 1/30/06. We find out on the 13th. This 2ww is just miserable. My DW refuses to believe that this is going to work since everything has failed. She also keeps thinking that every twitch of her body means her AF is going to start. I wish so much that she could transfer some positive energy to our 2 little embryos that are trying to hold on. Once again, glad to see everyone here.

BevT · Post by **BevT** » Fri Feb 03, 2006 9:47 am

Hi Nervous Hubby,

try not to worry about your DW and put twice as much positive energy in for her as well. I guess she is trying to "protect" herself in case it is negative. Speaking as one who every single month feels ALL the twinges and imagines all sorts of signs, from AF cramps to morning sickness twinges etc etc I can say that when you are so desperate to become pregnant, us gals do feel absolutely every little twinge. Just hang on in there and support each other.
Everyone here will be sending you lots of PMA and "baby dust". Does your wife post on the boards?

Take care
LOL Bev xxx

Jen1d · Post by **Jen1d** » Fri Feb 03, 2006 5:26 pm

Smita - Thanks for your help but think it must be a tech problem as there are no codes or smilies. Don't worry, would rather have you guys for support than some jumping smilies.

Catch up soon

Love Jen x

NickiMark · Post by **NickiMark** » Fri Feb 03, 2006 10:32 pm

Hi, how are the dh's today???

Looking fwd to a good week-end??? whats happening???

charlie77 · Post by **charlie77** » Sat Feb 04, 2006 5:38 pm

hey all
first off can i welcome nervoushubby to DH united and say that i hope all is well with you and your DW we have not yet got to the 2ww but its not too far away now must be very hard to think of anything but babys i think bets bet is probably just give in to it think all you like hell enjoy the thought that you might be pregnant i doubt very much wether this will make the pain of finding out you are not pregnant any worse obvioulsy we hope you all never have to feel that pain though so enjoy it and hey the possitivity flowing through you both cant be a bad thing surely

hey nkkiandmark
hope you are both well
sorry we not been on much computer broke!!!!!!!!!
wot timing lol

we were at hospital fri and after 7 days off stims we hav approx 8-9 folicles whci i thought was quite good but has upset DW a bit poor thing she only 23 so they got her on very low doseage only 150 a day wot are all the rest of u guys on at the moment they refused to put her dose up as they worry about ohss and we back at hosp on mon so hopefully will be a few more follicles for her sake hope you are all ok speak soon
richard

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