Susan (Sat14)...You can stick around your whole cycle, if you like, Sweetie...Afterall, I'm technically a January, but am sticking with my Feb gals, just cause I know this is the place for me...
I'm so sorry again about your BFN. Life isn't fair right now, but I seriously believe there is a balance in nature. Where bad things happen, good things happen. Sounds a bit sappy, I know, and I'm not usually a silver-lining kind of gal, but it is something I
really do believe.
I do know what you mean about emersing yourself in work. And it sounds like a good idea for a while, but please please please don't let this one BFN get the best of you. You're tougher than that, and that baby is needing you to be strong!!
Hey! My husband sends a message...He said you should "put out" to that poor dh of yours!!

He's such a romantic!! Actually he said I need to "put out"!

Seriously though, I think I know how you're feeling about the whole intimacy thing (last thing on your mind right now), but when you are able to get to that place with one another again, and have some pillow talk time, sometimes that's where my best and most intimate conversations happen with my dh. I'm not sure if that works for you both, but maybe that's what you two actually need. Some alone time to just be lovers again. I might be stickingn my nose in where it doesn't belong, but I hope I didn't make you uncomfortable. I think it's something we all deal with. I know during my first cycle my dh wasn't a happy camper having to wait for three days before the collection, and another two weeks after...He was a real trooper though. I am convinced men have physical "needs". I'm not one of those push-over women, either, but I really do think they do have physical needs that are different from most women...I'm babbling at this point, so I'll shut-up, but I think you understand what I'm saying...Anyway, dear, I think you need a big hug from dh, and big drink from the bartender, long massage from a hot Swedish guy, and a long talk with the old man and I think you'll feel like a new woman...
You take care sweetie, thank you for your compliment, and I'm glad you're here regardless if you're in the mood to look ahead just yet...You take care and know we all are here for you...