Souris
I really don't know what to say, I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself
xx
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You have always been so kind to us all..I am so sorry to hear your sad news..damn it!
Take care, take time.
thoughts are with you
Fingers Crossed
Take care, take time.
thoughts are with you
Fingers Crossed
DH. 32 ME. 30 DH HAD MUMPS VERY LOW COUNT. ME NO PROBLEMS BUT HARD TO STIMULATE..WE THINK!
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2 X MEDICATED DIUI AUG/SEP 06- BFN
1 X DIUI WITH CLOMID OCT 06 BFP..M/C 9 WEEKS
4 X ICSI - 2 X BFN 2 X BIO CHEMICAL 2001-2006
2 X MEDICATED DIUI AUG/SEP 06- BFN
1 X DIUI WITH CLOMID OCT 06 BFP..M/C 9 WEEKS
Oh Souris honey I am so sorry! I had the same thing happen to me, but just a little earlier than yours... There is nothing that will ease your pain right now and I just want you to know that I am thinking of you and DH... When this happened to me my brother said something to me that gave me some comfort and I don't know what you believe or don't believe but maybe you will find some comfort in this too... "We are here on this earth for a short time, but we will be in heaven for enternity and you will have enternity with your little angel"...
Take care honey...
Lots of love and prayers
Jessica
Take care honey...
Lots of love and prayers
Jessica
Jeck
1st IVF 3/06 lost @ 8w3d
FET 7/06 -ve
2nd IVF 10/06 lost @ 5w4d *8 Frosties Left
Became a Mommy through Adoption!!!!
1st IVF 3/06 lost @ 8w3d
FET 7/06 -ve
2nd IVF 10/06 lost @ 5w4d *8 Frosties Left
Became a Mommy through Adoption!!!!
Thank you all for your kind words and support. You are all such good friends, such a wonderful help through the treatment but also through bad times...
I still feel weird, very tired as I did not sleep much last night. Just after receiving the news yesterday, we meet some friends in a restaurant. I really wanted to be home to cry in peace, but I think it actually helped, it pushed me not to feel sorry for myself (at least not as much as I would have done on my own), I also had 3 whisky, which I guess also helped a lot!
I met my RE today, I asked her to book me for the D&C as soon as possible, so it will be on Thursday. I also contacted my IVF doc to tell her the news, and she told me I could start a new cycle 2 months after the miscarriage. So I am ready., in 2 month it will be. We have 4 sperm straws left, hopefully it will be enough to get pregnant again and having a healthy baby.
I do believe that mother nature did her best, stopping the life of a foetus who would have grown into a sick baby. I still do not understand how the baby could measure 9 weeks instead of 12, and still have a heartbeat at 11 weeks... I think it will be a mystery forever.
I thank you all, the ones who went through the same heartache, and the ones who tries to understand the pain .
I went to cut all my hair today, and changed the color as well, I feel really good and pretty, I also bought some new clothes. I cant wait Thursday to be over, so I can grieve properly. Dh has been a doll, but he feels bad that he cannot do nothing to ease my pain. I know he is sad too, but he is too worried for me to express his own sadness.
I am meeting the anaesthesist tomorrow, thank god it is a general one...
Thank you all
I love you
souris
xxx
I still feel weird, very tired as I did not sleep much last night. Just after receiving the news yesterday, we meet some friends in a restaurant. I really wanted to be home to cry in peace, but I think it actually helped, it pushed me not to feel sorry for myself (at least not as much as I would have done on my own), I also had 3 whisky, which I guess also helped a lot!
I met my RE today, I asked her to book me for the D&C as soon as possible, so it will be on Thursday. I also contacted my IVF doc to tell her the news, and she told me I could start a new cycle 2 months after the miscarriage. So I am ready., in 2 month it will be. We have 4 sperm straws left, hopefully it will be enough to get pregnant again and having a healthy baby.
I do believe that mother nature did her best, stopping the life of a foetus who would have grown into a sick baby. I still do not understand how the baby could measure 9 weeks instead of 12, and still have a heartbeat at 11 weeks... I think it will be a mystery forever.
I thank you all, the ones who went through the same heartache, and the ones who tries to understand the pain .
I went to cut all my hair today, and changed the color as well, I feel really good and pretty, I also bought some new clothes. I cant wait Thursday to be over, so I can grieve properly. Dh has been a doll, but he feels bad that he cannot do nothing to ease my pain. I know he is sad too, but he is too worried for me to express his own sadness.
I am meeting the anaesthesist tomorrow, thank god it is a general one...
Thank you all
I love you
souris
xxx
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Souris hun,
I am so sad for for you right now, give yourself time to greive, i will be thinking about you ....
So sorry hun ....
Hugzzzzzzzz
Becky Xxxx
I am so sad for for you right now, give yourself time to greive, i will be thinking about you ....
So sorry hun ....
Hugzzzzzzzz
Becky Xxxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP
m/c @ 8 wks 
4 IVF=BFNWe must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Adoption course starts March 19th
Dear Souris,
I am so sorry to hear your very sad news. The same thing happened to me last year on Nov 17th. The holidays are very difficult even now because I still don't have a baby to hold. It actually took me this long to decide to have another go at it which will be Jan. It sounds like you are ready to get right back in there & keep trying I think that's great. I wish I could have been so strong. Take care of yourself & allow yourself to "want your baby back" while keeping hope for whatever the future holds. God bless you Souris & all of us who have had to endure so much just to hold our precious children.
Pixiesmom
I am so sorry to hear your very sad news. The same thing happened to me last year on Nov 17th. The holidays are very difficult even now because I still don't have a baby to hold. It actually took me this long to decide to have another go at it which will be Jan. It sounds like you are ready to get right back in there & keep trying I think that's great. I wish I could have been so strong. Take care of yourself & allow yourself to "want your baby back" while keeping hope for whatever the future holds. God bless you Souris & all of us who have had to endure so much just to hold our precious children.
Pixiesmom
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Souris,
There are no words I can say that will make it any easier, it's a lonely place you are at. I just went through the same thing at 8 weeks and had my D&C on Friday. I still feel a little numb from it all but I too am not giving up. Keep that fighting spirit and take this time for you. It does get easier with time and this experience can only make you stronger. You are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie. Keep busy and cry when you need to, it's good to get it out.
I'm praying for strength for you each day and will be rooting for you when it's time to start over. I'll be right there with you! We are all here for you!
There are no words I can say that will make it any easier, it's a lonely place you are at. I just went through the same thing at 8 weeks and had my D&C on Friday. I still feel a little numb from it all but I too am not giving up. Keep that fighting spirit and take this time for you. It does get easier with time and this experience can only make you stronger. You are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie. Keep busy and cry when you need to, it's good to get it out.
I'm praying for strength for you each day and will be rooting for you when it's time to start over. I'll be right there with you! We are all here for you!
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Aimee
IVF #1 July 06 - BFP then m/c @ 5 weeks
IVF #2 Oct. 06 - BFP then m/c @ 8 weeks
IVF #3 Start end of Jan. 07
Aimee
IVF #1 July 06 - BFP then m/c @ 5 weeks
IVF #2 Oct. 06 - BFP then m/c @ 8 weeks
IVF #3 Start end of Jan. 07
oh Souris, I've just seen your post and I am so so sorry. I know that no words will take away the pain and the numbness. I've just been through it myself although much earlier and you just need to take time for yourself and your DH until you feel ready to come back fighting for another try and we will be with you each step of the way.
You know we are here for you if you need us.
Big hugs
Jackie (Nimble x)
You know we are here for you if you need us.
Big hugs
Jackie (Nimble x)
1st IVF - Sep 06 - +ve lost at 7wks
2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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2nd IVF/ICSI - Apr 07 BFN
BFP Naturally - m/c 12wks
3rd IVF/ICSI - Nov 07 - BFP!!
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Oh souris, this is so sad, i am so upset for u and dh, sending you lots of love and hugs.
I cant believe what a cruel world this is, i am shocked.
big hugs to you xx
I cant believe what a cruel world this is, i am shocked.
big hugs to you xx
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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