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souris
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Another little Angel on the board

Post by souris »

Dear all,

My baby died... There was no more heartbeat on my 12 weeks scan yesterday. Although we saw a heartbeat 5 days ago ( I asked for a quick scan because for some reason I was worried), the baby was measuring only 9/10 weeks, and the heart must have stop a few days back. We were not expecting that at all, big shock. I have not had any bleeding, lil one seems to like it up there, so a D&C is very recommended.
I feel numb, was hoping to wake up this morning from a bad nightmare...
I will be back on the board on the treatment side as soon as possible. Waiting again... and with a little space in my heart for my baby.

xxx
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Post by Dory »

Souris Sweetheart,

I am so very very sorry for your devastating news, I can't believe it.....

Nothing i can say, can take away the pain. I know it's hard to believe now, but it will ease in time, you never get over a lose like that but you learn to live with it.
If you need anything, anything at all, just shout.....

Again I'm so sorry
((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))
Take Care
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Post by LauraLou »

Souris,

I am so terribly sorry. How tragic to have gotten so far only to lose your baby. Please know I am thinking of you and your DH.

Laura
Me 38, DH 52
1st IVF 5/06- BFP m/c
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Post by Angie65 »

Souris - I am very sorry for your sad loss and hope the pain goes soon for you. We, your friends on the board are always here for you.
Me 39 PCO - TTC since Aug 05
2 IVF/ICSI, 2 FET. All BFN
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Post by HOLLY SANDERSON »

Souris I am so sorry
You are in my prayers
big hugs
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Post by shantala »

Souris

I dont know what to say - I am so terribly sorry. Please remember that we are all thinking of you and DH.

Great hugs

Shantala xxxxxxxxx
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Post by Ems1971 »

Souris
I am so sorry. Thinking of you and DH.
xxx
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Post by Casy P »

Souris- I was devasted to read your news. Can't imagine how you feel, but asending my thoughts and prayers to you and DH. Take care.
Me 29 DH 34
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1st IVF 04 BFP. Daughter born Feb 05
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Post by CarolynB »

My Dear Souris

I am so very very sad for you.

Nothing that I can say will help. But we are all here for you.

Sending you & your dh huge hugs.

Take very good care of yourself.
Lots of Love
Carolyn xxxx
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Post by Macca8 »

Oh Souris,

My heart hit my stomach when I read that. I am so so very sorry for you.
I had the same thing 10 years ago at 14 weeks. I had no bleeding either. It is so shocking and so cruel. I feel so very sad for you my love.

Here for you babe.
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Post by nictor »

Souris,im so so sorry for your loss,ive never been in your situation but i know people who have and they do say times a great healer,you'll never forget your baby,but god willing you'll soon have a baby in yout arms to take away all this pain..my love always..nicola.xx
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Post by Nance »

Souris,

I am so sorry to hear about your horrible news. All my prayers are with you and your DH to find the strength to get through this.

Nance
Me: 35
TTC: 2 yrs
1 Failed IUI - 7/06
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Post by sokru8 »

Souris
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't even imagine how devasted you must be. I will prayer for you and your husband in this difficult time. Take Care of Yourself
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Post by vicky77 »

Souris, I just can't believe what I just read, it is the worst nightmare, I know there is nothing I can say that will make you feel better, I just want you to know that we are all here for you, and that I wish you the best of luck with your next treatment!!!!
Vicky
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Post by pauline69 »

Souris

I'm so very sorry to read your news. My thoughts are with you both.

Pauline
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