I personally have no judgement about gender selection, I don't however think the point is about non-judgement. I think it is more about group dynamics.
It is a bit awkward joining a support group of women doing IVF for infertility if you are not indeed doing IVF for infertility currently. I don't think it is unreasonable that some women perceive that as insensitive. No offense meant, just trying to be real about it.
I genuinely wish you the best with your journey for family completion,
nicole
Me/DH 36
1 tube/low morph
TTC since 2008 only one spontaneous in 2012
Ivf 1-1/2009 DS
FET- miscarried
Ivf 2.- 10/11 DS
12/12 miscarried (spontaneous pregnant, so cliche minus the miscarriage part)
Now--- back to TTC at home in hopes for a final addition