Nice to hear from everyone and thanks for the good wishes
Mia,
I think you have taken the award for procrastination away from me!
Seriously, I fully understand. You know how confused I was about when to start and I was ready to jump on any excuse I possible could to hold off on things. I only decided to go ahead with this cycle kind of at the last minute because I knew that, between my AF taking so long to show up and the fact that I wanted to use bcp's first this time, that it could be months if I didn't just get moving. My other worry was who knew what else might end up coming up in the next few months that would have interfered and resulting in my having to push it off even further?! I guess the main factor behind my decision was that I was obsessing about the whole thing so much that I figured it would be better just to go ahead and see what happens. I know time off is healthy and needed at times but I knew in my mind that I would feel the exact same way about things months from now so waiting longer in my case was just not accomplishing anything....other than my getting older
At any rate, I'm happy to be able to back up what Paige has heard about frozen cycles. I have just completed my first week of estradiol tablets and feel perfectly fine. I haven't even had any bloating or weight gain or pains of any kind. My moods have been ok. The last few days of downregging and the first day or two of estradiol, I had a headache and moodiness but really very tolerable as it didn't last too long. I've also only had to go into the clinic once a week; not every other day like I did in the stim. part of my IVF. In comparison with the full IVF, this has been so much easier so far. I imagine one really great thing will be going into the transfer without all that leftover pain and discomfort from an EC. Anyway, you know I am not one to put a positive spin on things by any means

but this really hasn't been bad so far. Of course, my doses increase next week so I'll let you know if anything changes but so far so good. I could even deal with working right now...if I had a job!
My unsolicited opinion is definitely don't wait any longer than April. I mean you know how these things go. If you actually get started in April, it can take at least a month to get to the transfer depending on what protocol you are on.
Sorry.... I don't mean to push you. I was just happy that some people on this board pushed me along a bit and made me see how many of my excuses were things that could actually be overcome. I am glad now that I'm just doing it intead of constantly thinking about when I'm going to do it!
Have a great weekend everyone!
Staci