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jen babes · Post by **jen babes** » Fri Mar 14, 2008 6:52 pm

$#$%%^^&&* we eventualy or our results back...

sad to say it's a BFN........

thanks everyone for all your valuable support....

life sucks at the moment

lov jen
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stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Fri Mar 14, 2008 7:10 pm

I am so sorry Jen.I know you have to going through the toughest time right now. Please take the time to grieve with DH and we will be here when you are ready to talk.

Hope644 · Post by **Hope644** » Fri Mar 14, 2008 7:49 pm

JenBabes -

I'm so sorry, love. Keeping you and DH in my thoughts and prayers.

ICSI GIRL · Post by **ICSI GIRL** » Fri Mar 14, 2008 11:05 pm

oh jen...........i'm so sorry hun

my heart just aches for you and dh.....i know what you're going thru and i wish i could take all the pain away..........we're here --- when you're ready. ((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))

pequele · Post by **pequele** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 3:42 am

Oh Jen

I'm so sorry! This sucks damn it!

Hugs
Steph

lara312 · Post by **lara312** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 6:47 am

Morning ladies

Steph great news on the scan so glad you got to hear your lil turtles heartbeat now will you relax

Hope good luck for et today them beanies will soon be home where they belong

Steph 2 good luck for your us grow follies grow at least after today you will have dates

Jenb so sorry i know no words can help pight now but please now we are all here for you when you need us {{hugs}}

Jen hows things going with the adoption hope everything is moving along for you

Carolyn hope you had a good night out with your friends and have an even better time with dh tonight after going to all that trouble

Shantala how are you feeling

Becky hows the bum hope its all better ready for later to be wiggling it when wales wins the grand slam (fingers crossed) wales wales wales

Nims your now on hols i really hope you have a fab time

Angie did any of the boys own up how you doing

Mir how is dh looking on the job front

Chriss hows your 2ww going

Hi to all i missed hope you all have a good weekend

Well had midwife yesterday she has sent me back to the hospital again has i'm still measuring for my dates and she still thinks the baby is a big one and has i'm only small 5foot she thinks they wont let me go no further thsn term i was hoping to have her by then she said all the pain in the lower area was good its all getting ready for baby .we had some fun the other night and done a plaster cast of my belly its hard to believe how big i am its no wonder people keep asking if i having twins when it dries out i wil try and take a pic and put it on face book well enough about me catch you all later
lots of love Rachel x x x

shantala · Post by **shantala** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 9:19 am

morning ladies

chriss - yes, check me out!

how did your meeting with your RE go about DE?? think it was very good advice (and good on you for taking it), about summarising your file. let us know what RE said!

miracle - how did DH's job interview go??? keeping everything crossed for you and dh.

nimble - you must be on the plane as we speak....see you when you get back!!!

stephjim - ooohhh, how exciting, your last US today. cant wait to hear when your definite ER is!!! let us know as soon as you get home.

ICSI - aawww thanks hun, glad you enjoy me being around full-time. get used to it coz i go on maternity leave in 2 week!

yes, i'm feeling ok thanks. just hoping you can all join me very soon!!

whats your next step now??

lara - blimey, what you doing up so early on a saturday morning?? you getting in practice for when the baby comes? lol...

so if the baby is measuring too big, will they induce you early?? and how cool about he cast...definitely post a picture if you can!!

pequele - fantastic news about your scan!! congrats mommy!! and i've also just noticed that your over the dreaded 6w 6d mark from last time. thats great!!! can we see the pics too???

hope - just typed a really long post to you and then realised there was another post from you that i must have missed!!! excellent news on your embies and best of luck for ET today!!!! i cant blame your DH for being scared of trips but at the same time, as you said, i would wait to see what they say about the other 2. if they are not viable enough to freeze, i would consider having one of those transferred to. but see what they suggest....oohhhh, how exciting. you're going to be PUPO soon!! let us know how you get on!!

jenbabes - i've replied to your thread but i'm so so sorry. hugs xxxxxxxxx

wishfull - hey hun...wow, when you listed all the mums on here thats quite amazing....lets hope the luck stays that way!! happy 9 years today!!! did you have a good time last night??

welshbugger and aunty - hope you're both well!!

hi to everyone else!!!! sorry to those i have missed!

i'm feeling much better thanks and should be back to work on monday hopefully. only 8 working days left!! (4 next week as it's good friday and 4 the following week as its easter monday)

lots of sticky baby dust!!!

xxxx

chriss · Post by **chriss** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 10:59 am

Jenbabes, so sorry to read the news. Thinking of you. We are here.

I'll write more later girlies when I have more time to give you the down-low on my 2 consult appointments. Thinking of you all. -chriss

pequele · Post by **pequele** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 1:51 pm

Hope- you are

How did transfer go? How many did you guys decide on?

Steph how did your apt go today! I figured you be back by now!!! Where you at???

Chriss- how you doing?

Rachel- wow will they let you go early? I mean you don't want to literally "pop" right! I didn't actually get to hear the hb, I got to see it and get the rate

That was fine enough for me though!

Shantala- yup, over that 6w6d mark, well depending on what calendar you look at...well today I am definitely haha. I actually cleared a hurdle back on March 4 when I saw a yolk sac...that was more than I got last time, the only reason I went to 6w6d last time was to give it more time to develop...which didn't happen, then that was the day of my surgery. It was over long before 6w6d unfortunately...but yeh it was still nice to say that dreaded day was behind me regardless! Wow you get Easter Monday!!! I'm moving to the UK!

I get to work today at 1...oh yippee me!

chriss · Post by **chriss** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 3:17 pm

Well, it's a few hours later and here I am back already.

Steph, great news with SONO.

Hope, Best luck with transfer!

Hi everyone. I'm jsut gonna copy the post I just put on another thread, cause it exhausted me to write it. I'm sorry I'm not doing more personals at the moment. I'll try to get back on later this weekend.

We've had a very busy time the last two days. First had a consult about donor eggs with RE. We wanted to find out some information about it all. We did not come to any conclusions yet. Then the next day (yesterday) we spent the entire day traveling to and from new clinic. This one all the way in Manhattan. We wanted to get a second opinion becasue we have been at same RE and have had three BFN's. New RE acknowledged my advanced maternal age, but was not slighted by it. I think that he deals with many women my age. He thought that my FSH was good enough and he looked through all of my paperwork. He talked about how they do things differently than the clinic that I was at. ANd maybe a change would be what I need. He talked about using a different protocol. He did also note... that he feels that the difficult transfers have something to do with the BFN's. I have a tilited cervix and there's a sharp "angle" to get into uterus easily. IUI's have always been painful and I've always been under anesthesea for ivf transfers. THey've even put a stitch in there with a string to use to shift the uterus. New DR. thinks that the transfer plays more of a role in this than the old RE ever let on. OF course he wants to run more tests, etc.

So, of course this clinic is so very far away from home. I would need to take some significant time off of work. There's no way I could do any daily monitoring and still go to work. It's also more expensive and that means using up the last bit of insurance money and not having any left for donor cycle. (Although the DE are not covered at all.) So sad that money has to play a role in this.

I plan to go talk with my principal next week. I need to do this. Dh and I feel that we want to give new RE a chance. Hope principal will work with me. People take off work for other illnesses/surgeries, etc. This is a major "Quality of Life" issue here and we can not wait 4 months until summer. When you are 41 every month counts.

Sorry such a long post all about me, but I wanted to update you guys. I've been pretty quiet lately. I am still on 2ww, but have been having the usual PMS symptoms that I've had every other failed cycle. I was pregnant once before (miscarriage) and I do not feel the way I did when I was preggers. I test this week. Such a saga.

I'm thinking of you all and I've been reading up on you every chance I get. I'm still here. Best wishes. -chriss

stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 3:21 pm

Hey all!!! Been back had to go buy a new TV, ok did not have to but we eventually need another one for the bedroom and because our big one is in the shop we needed a nice new one for the living room.

Ok, well I went to the doc today and We had the same 10 follicles in there but one of them is actually a cyst. The 21 with a circle? I asked about it and it is a cyst, Oh well we are down to 9. They were size 14 to 20 and we are now scheduled for retrieval on Tuesday at 7am. I take the trigger shot tomorrow night at 9p. Yay!!!!!!!!!!! I have to call my boss tonight and let her know. So I wanted to let everyone know what was going on.

Off to the store to buy DSD some shorts and get my antibiotic for tomorrow. Hope everyone is going ok.

Steph

pequele · Post by **pequele** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 4:29 pm

Chriss- the new RE sounds wonderful!!!! I sure hope your boss is understanding. I can totally understand not waiting til summer....even if you were 25! Plus I'd think she'd have to respect you more for giving you a heads uprather than calling out sick that day at the last minute!!!

Steph- woohoo your wish was granted!!! AND you get to start vacay just a tad early

So the cyst doesn't cause any issues right, and we don't have to worry bout it letting loose early (O'ing) cuz it ws big? That is good! You guys goin out to celebrate??? Oh wait good thing you got a new tv...you are gonna be breaking that in before long

Steph

stephjim · Post by **stephjim** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 4:39 pm

No, the cyst won't ovulate. They will most likely just drain it while they are up there getting the eggs.

Welshgirl38 · Post by **Welshgirl38** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:01 pm

Sorry, cant read the screen for personals .......... IM SO EXCITED .....

WALES WON THE GRAND SLAM - I BOW TO SHANE AND MARTIN

WE WON WE WON WE WON WE WON WE WON THE GRAND SLAM -
Rachel COME ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (DONT GO INTO LABOUR NW RIGHT LOL) IM SO BLOODY PLEASED - Wished i was at home tonight

IM GONNA G GET MY MAX BOYCE CD HAHAHAHAHA

XXXXX

lara312 · Post by **lara312** » Sat Mar 15, 2008 8:21 pm

Becky i agree with you it was an absolutely fab game and no didnt go into abour but i do have a bit of a headache from shouting so much

Hope that you are not getting to drunk tonight but you can have a drink for me to toast the bouys

lots of love Rachel x x x

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