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ogr1
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Post by ogr1 »

alotof people just simply dont know..
and i wouldnt wish it on anyone...

but it would be nice if there was a book on what not to say and wwhat to say so we could give it to friends and family and maybe a few others....
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by NickiMark »

Thats right Becky, a book would be great!!

Who's gonna start that then??
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Post by LittleP »

Not a bad idea - it could take away a lot of pain and grief :!:
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i think it would be a great project for you....
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by LittleP »

Ah, maybe :)
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Post by Tessa »

No, better idea...... what to say back :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!:

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Post by LittleP »

Don't you just wish sometimes you could really say what you want to?
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Post by Tessa »

Well, sometimes I wish I could.... but then other times I do and wish I hadn't :?

Feels good though :D

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Post by NickiMark »

TESSA!

LOL!!

WHAT TO SAY BACK WOULD BE BETTER!!!

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Post by AliasR »

While i was googling i found this site where they advised counselors on what and what not to say to couples going through fertyility tmt...

I started :lol: because a friend of mine had hit all the WHAT NOT TO SAY'S...

Nobody know's what's it like

That why i love you guys

you do know

and that makes such a difference when you're down!
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Post by ogr1 »

i do say what ever i want

right here on this forum....
that is why it means so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by Tiger »

Becky,

thank you, this is a great thread. Well!! things we have to put up with!! (Hey, were you up at some ungodly hour this morning too btw?? )

I am feeling much much better now, the sun is shining and I am not in pain anymore. BUT! I still worry about stupid comments I wll no doubt get when I return home ( to OZ! - Nicola, you guessed half right!) for the consultation next week - ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

This site is so precious; thanks again.

Cheers,
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Post by ogr1 »

i am glad that you are feeling better..
it is important to remember that you do feel better


this thread was a good thread..

make sure you have your question for your consultation ..
i would wright them down..

and yes i was up early.. but i am getting ready to go to bed..

and i think that i get to sleep :D :D :D :D :D
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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Post by hlloyd »

Thanks Becky for bringing this thread up again!

I was crying I was laughing so much. I feel so much better now.

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Post by ogr1 »

remember it is good to laugh and people cant help it they they are stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
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