Hey Lady's just stopping by to wish me old mucker (becky) a great harvesting tomorrow...LOL (sorry my Dr used to call it harvesting...i told him he made me feel like a hay field)
Hunny remember just before you go to sleep put your thumb in your mouth close your lips and blow really hard that should straighten up your ovary's, and help pop those little ones right out..LOL .tell them Aunty is watching so they best behave we want muchos embies to play with.
I will be thinking of you hun you know that...all our love my friend
Debz, Sammy and Marley
Me 42 ,DH 45 ...3 IVF's BFN
Mommy to my beautiful girls Gabby(4) and Kenzie(2)
Becky good luck today i hope you get loads of eggies
Hi to everyone else i will pop on soon and do a big post but have inlaws here aswell and ruby is a hungry baby to she is now 10lbs and doing really well
lots of love Rachel x x
after 8 yrs of trying 2failed ivf 1 m/c and 2 miracles
Finally home - afraid to say it isnt good news for us ...
They got just the 1 egg
As u can imagine we are devastated - the reason they gave was the follies wernt developed enough - yet at my scan on Monday they said they looked great - i was in a LOT of pain last night and this morning and was convinced i had ovulated - but who knows, we will never know now!
Anyhow - we asked if they could do ICSI on it, just to make sure that it fertalizes - but DH produced such a good sample that they said there was no need to and that there is no good reason why it shouldnt fertalize - so ladies, i need all the prayers u can muster up please, im crying as im typing - this was our last go and my pma is hanging by a thread at the moment ... i am trying my best to be strong, one min im ok, next im bawling
Dont know how i will cope if it doesnt fertalize ....
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
I know its difficult, but please try to keep positive. This whole IF can be a such roller coaster ride. Keep the faith that the egg they retrieved is the fighter and will fertilise.
We shall all keep you and your fighter egg in our prayers.
I hope you don't mind me butting in (we cycled together last year) I just wanted to let you know that in my last cycle (IVF number 4, last and final one for us) we only got 1 egg, and we are now 9 weeks pregnant - despite me spending the entire 2ww crying.
I will keep everything crossed for you!
Again sorry for butting in!
Becks - ******************BIG HUGS****** I know that is going to be your magic bean just try and remember that. One is so much better none and I am praying for you harder than I have ever prayed!!
Hi Becky, i am so sorry you had such bad news, but please remember it only takes one. Got everything crossed for you, when do you find out regarding fertilisation?
Big hugs and kepp the PMA.
jayne
Me 39, DH 40. TTC 5years
4th times a charm,1-IVF, 3xFET's, 2 chemical
Twin boys born 9/7/08
I was thinking something... maybe the downregging was too long? Too much supression? My first IVF round I only had three eggs, they attributed it too to much supression for me. They changed my protocol and I got better results. (I was on Lupron & bcp's, they switched me to antagonist protocol... gentler supression)
The one that they got may be the best one, so don't give up hope. Think of all the miracle stories we hear.
Have tried to sleep but it just wont come - im so tired from the stress and the crying! Thanks for ur messages, it really means a lot to me ...
Charile: Hello u Great to hear of ur BFP - and THANK U for giving me some hope - u will know exactly what im going thru right now, and im holding out all hope of it being the same for me. last time we did IVF we had 12 eggs - but opted to only fertalize 2 (long story) and we are confident that because the 2 eggs DID fertalize, that there is a chance that this one will too .... but then in the next breath - im not so confident - im up and down like a bloody yo yo!!
Anyway ladies, thank u all for ur confidence in my egg and DH's sperm - maybe with all ur wishes and good vibes, this might just work. I get to call the clinic at 10.20am in the morning, so will let u all know the news as soon as i can .... thank u all for being here, i must try and get some sleep now, im shatterd ...
Becky Xxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Becks honey, this must be so so disappointing for you. I am so sorry it wasn't better news for you today...
Try to remember what I said yesterday and sometimes its quality not quantity. I remember how disappointed I was when we only got 3 last time, hoping to get at least 6, but my follies were all empty. However, 2 of those fertilised, and you know the rest...
I will pray hard for you tonight sweetie. I know how hard it is, but try to stay positive.
Everything is crossed for you honey. I'll check back tomorrow to see how you're doing.
Lots of love and hugs
Ems xxx
ME 38 DH 32
Severe Endo
1st IVF Sept 06 - BFN
2nd IVF Jan 07 - BFP! Ruby May born 24.10.07
3rd IVF March 10 - BFP on 30.3.10! Iris Josephine born 1.12.10
Our family is complete
Mir - where are you - thought you only went for a week?
Angel - good news less stress at work at moment - bad news its harder to play
Icsi - bowling and cocktails - sounds like fun x
BM - I never told my employer at all - in our HR poolicy it says that time off for fertility treatmtnet is unpaid - inconsiderate bast**** - if it was HR director needing it am sure it would change - so last cycle my doctor did a sick note for 2 weeks for minor gynae op and will do same again this time - might even swing a few extra weeks as lots of stress at work at momnet - think it depends of relationsghip with boss - good luck whatever you decide xxx
love to anyone else I missed (Becky you had a separate special one!)- need to get to gym and back in time for apprentice - i love the reality trash - not long till BB starts - can't wait!!
m/c @ 8 wks 
