Morning ladies
I havent gotten out of my pj's all weekend - i was so shattered when we arrived back late on Friday night, that when i got up on Sat morning, i had to clean and sort out all washing (bear in mind we left eldest daughter home alone - house was a tip lol) went in the bath Sat afternoon, put my fav jim jams on and havent go out of em since
I will get dressed later on tho, i have a week off work (wippieeeee) so must do something positive with it .....
Pequele: Hello, how are you? Glad to hear ur appointment went well, i have a friend just like u who is doing IUI (she has her appointment in Aug) and in the meantime has been given Clomid to use, it being up to her if she wants to take it. She has used it for 3 mths before and nothing happened for her, so she is in 2 minds weather to start it again. I know that she didnt have to do trigger shot or anythiing like that - she just started them for a few days once her AF started (summit like 3 or 4) and that was it, they produce more eggs i think so when she was 'doing it' at her fertile time the chances of at least one eggs becomming fertalized was increased - but to no avail. She is 38 this year and has 'unexplained infertility' - i hate that 'unexplained' explanation!! Hope this helps, i could tell u of her side effects if u wish to hear them, i sometimes think that maybe it better not to hear tho, as u analyize everything expecting them. If u want me to ask her anything let me know - she isnt a member of this group - i think she feel if she joins a group then its real - its a fact that she has problems and doesnt want to face up to them - everyone is different. She's my best friend so usually comes to me with questions lol - if i dont know the anwsers, i come here for her
Hope this helps hun xx
Aunty: Phew - ur still decorating - what a job eh? I bet ur shattered. I dont mind doing one room every so often, but the whole house in one go - i would have lost the will to live by now lol. I never received no pics of the decorating - just the outside of the ranch, and the back of u and Sams heads on the veranda (decking lol) But i have a horrible feeling i may have deleated it by mistake
When i was on hol, i checked my email thru the internet on Brians lap top, and here was loads of junk mail that i clicked to delete - after it had gone i tht - ohhhh im sure i saw one from usbrummie
sorry if i did - could u re-send em so i can have a nosey. Thanks - im like a tit lol. Dont blame u for sleeping in a bright yellow bedroom - men just havent got the foggiest idea about colours have they lol. Brian usually leaves that up to me - each time we decide to decorate, he never likes anything that i do but i nag and dig my heals in so much he says - right - have it ur way
I have one claret red wall and the rest cream in the living room, and have all matching pine furniture - he hated it on the tin but loves it now its up - just have to trust a womans instint lol. Anyway, im glad its all comming together for u and its lovely to heqar from u (even if i do delete ur emails - BY MISTAKE!!! lol) xxx
Shantala: Give ur DH a big hug from me, he has been doing well after his op - its hard to get over summit as dramatic as that - and to be living with u aswell - the man needs a medal (hahaha - just kidding hun)
Im not sure what days ur looking off work, i cant figure it out - so u want this Friday?? Or the Thursday and Friday for EC week? Think u are gonna need EC week deff - Was u working the last time? Try and remember how u felt, will u be 'fit' enough for work. My EC was on a Wed, so i took that off (obvisouly lol) then the Thurs, then took Friday too as it was ET, then had the weekend to relax before work on Monday. I think u should relax after ET and not rush back to work hun, ur a very busy bee at work and u dont want to be too stressed. I will be taking at least 2 days after ET to relax this time - i know its hard being at work at a time like this - but u have to think of urself and ur embies, much more important than work
So what do i need to change on the list for u then? Let me know and i'll update it xxxx
Jackie: Im sooooooo sorry hun, i didnt mean to make u cry
I j ust wanted to say how wonderful u are - s'all
Glad u have an appointment with consultant already, it will be good to have a plan set up, and so VERY pleased that u booked a holiday. U so deserve some time out, but im not gonna start being sloppy again, u know what i mean
Hugz to u and DH Xxxx
Gill: Hope u enjoyed the film, which one was it? I love going to the cinema - i love the pop corn more than the actuall film lol, there nothing better than pigging out on popcorn watching a movie - making or buying ur own at home just isnt the same. Hope u enjoyed xx
Rachel: Gonna try and stick to my weight loss plan (not that i had one lol) but if i can lose 4.5lbs in one week, and on holiday then i must e able to do summit at home. Mind u i have been thinking, my AF was 9 days late, maybe she had summit to do with the weight gain before and after - either way, im not giving up yet - i can do this <Becky stands up and vows - go forth and be thin - er lol> Hope u enjoy ur hols too hun, and i hope the=is shite weather brightens up a bit, im so depressed with the rain now - im sure i have that S.A.D syndrome lol, need to go and buy some lights lol xxx
Carolyn: Hello you
Congratulations on having such great quality embies
They sound perfect and are heading to a much wel deserved pregnancy. I love the fact that ur putting 3 back in, gives u a much better chance. What time are u expecting to be hearing from the clinc today? Did u go back to work? Sorry for all the questions, but im so excited for u, excited that u might be getting ur wee ones home today, but also excited that u might not be because they are 'front runners' and are waiting untill Wednesday - Ooooooo the excitment is too much for me - u have to understand, this has all happened so fast for me lol, last time i was here u was still a drugie lol, now ur about to become a mummy
Let us know whats happening as soon as u can hun, i have everything crossed for u and am sitting at the PC awaiting ur news. Good Luck Xxxx
JenB: How are u hun? Hope all is well, sorry i missed u before i went away, its hard all this IVF lark isnt it. and as for ur neighbour - well im sorry, i would have had to put her right! It really annoys me how people can sit there and judge when they ahve NO idea what we and other women are going thru!! I know i already have 2 children, but that doesnt mean that my want for one with Brian isnt there because of that. These people just dont understand, and have no right to judge when they dont know the half of what u have been thru! I recently sat and told Brians brother and his wife what we are doing, they were so shocked that we had already had one shot, they were shocked that i actually wanted another child having 2 teenagers and wanting to start again. But what they also were, was supportive. I think u need people like that around u, sod ur bloody neighbour, she's an arse (sorry for language) and if she opened her eyes to the world around her she would realise that IVF isnt something to turn her snotty nose up to, its a miricle of life and an option to hundreds and thousands (Bloody millions actually) of couples whom want the joy that she has everyday with her children! Bloody cow!!! Hope ur feeling better about it hun, dont let her get u down - we are here for u thru thick and thin, take care xxxx
Jen1d: Hello
Am i right in beleiving that u have to pay for counselling?????? No, thats not right!!! Ur meant to get that free weather ur a private patient or on the NHS! Thats is wrong if they are making u pay for it!!!!! I cant beleive that, im gobsmacked (makes a change for me lol) My clinic (private) offer it free, and my clinic (NHS) offer it free too - how come u have to pay????? Im so bloody annoyed at that now
Did u get a response to ur email from the clinic??? Keep us posted
xxx
Phew ladies, sorry i didnt mean to make that such a big posting. Will wait for news about Carolyn, then off shopping ..... Catch u all later ladies, carolyn - GOOD LUCK
Becky Xxxxx
Took me 4 months to get a tmt revie when i did an NHS cycle. so well done on your GP. It will soon be here. Hope all is okay going back to work. hugs x x
i dont feel stressed just excited about tmt at this stage. But you never know what Af decideds to do at important times 
BFP