Awaiting Treatment

[ICSI GIRL]

Yeah, we are hoping (again) to start this summer. Keep your fingers crossed!!!!

Had Dh have any leads for a job? i know how hard that can be. I am praying for you both.

Atleast you guys have a gameplan -- i'll tell ya, that part of it can sometimes be worst!!! the "not knowing what next" can kill ya!!! (not literally KILL YOU...but you know what i mean).....will give you plenty of time to get in good mental state of mind and give dh some time to get settled in his job eh???

nope - no leads for my dh....and he's already the "pessimistic" type (who needs optimism when you have ME around who always prances around thinking not only i my glass HALF full --- it's overflowing!!!!! - most of the time anyway!!) ha, ha!! Michigan has nearly 10% unemployment rate and with the auto industry doing what it's doing right now (and i can tell you that is largest industry/job potential in michigan)....poor me - i know, everybody is in similar boat.....is going to take some time that's for sure!

[Miracle08]

Angie you kill me!!! You are so funny. I can just picture you prancing around your kitchen!!! And DH looking at you like what the hell is wrong with you?!!!

I am kind of like your hubby. One of my bad qualities!!! You seem to be doing really good, considering . You dont seem to be stressed at all. What does DH do?

Yeah, it is good we have a plan, but that was our plan last year. So me being a pessimistic I am like, ok is it really going to happen...or what is going to go wrong. My dh gets so mad at me.

[jen babes]

Hi lovies

see your all hanging in there...wishing you all the best of luck in your tmts

Beckster fab news on your FAB 5 embies ...good luck for ET
*****BABY DUST*****

just packing to go away for a week but will pop back next week and catch up,

***BABY DUST*** to you all

love jeni B
xxxxxxxxxx

[Welshgirl38]

I did post this earlier, but i think u missed it LOL

Rite, im off to bed, just wanted to let u know when ET was an how many we transfering etc ... talk to u 2mrw ladies <blowskisses>

Hi Ladies

How are u all Xxxx

My ET is tomorrow - we are doing a 3 day transfer this time ... that way it will give the embryologist more time to pick the best embryos for the transfer. Not sure how many we are transfering to be honest .... we are down for 2 but know we can chose 3 as i am over 40 ... that being said, it all depends on how they are getting on. If we have an frosties (very doubtful tho) we will transfer 2 and freeze left overs, but if we only get 2 good ones, we mite ask to transfer the bestter 3rd one, just to be sure. I know u ladies wouldnt hesitate to take a 3rd embryo, but i really have to think about it - im 40 - could i cope with 3 babies growing inside me (should they all take) i have to think of the welfare of the children, having 3 increases the risks ... as there is 'nothing' wrong with me fertiltiy wise (we are only doing this cos i am steralized) and the fact that i have already had 2 natural pregnancies - then we stand a good chance of this working with better embryos than we have had before.

Its a lot to take it, and a lot to decide, we will only have a matter of minutes when we get to the clinic and find out how they are doing .... suppose i cant anwser ur question really ladies ....... ur guess is as good as mine

xxxx

[beachbaby]

Hi Ladies,

becky, good luck for tomorrow, hope all goes well.

Angel, good luck for Saturday got everything crossed that your dream comes true this time. Rooting for ya, keep the faith. Rachel started the \bfp's again, she did it for me last year.

Angie, I know how you feel, i'm like you my DH has enough negativity for all of us, evrything is always the worst case with him, drives me crazy. I must be nuts as i work with him as well and have done for most of our life together, 21 years so far.

Miracle, so pleased you have a plan and hoping nothing gets in your way to stop treatment this time, your one patient bunny.

Carolyn, hope you enjoy your pampering.

Jen, nice to hear from you, have a nice break.

Hi to all i've missed, just wanted to wish you lovelies all the best as am away tomorrow for my wedding anniversary, 17 years tomorrow!!! Wow. Night in a hotel and dinner in a nice restaurant, my sister is looking after the boys, so should be lovely, going to a champagne bar first will have a drink for all you ladies who are pupo. catch you all when i get back

Jayne

[My2LnT]

OH Becky I wish you all the best tomorrow!!!!! Do you know how many you are going to put back? Just remember to go with your first instinct .... I had that feeling when I did my 3 day with Matthew and we put back 4 and was 34 and got 1 healthy perfect spoiled rotten lil man and only hope that you and brian get as luckly,,, keeping everything crossed for you!!!!
XOXO

[Angel505]

Becky,

Just wanted to send you best of wishes for ET today. Also best of luck in deciding how many to transfer. There are so many things to consider. But you'll make the right choice for you.

[Angel505]

Quick one from me ladies. First of all thank you all so much for rooting for me and giving me all your love and support. I really do appreciate it.

Its not looking very good for us and we're headed for another BFN. So if you don't hear from me in the next few days please know that its not good news. I feel so heartbroken. I'm crying even as I type this. But I didn't just want to disappear without letting you know.

Love
Ang

[PMApsy]

Evening ladies!

I won't be able to write much; I've been preparing a presentation all day and my left wrist gets sore quite quickly (too much knitting on the side, lol!)

Angie,
Glad to make your acquaintance "officially"! Thanks for what you said about my posts, it was very unexpected and very sweet! Oh, and Sophie and PMA are the same person indeed!

Becky,
With the time difference, you must be about to go through ET. Your PMA rocks, my dear, that's the attitude! I'm sure everything will go well, and I totally agree with your decision process about the embies. Now, little embies, you stick to your mama and you find yourself a nice spot in there to snuggle for the next 8 months, okay?

Angel,
Oh, sweetheart... I was gutted to hear the news... sometimes the body plays nasty tricks on you and I hope you have a nice surprise in the end. But either way, I'm sending you big hugs and my prayers will be with you. Give yourself some time dear, you know we all understand each other's need for space. *HUGS*

Lara,
Sorry your finding it quite hard without the meds. It's a good indication that pregnancy hormones might not solve the problem. Going back on the same meds might not be the solution; as I said, some antidepressants are safe during the pregnancy, and some aren't. Your doc probably stopped yours because she figured that one wasn't appropriate. Shame she didn't simply switch with another one. Hang in there, things will get better soon I'm sure. I'm sorry for little Ruby; how is she doing?

Carolyn,
I hope you get reeeeally spoiled and pampere this weekend! Have fun!

Jayne,
Happy anniversary! I hope you have fun on your special date!

Okay, time for me to go back to bed.

Take care ladies,
Sophie xxox

[Miracle08]

Hi girls...

Angel...dont give up yet. Sophie is right. Unless AF has shown herself you still dont know. I have prayed my butt of these past two weeks for you. I am starting to get a little angry with HIM. I know I shouldn't, but I am starting to question some things!!!!! This should be your time!!!! I am praying for you Angel. If for some stupid reason you get bad news, I understand your need for space. I am so irritated right now. I can't do anything to fix it. Sending big hugs and a lot of love to you...

GOOD LUCK BECKY!!!!!!!!!!! LETS US KNOW ASAP HOW MANY YOU TRANSFER!!!

Angie...show yourself...where are yOU?

PMA!! Dont work to hard. How are you feeling? Is DH getting a little used to you being pg...??? Have you felt anything?

Beach!!! OMG!!!! 17 years!!! That is sooo awesome. You guys have a great time!!!!! How are your sons doing? Getting big I bet.

Lara...how are you honey?

I will be around...if anyone wants to play...!!!

[Welshgirl38]

Angel: Hun, please please please dont give up hun. I am so sorry u are feeling the way u are, i pray that u do get a surprise - our body plays so many tricks on us during the 2ww .... i do hope yours has too .... sending u much love honey Xxxx

Ok ladies ... i suppose u want to hear my news yes????

Im P U P O

We have 1 x 8 cell embryo and 1 x 6 cell embryo both grade 2 on board

The other 3 were a 6 & 4 cell's but of grade 3 and 4's so none to freeze (which we dont need right?????) An we wernt given the option to put the others back, so glad it was taken out of our hands - dont think i could have decided there an then laying on the bed!

Am taking it easy, as im quite sore - just as i was getting used to walking about after the EC, today its started up again, heavy feeling an pain when i walk ... so DH has me laid up on the sofa in my pj's ... and has done the grocery shopping, gone to the bank and to to the DVD shop for me he's so wonderful

Hope ur all doing well, thank u so much for my well wishes, u have NO idea how much they really mean to us ..... thank u, thank u, thank u .... Be back later sometime

Xxxxx

[AuntyPebbles]

Becks Way to go on getting your little ones on board

Stick Embies Stick



Love as always Aunty

[wishfull27]

Quick one from me ladies. First of all thank you all so much for rooting for me and giving me all your love and support. I really do appreciate it.

Its not looking very good for us and we're headed for another BFN. So if you don't hear from me in the next few days please know that its not good news. I feel so heartbroken. I'm crying even as I type this. But I didn't just want to disappear without letting you know.

Love
Ang

Angel

Sending you and Dh all my love and huge hugs at this time - thinking of you both honey xxxxx

[wishfull27]

Im P U P O

We have 1 x 8 cell embryo and 1 x 6 cell embryo both grade 2 on board

Wooooo well done Becky and Brian - am soooo pleased for you both - best treat her like a princess Brian xxxx

Sticky dust coming your way by the bucket load xxxxxx

[wishfull27]

morning ladies - and how cold, snowy and horrible it is too

Jayne - hope you had fantastic anniversary - 17 years wow

Mir - you have a plan - am sooo pleased at least you can start to work towards that - summer is not that far away

Icsi - hope DH is not driving you too much to distraction - get him to do all those jobs round the house that always get put off

Rachel - sorry your feeling bit under weather - your body is probably reacting to coming off tablets and your BFP - sending you hugs and hope Ruby chest infection gets better soon xx

Shantala - thanks as always for your support - don't know where you mummies get the time to keep coming back to check on us xx

Steph - hope Ruby and Emily are doing well - bet your both knackered but in a nice way xxx

Sophie - my word how your pregnancy has flown - ae you going to find out what flavour ou are having ??? xx

Love to everyone else i have missed xx

Had fab time - did not relax much ust exercisded to the max - loads of new muscles today

Off to do some christmas shopping whilst DH goes to watch James Bond film then back to treadmill tom - first full week of work in 6 weeks ... its going to kill me

love to all

carolyn xxx