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OOOOOOOOOOOH MIRACLE! You crack me up! LOL :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

How about "Catty Bitchy Sassy Pop Diva"? Geez, must be hard to pronounce when you're either drunk... or munching on four crackers with peanut butter... mmmmh... could try that when I'm home...

Aw, that story is cute! So, what kind of pop does the Sassy Pop Diva like?
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THE CRACKERS, I MEAN! LOL :lol: :lol: :lol:
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DOnt worry. I knew you were talking about the crackers!!!! :lol: :lol:

oooohhhhhh those are good names Sophie!!!! I might have to use them!!!!! :lol:

I guess you would say "todays music!" but I do like other music too. Like, I love love love, Harry Connick JR, I like rock, Broadway Musicals are a fav too!!!

People are shocked when I tell them I listen to musicals and Harry! :wink:
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I think this thread is entertainment for the masses. It's quite the soap opera, hey? It's nice when we can forgive and forget.
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Hello girlies - as you can tell by time of post 4.30am Uk time I can't sleeo - DH has the man flu.. snuffling, sneezing, snoring like a good one - think his germs have passed to me as one minute feel freezing the next like 100 degrees :lol:

Wow this thread has certianly got moving again :lol:

Chris - lovely to see you posting honey - hows things with you ??

Mir - love the sassy bitchy pop diva name :lol: - and sooooo glad you and DH have now got a plan at least you have somehting to work towards can I join the cheer leading gang please ???

PMA - you are on form :lol: - how you feeling honey - remind me are you going to find out what flavour you are having?? how time flies .. I think that every time I see the ticker at the botom of your posts - hugs honey xxx

Icsi - am soooo hoping DH can find some work soon - is he being picky or just nothing about? maybe he wants to become a house husband and when you adopt he will stay home and look after the babies???

Becky - where are you ?????? hope all ok xx

Angel - hugs honey ((()))

Hi to everyone else.. Shantala, Jayne, Rachel ... and the rest I have missed!!

Only 8 more days till we go to Spain for our first appointment there - am kind excited but think my heart is now favouring Prague with our new helpful friends - planning to go there for consulatation in mid January :D

Working from home today so hopefully ther will be lots of people to play with :lol:

Carolyn xxx
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Hi Chriss!!! Yes, I agree, we are the entertainment... :lol:

Hi Carolyn!!! Well of course you can join the cheerleading gang! :D Yep we have a "plan!!" Here is hoping it works out!! :shock:
Wow, time sure does fly. I cant believe your appointment is coming up. That is so exciting. What will it entail?
Ugh...I am sorry you are feeling sick. I hope you feel better soon. I hate when my DH gets sick. You would swear he was dying. SUCH A BABY!! Drives me nuts. :x Cool, you will be around today to play. ME TOO!!!! :P

Becky, I am worried. Please let us know you are ok... :roll:

Angel love...thinking of you sweetie...

Hey Angie...where you at? Today is Friday...you arent supposed to be working hard. :wink:

Shantala, I have requested to be your friend on myspace! :wink:

Where you at Sophie?? COME OUT COME OUT WHEREVER YOU ARE!!!

To everyone I missed, I big hello and how's it going?? :D
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I am here Mir :lol:

Your plan will happen .. I have gut feeling that 2009 is going to be the year for you and DH :D

Just a consultation in spain and mock transfer and discuss donor requirements - well thats all I think it is !!!

its soooo cold here today - the frost has not even melted - but we got our tree last night and Dh put up this morning - we always have a real one and now the house smells lovely - just got to decorate it - but i love doing it x

Hope work is not too mad today ???

where is everyone else??

Yes Becky where are you - am worried that you not been back since monday xxx
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AWWWW...you are sweet!!!!! I so hope it is all of our year. Becky has certainly started things off for us!!!! 8)

Has anyone heard from Becky??

So for mock transfers, do you have to do all the meds and stuff? I know Chriss had one but I dont remember... :oops:

My sis and I are decorating tonight. She is coming over after work! I cant wait to turn up the Christmas music and light my Yankee candle Balsm and decorate. We used to have real trees when we lived up in New York. But it is so warm in FL that they die really fast. I wish we could have a real tree...I LOVE LOVE LOVE the smell of them!!!!!!!!!

Is DH feeling better? Work is fine...for now. I hope it stays quiet today. :lol:
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mornin my sweets!! (well -- mornin for me) :D

mir & sophie ---- you girls CRACK ME UP!!! :lol: the life of the party that's for sure!!

carolyn!!! you must be so excited -- only 8 days!!!!! you must let us know straight away what you find out!!!

beck --- where on earth have you run off to??? r u keeping the POAS companies in business?? i forgot to run out and buy stock --- oh well, sucks to be me!

angel.....hope you can feel the giant ((((((((HUGS))))))))) i've been sending across the pond sweetie.....

short and sweet for me!!! much to do today before i can leave work for the weekend!! woo-hoo!!

LOVE & HUGS TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Hi Angie!!!

Well we try to entertain you ladies!!! :lol: Whats new with you girlie? Has DH found any leads? I know it sucks. What do you have planned for this weekend...anything fun...or romantic?? :lol: :lol: :shock:
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hey mir :P dh any job leads........depends on what qualifies as "lead".... he has applied for SEVERAL positions.....some he's heard back saying thanks but no thanks.....others is just out in "submit your resume here" land!!! is a little more difficult than it used to be.......just cuz they don't list any contact info and sometimes the employer ittsel is anonymous --- so ya can't even "follow up with a phone call".....i feel bad for him.... poor guy has worked for TWO employers in that last 40 years!!! how awful would it be to have to be looking for a job in the current market as it is combined with not having interviewed and been out of the "job hunting" frame of mind for so many years???? needless to say --- i help him out a LOT when it comes to jargon and what he should/shouldn't say or do.....

weekend plans --- tonight we're going to see "the letterman christmas show" --- "the letterman" being a teeny-bopper boy band from WAY back in the day --- like 50's-60's.......is at our local community college theatre and some friends of ours gave us tix that they weren't going to be able to use, so the price was right ---- FREE!!!!!!! i'm looking forward to it cuz we've not done a lot of social things since dh been out of work..... money been tight :?

what about you guys?? more unpacking???
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Morning ladies!!!

I'm here, I'm here!!! :D:D:D I just took a break from the computer yesterday evening! LOL I posted so much that I had to stay late to finish my work! ;) Okay, here come the personals!

Miracle,
I remember you asked about the evaluation; we're not really evaluated here at work. It's part of my work when I receive a request to see a new patient to start with a psychological evaluation. The patient was a bit peculiar and very slowed down by his meds, plus I suspect he's in and out of a small delirium too and he was sometimes confused and vague, so it took me a gruesome TWO hours to evaluate him, plus another 30 minutes to discuss with his nurses and the psychiatrist, plus another 15 minutes with his familly, including his wife who told me in the middle of the corridor what a violent man he is and how generous I was to listen to him for two hours because she was absolutely unable to do that. Wow... :? Ah, well, I had fun with the nurses and the psychiatrist, at least!

I wrote it on your MySpace page and I'll repeat it here.. your furbabies are ADORABLE!!!!!!! I just want to hug them and pet them and let them play with Daria and Toulouse! And you, my friend, were glowing on your wedding day! :D:D:D Oh,and I'm not shocked about you listening to musicals! Hehehehe I took tap dancing lessons for a year, and I love that music too! My musical tastes have been very diversified since... forever. It all depends on where I am and what mood I'm in. I can easily jump from opera to rock to pop to new age to musicals to acid jazz... you name it, pretty much! I simply couldn,t live without music, it's my way to just cut myself from the world and plunge deep into my fantasies, or to let my emotions out... it's such a blessing in my life!

Hi Chriss! Hehehe glad we entertained you! And the masses too! :D

Carolyn,
LOL yup, you asked two other times about the gender, my my my, I think I,ll make sure they find it just for you! :lol: The plan is to wait until the delivery, but I'm aware that we could still see "something obvious" on the monitor if it's a boy. With girls, you really have to look close and get a good angle, and sometimes it's only confirmed at 32 weeks. Thanks for asking how I'm doing; I'm doing great! Looking forward to preparing all the Xmas decorations.. and FOOD! FOOD FOOD FOOD! ahem, excuse my enthusiasm! ;) I just love having the occasion to prepare dishes and desserts you don't really prepare the rest of the year. How exciting that you'll be going to Spain soon!!! I really, REALLY hope that you'll have a good experience there... and who knows, maybe you'll cycle in two countries! ;) I hear you on the noisy husband when he's sick... poor thing! He should go sleep with the dog and let you rest! ;) :lol:

Miracle 2009! Go! Go! 2009! (just practicing my cheerleading...)

This weekend, I might do the Yule decorations as well... The tree, at least, and I might pester my husband, who'll grumble and try to sneak his way out of it, to install lights outside. It,s a question of days before we start accumulating snow, and I'd like the lights to be covered in snow by the time we reach the Holidays. It's SO lively to see the lights shine under a thin layer of snoooow! Plus I'd like to make some decorations myself this year, if I can find the time.

One source of worries is that we weren't able to book a place at the pension for the dogs. I called a month in advance and it was already full. We tried two other places she recommended, but they're also super full. Apparently, the 25th-27th period was exceptionally popular this year, while the New Year period is still quite free.

It's absolutely out of the question for us to send our dogs to the vet, where they'll be put into cages 24 hours a day. They both are dogs we rescued from shelters and they were kept in cages just like this. I don't want to traumatize them. The pension keeps them in boxes (like horses) and they spend 3:30 hours a day outside, playing together in a field. And my father and his wife, well... when we had one dog, they would tell us to bring her along, no problem. They would give her food in the kitchen and of course Daria would stay there whenever my father's wife was cooking. My father kept ignoring my requests to stop rewarding the dog by looking at her or talking to her when she bothered people at the table, so of course she continued. We'd always only stay 24hrs or so. And weeks later, we would hear through my grandma, my sister or my aunt that my father and his wife complained about the dog, how much hair they had to pick up, how bothered they were at the table and in the kitchen, and how my father's wife is just unable to like dogs. So we got the message even though they never told us to our faces, and whenever we have to visit my family, we have to pay for a pension. I hate hypocrisy for the sake of politeness... anyway, it's not very polite to talk behind people's backs.

It would break my heart not to be with my family on the 25th, but nobody will die. After all, the pension will only be busy around those dates, so we could easily come a few days later and spend 2-3 days there without the dogs. If they accept to let us bring the dogs, however, I'll bring up what people told us about the way they complained behind our backs and see if they still want us to bring the dogs. I just hope we'll be able to solve these matters real soon.

Either way, we'll have my belgian grandparents over for the 24th, and if we have to miss the 25th in Quebec city, I'll make another big meal and invite our friends, colleagues of my DH whose families are in Iran, France, or Croatia. They're nice people and they might appreciate spending Xmas night at a big table. And that means more fun cooking for meeeeee gaaaaaah! :D:D:D

Geez, look at the time! I should get going. Take care lovelies, and I'll be around to play for sure!

Sophie xxox
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And with all my babbling I forgot Angie!! HI ANGIE!!! :D:D:D:D I completely understand your husband.... I had to look for a job a few years ago when I finished my studies and it's a tricky situation, especially when you HATE knocking on doors and selling yourself... feels like begging sometimes and it's humiliating. I really hope things pick up really soon. What field does he work in? Your concert sounds fun! Have a great weekend darling!

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Hi Sophie!!!

First things first...

Thank you sooo much!!! My furbabies are my babies!! I absolutely love them with all of my heart!!! :D Did you see their "cousin??" That is my sister's dog. He is such a sweetie too. I love him just as much. They love new friends. They would love your doggies!!!! :D :D

Um...I am in total agreement about sending the dogs to a vet. When Dh and I went on our cruise I went to several doggie "hotels" looking for something I would be comfortable leaving my babies at. I cant tell you how many my sister and I checked out. She went on the cruise too, so she had to find a place for Bo. We didnt want to ask my dad because he has a dog and I thought four dogs would be tooo much for him. Well we did go look at the vet to board them. We were not going to put them in a crate. So we looked at their doggy "suites." Now, they are beautiful. They have a window, their own beds and plenty of room. My sister and I didnt mind paying $60 a day per pet if our babies would be taken care of. Well, when I asked the lady about how outside time worked and the last time they let the dogs go potty at night, my mouth DROPPED!!!! I think the lady was irritated with all of my questions and then when I told her my dogs would absolutely not be coming here she was a little miffed!! :lol:
I dont care. I am not going to just drop my babies of somewhere and not ask questions or anything. They only took them out for 1 hour a day. AND the last time they take them out to go potty FOR THE NIGHT was at 4:00!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I said, well what time do you come in the next morning??? (thinking like really really early since they are let out last at 4)
She said oh, 8-830!!!!!!!!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: I was really shocked. I told her that is way to long to expect a dog to hold their potty. That it was ridiculous. She told me, oh dont worry, if they have an accident we will clean it.... :shock: :shock: :shock: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: Ok..at this point I really wanted to smack her. Was she serious??????????? What kind of person would let their dog/cat sit in piss and poop??????? She treated my like an overprotective mother. That is fine though. My dogs are not, will not ever be treated like that. So, guess where they ended up?? MY DADS!!!! He is a animal lover just like us! He LOVES my babies and they LOVE him. So I knew they would be happy. Plus my dad has plenty of land fo rthem to run and play. All four dogs play together. Very cute!!!

I cant believe your parents are like that. My mother in law is like that. She makes these mean faces when Mollie comes near her. I jsut want to punch her in the eye! 8) I am making a sign for my door that says someting like.... This is my dogs home first, if you dont like them, we dont like you!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

Yeah, talk to your dad. Hopefully he will say oh, bring the babies. And when you bring it up about what you heard, he will say absolutely not. They are welcome!!! :P

Oh, thank you for my comment about me on my wedding day...so sweet. :D

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Hi Mir!

tkssssss Carolyn said she'd be around to play and she still haven't posted! Mmmmmh she might be sleeping on her keyboard!!!! :lol:

Yup, I saw Bo and he looks adorable as well! Your family seems to be pitbull afficionados! :D They can be SO cute, and when you know that not all breeds are mean and evil, it's easy to see the big babies that they are. I,m so glad that Cesear Millan, with all his qualities and flaws, is doing more responsible advertising for those breeds...

I can't believe that woman at the vet! Clearly, SIXTEEN hours without being allowed outside is way too much! Poor doggies!!!! Hehehe I'm glad your dad allowed you to leave them at his place with Bo and the other dog. Hehehehe the receptionist at our previous vet's was hillarious at times... poor thing... she tried to pronounce Daria's name with an English twist... sounded like she had a hot potato in her mouth and it TOTALLY sounded like... diarrhea!!! it,s been a running gag ever since, LOL! At least Toulouse is a bit more straightforward, lol!

About the sign, mmh, good idea! :D I should stitch myself one of these and put it on the door... People who think dogs (and kids) should be quiet little objects you can just leave in a corner of the room really annoy me. I expect my dad's first comment... he'll want us to keep the dogs downstairs during the whole Xmas reception if we bring them along. But they'll keep barking the WHOLE night, not to mention scratching the door. They'll hear all those people chatting upstairs, they'll want to join the party! Heck, my husband was all worried sick when we had that big Halloween party on November 1st. There would be small children and he was worried that tiny fingers might be accidentally snapped if the dogs tried to steal food. The dogs AMAZED me! Really! They lied down under the tables for most of the party, or played with the little kids in the living room... most of the time I wondered where they were! Okay, when we have smaller dinners, with 2-4 guests, they tend to bother them a little at the table to beg for food. But if you don't look at them or talk to them, it takes minutes and they're sleeping under the table. If my family could just understand that, it would make a huge difference. Instead, my father will look at my dog and repeat, "get away... no! away! you're bothering me!" and bla bla bla... kudos to you dad, two rewards! attention and more attention! Ah, anyway...
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