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yipeeee Angie

I did not realise that you had started the ball rolling already - just thought ti was all still is discussion stage - love the scrapbook idea - really touching :lol:

Is it not such a long process to adopt in USA - in UK i think it takes ages - and can't even strat process within 6 months of failed IVF :roll: so pleased that you and DH have a plan in place and are moving forward with it -- do you have preference on age or does that limit choice/opportunity more - I know over here 0 there is long wait for babies but much shortre if willing to take an older child :D

I love the spring too - favourite part of the year - just love the daffodils in the garden so bright and cheery - I even had daffodils in my wedding bouqet ... roll on the warmer weather - not that it is ever that warm over here !!

Catch you later xx
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ooooo just noticed 12 more posts and will be a valued thingmy jig like our Queen Becks :lol: :lol:
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Morning ladies!

Hi Becky! :D:D Great to have news! Looks like you're really getting along with your doctor and it's such a precious thing! Having a plan must feel so good, I know it always put a new spring in my step! Keeping everything crossed for you girlie!

Carolyn,
Hi there sweetie! Yup, giving hubby lots of TLC, but with the meds he's okay. Nothing exciting planned; it's snowing and it's windy, so it looks like we'll stay home and just do quiet stuff. Have a few phone calls to make, edit a friend's web site, might work on my recipe book... DH started to clean his area of the office FINALLY, so I hope he works on it a little! :D What about you, what kind of week have you planned? And how is DH, is his neck better?

Angie,
AWWWWWWW that scrapbook is such a great idea! Your adoption advisor must have LOVED it! :D Wow, things are rolling again, definitely, you must be so excited! I can't wait to hear about the class!!! How was your weekend sweetie? To answer your question, DH will be off until Friday. I, too, am longing for spring... THe birds, the flowers... and that very special smell, wet soil, when the snow is melting and the soil is being warmed by the sun...

Take care ladies!

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Angie, how exciting, glad you are finding the adoption scrapbook fun, the children love them gives them a sense of who is going to be their mummy and daddy!! Is the one you are doing just for the birth parent or will your children get to see it too or do you have to do a different thing for them/him/her??? March is not far away just round the corner and summer will be here before you know it!!!

Hi Becky, glad you have a plan in place, your lovely ladies here have welcomed me with open arms, its so nice to be part of such a fabulous thread!!!

Carolyn are you fully recovered from your week last week??

Thinking of you Miracle and your friend....

Sophie hope DH is recovering now he is resting, hope your friend is doing ok......

Going to cool down my work now, have been rushing around like a madwoman the last couple of weeks, so time to chill now for the next 4 weeks and get myself in tip top condition for my little embryos. Go back on 5th March for next scan. No more children for me for a few weeks other than my girly and our little one I have for daycare on a thursday, won't know what to do with myself!!! I am sure I will find something to keep me occupied............?

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done enough work now for one day :lol: - not quite finished accounts but they give us 2 days to do it anyway !!!

Lee - yeh - so glad you are going to take time out and chill before you become PUPO only 15 more sleeps :D :D when is the next scan ?

Sophie - poor DH - hope you are giving him lots of TLC :lol: Is your recipe book one you are going to get published or just for you as a record of what you love to cook ??

Mir - thinking of you hon - hope you had a peaceful weekend with your friend and that she is showing some signs of improvement - hugs honey ((()))

Ang - thought you could play out today ????

Becky - the weekend is only 2 days out of 7 if you are good the other 5 you should be going in the right direction weight wise - step aay from the biscuit tin :lol: :lol:

Angel - hugs honey ((()))

Nothing else much to report this end .. off to gym in a bit and then got to do some domestic duties later :roll: :roll:

but will be back !!
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Lee - was just reading in the paper that Robbie Williams is now living in your neck of the woods and frequenting the local casino in Swindon .. I can feel a night out at the casino on the way .. I just think heis gorgeous - well apart froma ll the tatoos now .. I would not say no to him :wink: :wink:
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Hi everyone!

I am reading, I promise. :D I have been so busy at work and I think oh, I will post at home and between school and the regular house hold stuff I am just running around with my head cut off!!! :lol:

School is going great. Thank you all for asking. Thank you for keeping my friend in your prayers and asking about her all the time. Really, you guys are the best.

She is doing ok. She is still having brain spasms. Once those subside, we will be on our way. It is so heartbreaking.

I will do personnels later, I promise!!!
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i feel like such a jack-a$$....here i go 'blabbing' about how i'll be able to come out and play (yesterday) and then NOTHIN!!!!! can you say LOSER??!!!!!!! geeeesh!! afraid more of the same today.... our company is announcing annual earnings w/ big to-do for stakeholders and we've been looped into assiting w/ preparations for that (tomorrow).... if it's not one thing it's another!!!!! :?

carolyn --- ooooooooo, so close to the valued-thing-a-ma-bob!!!!! so does that mean you'll attain "queen status" at that time????? (we can make up the rules as we go -- yes??) adoption in US.... don't think there are any "laws" in place surrounding timing of how quickly you can move forward w/ adoption in connection to IVF.....think each agency operates on their own guidelines....and the agency i'm working with is "catholic social services" -- an AGE old organization.....they place ONLY INFANTS..... is arranged in a way that dh and i bring baby home directly from hospital.....which was def one of the things that attracted me to their organization -- is absolutely as close to the process as you can get!!! looked into many other and just didn't suit us.....they place approx 10 infants a year (which - doesn't sound like many to me!!!) HOWEVER -- at any given time, they have only 10'ish families on the waiting list...saying avg wait time is 12 mo's.....yes we CAN choose male/female -- but i'm thinking if i were the one actually getting preg -- i wouldn't be able to simply check a box -- so why would i now??? everybody feels differently about this topic in particular and i totally respect how each person handles --- and i would LOOOOOOVVVVVEEEEEEE to have a little girl -- considering that i already have dss's......which would also mean, dh would have "daddy's little girl" :wink: but on the flip side of that --- i know boys.....i'm good at boys.........so i'd be thrilled with either!!!

mir --- our little book worm!!! good to see ya hun......

lee --- yes, good for you taking a break for next few weeks --- you're going to need it once you're PUPO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :wink:

soph -- must be busy tending to that dh of yours eh?? kidding of course -- i would imagine that you've cont'd to go to work, leaving dh to fend for himself.....

all my other lovelies --- HELLO!!!!!!!!! LOVE & HUGS TO ALL!!!!!

MUST GO..............
:-) Angie
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evening ladies - thought would have time to skive and post today but been working real hard - oh and went for my haircut :lol: :lol:

Mir - Hi hon - i know things are difficult for you at moment with lots on your plate - thinking of you though and your dear friend xxx

Ang - you will soon too be a valued thingmy jig :lol: wow that adoption society sounds the tops - is it 12 months from registering or 12 months from completing course work etc ?? so hope it all works out in the quickest timescale possible .. when do you plan to discuss with DSS ??
Too much work :twisted: :twisted:

Sophie - hugs honey - hope all is ok with you and Dh is getting better by the day xx

Becky - come back and then desert us again - i will soon have your status too as valued thingmy jig :lol: - hope all ok xx

lee - what you been up to - taking it so easy you been ignoring your cyber friends ????? :cry: :cry:

angel - thinking of you - you know where we are when your ready xxx

had mad day emailing back and forth with clinic - got all confused with what should be tking when .. anyway all sorted now - just got to somehow get prescription thats in chezc done over here - time to call in a few favours!!!! also want me to take 100mg of baby asprin a day - not sure what thats all about - but if needed - whatever !!!

busy day at work tomorrow after accupuncture so won't be around until late pm

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carolyn --- you have only 3 more posts!!!!! OMG!!! to be THAT close and not just 'cheat' (you remember - like mir does on occassion :wink: ) and do individual posts to all..........sure thing tomorrow!!! OK -- so, you're having all of your IVF stuff done in prague.....and prague is in czech republic -- yes?? and where exactly do you live?? (well -- not really EXACTLY).......was just looking at a map trying to figure out the geography of it all --- trying to put it all into perspective..... how long of a flight from you to prague??? you've probably said a hundred times -- but how old are you anyway??? i'm 35........(not like you asked -- or care!!) ha!! so ya got a new hair do eh?? is it one of those where when dh gets home he'll want a little BCABB??? :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:

oh yes and to answer your questions about the adoption stuff.... the 12 months is nothing more than "in general - from the time you are on the list".....elly (adoption consultant) has "warned" us that from the moment we are put on the list there is a CHANCE that we'd get a phone call within a week!!!! :shock: the way they do it at this agency is not strictly based on seniority of the list -- as everybody has different "child wish lists" (i.e. - boy, girl, race, special needs, no drugs while in utero, etc) and based on those lists the agency "presents" the scrapbooks (as prepared by each family on the list) that best match to current bfp mummy for her to take a look-see and SHE chooses from those books!!!! (and a hundred other questions we've filled out....likes/dislikes/parenting style/discipline issues/and on and on and on!!!!!) will plan to discuss w/ dss's probably just prior to having elly come to house for our in-home visit (with any luck at all -- first of april).....
:-) Angie
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Hi Ang - to answer your million question interrogation ....

1. yes Prague in Czech republic - 1.5 hour flight from UK
2. I live in UK 60 miles north of London ... you know that big city called our capital :roll: :roll:
3. I was 40 last November :o
4. DH away so no BACCAB action ... and still got blasted AF with being on BC it seems to be lasting forever not that AF ever stops you :wink: :wink:

think that was end of interrogation :roll:

The adoption process in US sounds so good - do you have to pay to adopt too ? OMG forst visit 1st April thats only like 5 weeks away ... yipee sooo excited that its all coming together for you and DH :D

OOOO 2 more posts to go !!!!
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Just feeling bit sentimental ladies .... this is my 1000th post - when I registere, way back in July 2007 - I would never have believed the support and help that these boards have provided or that i would have 2 failed cycles behind me and now on the journey for number 3 with an ED and abroad at that :lol: :lol:

Just wanted to say a huge thanks to evryone for all there support through the good and bad days .. we have all had them and hoping that over the coming months we will all get the answers to our dreams :D :D

Thanks my lovelies .. love ya all xxx
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awwwwww ---- now ya got me all teared up carolyn!! (in a good way).... CONGRATULATIONS ON THIS MILESTONE OF 1000 POSTS!!!!! i'll cheers to the bit about good times and bad times.....

sorry for the interrogation :oops: .....didn't mean for it to sound like that -- just all of a sudden trying to put more pieces together and was curious!!!

gonna be another busy one for me today (what's new lately eh??? WTF???!!!!!!!!!!!) but a big hello to all!!!

LOVE & HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Morning ladies,

Whew, things have been busy. That's what happens when you have Monday off. I couldn't even place one phone call yesterday. There are a few things I want to do before I leave, I have to write reports on the research projects I have going on, plus make a few modifications on a presentation I'll give on the 18th, I want to look around for a few research questions for next year, and I have a team of programmers who are doing virtual environments for me, so I have to supervise that progress too. But to be honest, I prefer busy days. It's fun to just surf the net all day, but it gets really boring after a while and one's motivation goes way down as a result.

Carolyn,
Hi dearest! :) Glad you were able to figure out your prescriptions... wow, I didn't know they wrote your prescriptions in czech???? Couldn't they write it in English, knowing that you'd buy them in your country? The baby aspirin is good sweetie. It will help maintain a good blood flow in your uterus; my doc kept me on baby aspirin from the FET cycle to week 8 of my pregnancy. It's part of many standard FET and IVF protocols now. Congrats on your new status! :lol: Gee, we'll have to call you ma'am from now on! ;)

Oh, and you asked about my cookbook. Well, while convalescing after my last big surgery last June, I decided to group my favorite recipes in a book. Found a super place online called Lulu that lets you assemble your own books from a Word file (or something similar) and it will print your book with the binding of your choice, hard or soft cover, etc... like a real book! And it's cheap too! So when I found that, the idea evolved... I watched the food network a LOT during that time (and, yes, I LOVE Jamie Oliver and Nigella!) and so I decided I'd browse through all my favorite chefs' recipes on the food network websites and build a cookbook like that. well, it turns out it was quite an undertaking; one of my favorite chefs, Michael Smith, published over 500 recipes! I want the book to look really pretty since it's going to be printed as a real book, so I took a while to figure out the right margins, etc, with the website, and I take the time to translate every recipe, copy the photos if there are some, and arrange everything so it fits nicely... plus I keep track of the recipes with a table of contents, I'll do a glossary too, later. I can browse quite quickly in some cases when the recipes are not adaptable to a vegetarian diet, but some are and it takes a while. So even if it's work, it will be really worth it. There are already several recipes I couldn,t live without, such as Rachel Ray's eggplant and chickpea curry with lemon basmati rice, Bob Blumer's peanut sauce or roasted beets salad with hazelnut served on endives or pasta fresca sauce, Michael's Smith bacon chili with cornbread, Laura Calder's pan bagnat... the list can go on and on... ;) I also spent quite a while finding nice pictures for the cover and back cover, and for the different "chapters" of the book (viva Google images!). Some family members will be interested to buy the book once it's finished (not for profit of course, it would be illegal!), so I keep that in mind too when I spend extra time making the book look nice. And, you know... it will be a nice gift, and it will make MY life less complicated when some of them complain it's difficult to find a recipe that fits my dietary limitations (IBS...)

sorry... wrote a novel... I love food... :oops:

Lee,
So, how's your week? Are you recuperating a little? ;) Yeah, I'm sure we can find lots of things to keep you occupied! Didn't you have a project on ice somewhere, something about nursing if I'm not mistaken?

Miracle,
Thanks for popping by, it's so great to know you're doing well! *HUGS* Thinking of you and your friend baby, and we hope to have you back and beaming soon! :D

Angie,
Hey girlie! :D WOW, that adoption agency sounds really exciting!!! I mean, adopting right from the hospital, how ideal!!!! Ooooh I'm getting all giddy and excited for you sweetie, I hope it works real fast! :D By all means, keep us posted! LOL don,t feel too sad for DH, he manages very well! He could have gone back to work on Monday, it's just that being a chemist, he wants to lower his meds before he starts playing with explosive chemicals and expensive machines again! ;) Gee, he's quite a hero; the dishes are done every day! I'm just glad that he can spend some time around the house with the dogs, stain and varnish a few baseboards in the basement, watch movies... he deserved the break, and the break is pain-free so he's okay! :D

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By the way ladies, huge victory! Remember my husband's frustrating criterion for choosing a name? Well, he looked on the internet for names during his time off, and as of this morning, our list is now FOUR names long! I wanted to share this with you because you're so special to me... but we won't share with family members just to avoid being influenced by their comments, good or bad.

Jeremy
Richard
Victor
Thomas

Victor is a personal victory of mine... DH's grandpa was named Victor, and one of his uncles too. Because of the "I've known someone with that name" rule, he kept rejecting it. But when I told him, ya know, not a bad thing, keeping that lovely name running in the family, plus you never speak to that uncle, you've never been close (his dad has 10 siblings)... he changed his mind! So far, we don't want to choose a favorite, it will all depend on what we feel when the baby is born. The most iffy name for me is Richard; LOVE the name, very virile and masculine... just not quite a good fit for a toddler! Can you imagine little Richard sitting on the potty, looking at me like "I have NO idea what you want me to do here???" :lol:
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Okay, so take care ladies, and have a good day!

Sophie xxox
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PMApsy wrote:The most iffy name for me is Richard; LOVE the name, very virile and masculine... just not quite a good fit for a toddler! Can you imagine little Richard sitting on the potty, looking at me like "I have NO idea what you want me to do here???" :lol: Sophie xxox
you could call him little "dick"!!! ha, ha, ha, ha!!! :P i just crack myself up!! (do you guys do that over/up there -- with the name richard?? somehow over the years has evolved into DICK --- seriously --- WTF???!!! :roll: )

not that you asked for my vote -- but i still really like jeremy..... :wink:
:-) Angie
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