Just to let u know ... its a BFN for me after 4 attempts and a total of 8 embryos ... we still couldnt manage it
Im done now .... we are giving up the fight ... i cant do this no more. I wish u all the very best ladies, and i do hope and pray that u get your dreams come true ...
Xxxxxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Just to let u know ... its a BFN for me after 4 attempts and a total of 8 embryos ... we still couldnt manage it
Im done now .... we are giving up the fight ... i cant do this no more. I wish u all the very best ladies, and i do hope and pray that u get your dreams come true ...
Xxxxxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
i'm so so sorry, i was really hoping this would be it for you. i can't say much that will help apart from you're a truly amazing woman that has helped many women on here (including me on many, many occasions) and you deserve to be happy. you're a star. and please keep in touch on facebook.
lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2nd IVF/ICSI - baby girl Elliana born 21.4.08 weighing 7lb 6.5ounces; 7 frosties left...
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Congrats Carolyn! Bet it was a lovely shock for you both! x
Welshgirl38 - I'm so so sorry, I know what you must be feeling. I had a BFN at the end of July. The pain and heartache does get a little easier as the days/weeks go by.
I'm still waiting to go for our follow up appt from the clinic, see if they have any reason why this cycle didn't work! This is my last week off work Back to normality on Monday, but only for 2 weeks and then I'll be going on holiday for 2weeks so not all bad!
It was my b'day yesterday so had a nice BBQ/party on Saturday with friends and a nice family meal yesterday. Felt nice to chill out and enjoy a drink after 6 months of no drinking! Although me and DH have not missed the hangover the next day! haha
Thanks Shantala, and also for your message on facebook <hugs> xxx
Vicky: Thank you for ur message, i know it will get easier, its my 4th cycle, the fist 2 were BFN's too, the 3rd i got my BFP but there was no hb at my 8week scan, i m/c on new years day this year. We were praying that this 4th cycle wud work, had 3 embies put back, but it didnt happen. I know in time it gets easier, its just there are no more goes for me now ... this is it ... the end of my treatment and the end of my dreams ...
Life sucks!!!!
xxx
1 IVF=BFN 2 IVF=BFN 3 IVF=BFP m/c @ 8 wks 4 IVF=BFN
We must now let go of the life we had planned, to live the life waiting for us..
Becky i'm so sorry i was really hoping that this would be the 1 you are one amazing lady and without your help and support over the last couple of yrs many ladies would have given up but you have helped so many we are all lucky to have you in our lives please keep in touch through text or facebook has you are a great friend who's always been there for me sending lots of hugs from your cyber god children
lots of love and big hugs to you and brian x x x
after 8 yrs of trying 2failed ivf 1 m/c and 2 miracles
Thanks for keeping us posted; I've been thinking about you and wondering how things had turned out... I'm really sorry that this is the end for you guys and you didn't get your baby. I like the way you phrased things in your signature, it reassures me a lot about how you're doing and dealing with things; how beautiful! Make sure you take good care of yourself these next few weeks and months. I look at the time you joined, three long years of marathon, you don't recover from that in a matter of days, but each day feels a little lighter and easier.
Take care, you brave lady, and I send you and Brian lots of hugs,
Sophie xxox
1st and 2nd IVF = BFN 1st FET BFP! m/c at 7 weeks. 2nd FET BFP! 3rd FET BFN Now let's spend the rest of our lives having fun together!
I just saw your post on DE thread and thought would send you PM and then you had posted - spooky !!
Hows studying going - hope you are not working too hard ?? - is your friend still making a good recovery ?? and what about your gorgeous babies are they being good ??
I am feeling good - still adjusting to the shock of two - never in my wildest dreams did I think we would be this lucky !! - have had fairly easy time so far with no actual sickness but mega indigestion - my belly is starting to go from looking fat to a bit more rounded and won't be long before i can't hide it anymore !!
have you made any plans yet for treatment - is DH job still good ??
Think of you often hon - and do read nearly every day but most days too knackered to post !
Only a few more days until my follow up appt but my body has definitely took a battering these last few weeks - my periods are usually well after 35 days and now I've started another period just 23 days after my period from the failed cycle!!!
This hasn't happened before. I don't know whether to class it as an actual period because they did leave some small follicles when i had ER so I don't know whether it could be from that. TOtally messed with trying to determine when I'm ovulating though!! I will mention all this to the unit on Thurs and see what they say. Definitely feels like a period with stomach cramps, but no other symptoms! Just very strange cos it's not happened before - I've been that used to always waiting for a period!!
I know its been a while since your post , but I wanted to say I was sad to hear this had not worked for you this time, life can kick us in the teeth more than we can even imagine at times, I have not been around much since we finished with the IFV as like you have said before it can consume us this life of IVF, and I was feeling a little like that and needed to take a break away for a bit hense the reply to your post quite a while after you posted it.
You are one strong lady and I know loads of women on here ahve been helped by your words coz I read loads of them!!
You take care honey and maybe we will see each other around from time to time,
Love Lee xxx
Finally I am a mummy, we are about to adopt our beautiful little girl xxxxx
m/c @ 8 wks 
4 IVF=BFN
- my belly is starting to go from looking fat to a bit more rounded and won't be long before i can't hide it anymore !!
