Awaiting Treatment

[Sara30]

Carolyn!!!! TWINNIES!!!!!!! OMG my heart took an extra beat, sooooooooooooooo happy for you hun, and then read you are off camping this weekend too!!!!!

Like they say get it all over in one go how has DH taken the news? When is your next scan? will be looking in on you to see how things are,

Love Lee xxx

[Sara30]

Hi Mir

How are you doing?? Have not seen you much, hope things are all ok with you, are you back studying hard again??

Sophie, just replied to your other thread I cannot believe Jeremie is closer to six months than new born now time flies so fast, hope all is well with you.

Hi Vicky, so what have tyhey said at your follow up did you get any answers??

Angel, Hi hope all is well with you and your crazeeeeeeeeeee work schedule has calmed down a bit.

AFM well we have our first adoption meeting on the 9th September so will know a bit more then what will happen with the process for us, I am going backwards and forwards in my mind what to do though, do we have a different life to what we had planned and not adopt and look at things differently and have a child free life??? or do we adopt and have children in our life, are my foster children enough for me, do I still have that buning desire to be a mother when I am to so many anyway??? What if I can't love a child we adopted, what if they don't gel with us and us with them?? We cant just say sorry it didn't work go and find another mummy and daddy can we, god I have so many doubts in my mind I never had before so at this point not sure what we are going to do!!! Going to go though the process and see what happens

So if any of you have any good advice please post it my way!!! I guess I need to find some adopters and talk it over with them,

Well I am loving my job even though it is taking all my time which is one good thig coz when the doubts creep in I work, excellent solution!!!!! Sophie I need your words of wisdom, when you have a minute would be most gratefull!!!!!

Take care you guys, miss you all

Lee xxxx

[vicky1707]

Hi guys,

Sorry for the delay but me and DH have had such a busy weekend!

Our follow up appt went well in a way, I guess! The consultant said the unit were really confused and shocked this cycle didn't work (tell us about it!) he said the cycle couldn't have gone any better! Which makes it even worse why it didn't work! He said they couldn't see any reason why it didn't work, only thing he noticed was that my lining of the womb wasn't as thick as they'd have liked - it was 7cm. He said if we go through anyone cycle then they'd look into giving me drugs to make the lining thick and the drug he suggested would be Vigra!! I mentioned about me having a few days spotting/bleeding and he asked me if i'd done a HPT (yeah, cos we just loving doing them!!) so we said no, so they did a test, and it was negative. THe nurse said it's probably hormone imbalance and my body gettng back to normal. I haven't had anymore spotting so just waiting for period now.

We asked about going back onto Clomid seeing as DH's sperm count is normal now and they've given me a prescription. But me and DH have decided to take the rest of the months off until after Christmas, and see how things go. If nothing happens naturally then we'll try the Clomid after Christmas, but I really don't want anymore hormones in my body for a good few months. I wanna feel back to normal.

So we've decided to go on holiday and enjoy ourselves and just take things as they come until Christmas, and then go from there.

I think we need a break from everything being about babies and getting pregnant!

I feel the meeting went well, but just a bit concerned about the problem being the lining of the womb. Starting to think maybe I'll never be able to carry a baby? But I guess we can look into other things if it comes to that!

Me and DH are just concentrating on enjoying ourselves on holiday and spending time just me and him

[PMApsy]

Hey girlies!

Just popping in to say hi and tell you that I still think about you every day!!!

Lots of hugs,

Sophie

[Sara30]

Hey Vicky, sounds like you are in a good place, hope everything works out for you.

Sophie it was nice to see you, hope you are keeping well,

Carolyn how are you doing? Tell us how things are going for you,

Mir, Angel, where are you?? Miss you guys,

Did you see the new board?? I posted all ready!! It has come at just the right time as we are starting our adoption process on Wednesday!!

Has anyone heard from Angie?? I am thinking she was hoping for her adoption to be completed by the summer??

Becks Hi if you are reading hope all is good for you.

We have decided to plant a tree in the fertility forrest, it is a woodland in Kent, it is a symbol of what we have gone through over the years and will always go through now accepting our life will be different to what we expected and that there will never be any mini me's running around!! We can dedicate a tree and go help plant it, the money raised goes towards preserving woodlands and to a charity that helps women like us, who have had to live with infertility.

Ok I really need to do some work was all set to start at 8.00am and it is now 11.40 so see ya all later.

Lee xxxx

[wishfull27]

hiya everyone !!

Vicky - sounds like you now have a plan in place and a lovely holiday to look forward to !!

Lee - Good luck for meeting on wednesday and a thread created especially for you Not heard from Ang either - have you tried to PM her ??

Mir / Angel - hope your both ok and not working too hard xx

I am doing good annd out house extension is finally finished but am getting frustrated as cannot arrange it all as quickly as want to .. small price to pay - and my belly is now bigger than by boobs

take care xx

[wishfull27]

Lee - just wanted to say hope all went ok yesterday at adoption meeting xxx

Hi to everyone else - all seems very quiet on here at the moment !

xxx

[Miracle08]

Hi girls.

Lee:I hope your meeting went well and you get to bring home your child soon. Great idea with the tree planting...XXX

Carolyn: Great to hear your pregnancy is going well. Hope you continue to have a uneventful pregnancy. Take care youxxx

Havent heard from Angie in forever...dont know what happened to her.

Hope you are doing ok Angel...xxx

love to you all.

[wishfull27]

Mir - lovely to hear from you - whats new with you -s till working hard ??

mmm - strange about Angi - had a pM from her after last BFN in May but nothing since - hope she is ok xx

Angel - hope your not working too hard honey xx

lee - hope meeting went well - give us an update

Vicky - guess your sunning yourself in Majorca - soooo jealous !!!

Sophie - hugs to you and Jeremie - when do you go back to work ??

AFM - doing great - putting all the weight I lost back on but heho !!

xxx

[wishfull27]

come on girlies where is everyone - nearly a whole week and no posts \

[Sara30]

Heyyy you guys, how are you all??????????? This thread has completely collapsed, I sooooooooooooo enjoyed our chats, we don't have to talk about IVF all the time we can discuss other things if you like?????????

Not that I can talk I seem so busy these days I collapse into bed where I used to sit on here and talk to all my friends

CAROLYN how are you hunny???? Are you back from Hols Vicky??? Mir what have you been up to lately?? Sophie has Jeremie reached 6 months yet?????????? I forgot to read your ticker.

AFM We have the most adorable little 4 year old girlie staying with us for a few months to go with our adorable 14 year old girlie, I loveeeeeeeeeee girlies I can dress her all in pink!!!!!!! I usually have little boys so I am enjoying pink dresses and ribbons and neat little shoes instead of footballs grassy knees and TRAINERS!!!!!

Our adoption meeting went ok, have to wait now and feels like it will take FOREVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR but I guess it will take as long as it will take, I just have to be patient hmmmmmmmmmm not a good skill I have sadly!!

Oh well would love to hear what you have all been up to, come out to play wherever you are, misseeeee youuuuuuu

Lots a love Lee xxxxxxxx

[vicky1707]

Hi people!

Well back to reality for me now! booooooo We got back from our 2 week holiday in Majorca on Thursday. Out of the 2 weeks we had about 6 days/nights of rain!! But we still have a fab time. My parents came and joined us for the 2nd week so that was nice. We met loads of lovely people and are hoping to go back next June to meet up with them! Was very relaxing. Not often I'm sat reading my book on a sun lounger at 2pm on a Wednesday! haha

We were all inclusive so I think me and DH have prob put on half a stone! Ah well, we enjoyed ourselves in the process!

Nothing new on the baby front, well not for me and DH! My friends however have been very busy while we've been away! 3 of them all had baby girls while I was on holiday!!! I did enjoy shopping for them all at the weekend though I'm gonna have to be strong this week, going to see the babies on Wednesday and Thurs! I've still got 3 more close friends who are pregnant and they are all due in Jan/Feb!

We've still decided to avoid any sort of treatment until after xmas. I think we're gonna try the no alcohol and healthy lifestyle, as well as me taking Clomid for the 6 months and if that fails then we'll try a FET next year. But my body definitely needs a rest. I still haven't had a proper period since the treatment! I had my period after the failed cycle at the end of July and then I had a bit of spotting about 25 days later, but that's been it! I'm well 40plus from my proper period and 30something days since the spotting!! So annoying! So i'm just waiting for this period and then I can try and work out when I'm ovulating - although our consultant said not to use ovulation kits and just have regular sex at least 3 times a work (obviously DH is pleased! haha).

But i'm just taking each day as it comes - I've done enough worrying this year!!

Nothing much else exciting on my front!

Hope everyone is well x x x x

[wishfull27]

just wanted to high and let you know am thinking of you all ... where is everyone xxxx

[Miracle08]

Hi Carolyn!

I think of you lady's often as well. I pm'd you back love. Has anyone heard from Angel??

XXXXX

[wishfull27]

Hi Mir - great to hear from you got your PM xx - glad things are moving for you xx

No sent PM to Angel but not heard back !

Speak to Becky on facebook and she is doing good!

Not heard from Sophie in a while either!!

Vicky - how's you doing - any plans yet for next cycle ?

Lee - have emailed you honey - hope all is good and you are just working too hard !

take care

carolyn xx