Tired of this! Maybe next time will transfer 3 Embryos?

[wendy1969]

Hey, My FET failed and I have to do this all over again! I am soo tired of this process. I started trying to get pregnant at 35, and then we did the first IVF when I was 36, now I just turned 37...It takes too much time! I am thinking to do 3 next time? Do you have any advice? My egg quality is average for my age or maybe a bit above average but it's just not working. And I feel so frustrated. Any advice?

[LISA@BELLASALES]

Did they test you for Immune issues. I had 3 failed IVF's and then they gave me baby aspirin and I am pregnant, numbers don't look good but at least I got pregnant which is more than before.
Good Luck...

[patie]

Hi Wendy...i am sorry that the last cycle didnt work...i know its very hard...
I got my BFN couple of days ago....for my 5th cycle... which is beyond me and this time we transferred 5 grade A embies...

The thing is when its meant to happen it'll happen all we have to do is try until it works... it's a very bumpy and exhausting ride...but think of the potential outcome... a beautiful baby

Take a break now... pamper urself you do deserve it but don't give up! the ladies in this site are so supportive and great

I am sure you can do it!!! You go girl...
hugs

[CarolynB]

Hi Wendy

We put 3 back on ivf no. 2 given my age. You can only have 3 embies back in the UK if you are over 40 years old. All were good rather than excellent. No joy. I will have 3 back again this time too. I feel like I am running out of time so that is why we will do it. I guess everyone needs to make their own decisions.

My current clinic does not test for immune issues. As Lisa says, if we fail this time, I want those tests done so we will move clinic so we can have them done. Seems that all goes well for me until we get to implantation but may be my eggs are just not good enough?

Very best of luck for your next tmt. It is a hard journey for us ladies but we will get there.

Take good care.
Carolyn xxx