sorry, negative

Alison · Post by **Alison** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 3:57 pm

Hi girls, sorry to start the week with some bad news but just spoken to the clinic and they told me it was a negative, so clearly it was just wishful thinking when I thought I had implantation bleeding last week. In a bizarre way I'm relieved - I was convinced that, as has happened twice before, it would be a low positive, meaning carrying on with medication etc. for a few days and more blood tests, but knowing it wouldn't really work. At least I know where I am (are you impressed by my positive thinking?!) I'm not sure where we go from here (apart from on holiday which is now my top priority!) I will though be checking up on the JCBs - now let's have lots of positives! Thanks for all your support and good wishes Alison x

july ann · Post by **july ann** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:02 pm

hi alision so sorry to hear your new's. I have been thinking off you all day. You sound so positive well done. Go and book you and dh a really good holiday and have really good time.This ivf is so bloody hard.... hope the site get's up soon as i'm sure all the other jcb's will want to speak yo you. all the best july ann

Becky28 · Post by **Becky28** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:15 pm

Hi Alison, Really sorry to hear it was negative. You sound very strong - although I'm sure you'll need some time to grieve for your loss - and I think planning a great holiday is a good move. This stuff takes over our lives in a way I never really imagined! Take care of yourself, and let us know where you're off to when it's booked. Thinking of you, Beck x

fiona_lk · Post by **fiona_lk** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:22 pm

Oh Alison, You'll know I'm gutted for you, so I won't dwell on that too much. Sounds like a damn good idea to get a holiday booked and take a break from it all. I know what you mean about knowing where you stand - after my rollercoaster few months (which I know you don't need me to repeat) I kept thinking a negative isn't the worst thing. However, I'm absolutely 100% totally and utterly convinced you will get your dream one day - in one way or another, and that PMA will carry you there - and I'll top it up any time you want sweetie

. Keep in touch and lots of cyber hugs heading your way until the next time we speak (or e-mail) Lots and lots of love Fiona xxxxx

kathryn · Post by **kathryn** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:23 pm

Im so sorry for you alison, youve been on my mind all day. youre sounding very brave with your positive thinking ,but Im sure you must be feeling awful. I hope you and dh have a wonderful holiday and give each other some much needed tlc and quality time together. we are all thinking of you and you know we are all here for you too. lots of love and take care of yourselves kathyrn x

Lorraine · Post by **Lorraine** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:39 pm

Oh Alison I am so very sorry to hear the bad news. You have been on my mind - and you will remain in my prayers. The holiday sounds like a good idea. As for where you go from here - I've given up trying to make decisions for the time being - so I suggest you just try "free wheeling" for a while too! Give yourself time to recover. Big hugs to you both. Love from Lorraine xxxxx

Susi · Post by **Susi** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:50 pm

Dear Alison So sorry to hear your news. You're sounding amazingly positive, good on you ! Have a wonderful holiday and both come back well. S

Grace · Post by **Grace** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:53 pm

Alison Like all the other girls I have been thinking of you all day. I am so very sorry, it just seems so very unfair. There is nothing else to add really except for you to know how much we all care and understand. Love to you and DH Gracexxx

luce · Post by **luce** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 4:57 pm

Alison Really sorry to hear your news - however, am amazed by your positive attitude, it's brilliant. Hope you have a great holiday, wherever you decide to go, and that you and your dh give each other some well earned tlc. Am interested to hear what Mr T comes up with if you decide to go again. I guess you and I are not helping their stats at all! Good luck Luce xxxxxx

Dawn Blake · Post by **Dawn Blake** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 5:44 pm

Alison I truly don't know what to say, I am so very sorry to hear you bad news, have been logging on all day and refreshing every half an hour to see you posting. You sound incredibly together, are you? The holiday idea is excellent, and just what you and DH need (big hugs to both of you), lots of sun, sand and shed-loads of alcohol, be a couple again and then you can decide what you want to do next. Thank you so so much for recomending Dr Zhu to me too, you really have been a real `buddy', and if I can be there for you at any time please email me - I am only 30 minutes away! Take care and thinking of you, D x

Lucy · Post by **Lucy** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 5:48 pm

Hi Alison Just to say I am thinking of you - IVF is such a Sh-tty thing to have to go through but do you do come out the otherside one way or another. I am still lurking around if you need any surport from a person that is all IVF better now!! Lucyx

Kat · Post by **Kat** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 5:51 pm

Hi Alison, I am sorry to hear your news, you sound like you're feeling OK but you take it easy and have a good rest and enjoy your holiday planning. Lots of love, Kat xx

jo mortimer · Post by **jo mortimer** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 6:48 pm

Hi Alison Sorry to read about your bad news, you do sound positive and IVF is such a stressful thing. Hope you book somewhere really nice for your hols and truly de-stress. All my love Jo

Clara 1 · Post by **Clara 1** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 7:29 pm

Hi Alison So so sorry to hear your news. This is all so unfair. I hope you and your DH have a very relaxing holiday - pampering yourselves and doing lots of nice things together and relaxing properly. Take care, Love, Claire x

jen · Post by **jen** » Mon Jul 28, 2003 8:10 pm

Hi Alison I really thought it had worked for you - so sorry that it hasn't. It's so horrible to go through but you're dead right with the holiday plan. We have to be able to comfort ourselves and I hope you get to go someplace gorgeous to chill out. Did I read a post that you're at ARGC too? You've got a great attitude, look after yourselves. Lots of love Jen xx

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