It's hard to take a breath sometimes!
I can relate...my husband is waxing over wanting more babies...
I am in my 40s, he is older...and I JUST had twins 8 weeks ago.
Hello...
gimme a break...
oh, and we got married last June (after 9 yrs together! Now 10!)
Talk about deadlining things...
I don't know how old you are...but if you are in your 30s and can give yourself more time, even a few more months

, do it! You deserve to enjoy what you have done...
g'luck