MC and frozen et

[Annie]

Hello all,<br>Im not sure where to post or whether to at all but I was wondering if their are any others like me out there. Ive just mc'd at 5wks and 4 days after a frozen et. Two months ago exactly the same thing happened and we lapped up the "its a fairly common one off occurence" type advice. So with v little time to recover from the shock of another positive just after our first mc we are now reeling from the second mc. Ive never had a fresh cycle as I was overstimmed and the 14 embryos we made have been put back in 4 frozen batches ( well the best two out of each batch unfrozen). The first two goes where negative and this last mc was the last batch. I was wondering if many people have had more than one early MC with froz et?? Im very down but Im not beaten yet<br>thanks Annie

[kathryn]

hi annie,<br>you at the right place to post, theres always someone on here who has some advice!<br>Im not in the same boat as you, however Im just about to have a fet following a m/c froma fresh cycle. As Ive m/c before (without ivf) the dr has said if this ends in m/c or even a negative,he will send us to st marys in london for testing.<br>Im so sorry that you have lost you r little one again, it takes so much out of you, physically and mentally. <br>Im no expert, but they do say, once your frosties have thawed, there should be no difference to that of a fresh embie. Im not sure if that can be true, but I would be very interested, like you, to know of others experience.<br><br>I wish you all the best for the future annie,<br>we will get there eventually!<br>lots of love <br>kathryn<br>x

[Annie]

Hi Kathryn,<br>Thanks for your message it really helps to know that im not alone in dealing with this particular combination of probs, I was starting to feel a little isolated/ sorry for myself (all the ivf info really focusses on the +ve test as the finishing post and lots of the mc info trys to boost people by reminding them how rarely it happens twice and how healing it is when you next concieve)<br>All the good luck in the world for your upcoming frozen FET <br>thanks again and im convinced also that its only a matter of time and stamina before we get what we want<br>love Annie <br><br>