First timer...just got first BFN
First timer...just got first BFN
I am really bummed that I just got my first negative beta. This was our first try. I expected all to go well. I am the surrogate and I have had fine conception and pregnancy up until this point. i am very discouraged. We froze 17 embryos and we will be trying a FET next. I hear those are not as successful. I do not know what went wrong. I did everything that I could to help pregnancy. I would love to hear some success stories for 2nd trys.
I am really, really sorry. I am sure you did everything you could to ensure a success. But really, there is not a great deal we can do that makes much of an impact.
I hope your upcoming FET goes really well.
GL
I hope your upcoming FET goes really well.
GL
Samara
m/c @ six weeks
IVF#1 - BFN
FET#1 - BFN
IVF#2 - Chem
Fet#2,3,4 - BFN
IVF#3 - BFP - m/c @ 8 weeks
IVF#4 - 16dpo beta = 280. Two Heartbeats - Apple & Orange.
9weeks+6days - found 1 hb on home doppler 180 bpm.
m/c @ six weeks
IVF#1 - BFN
FET#1 - BFN
IVF#2 - Chem
Fet#2,3,4 - BFN
IVF#3 - BFP - m/c @ 8 weeks
IVF#4 - 16dpo beta = 280. Two Heartbeats - Apple & Orange.
9weeks+6days - found 1 hb on home doppler 180 bpm.
I'm so sorry, I'm sure you did everything you could, sometimes these things are out of our control.
I just wanted to offer some inspiration.....I'm 7 weeks pregnant after FET. The chances are slightly lower with most RE's but in some cases the success rates with FET are higher than in fresh cycles. Best of luck to you, what a wonderful thing you are doing!
I just wanted to offer some inspiration.....I'm 7 weeks pregnant after FET. The chances are slightly lower with most RE's but in some cases the success rates with FET are higher than in fresh cycles. Best of luck to you, what a wonderful thing you are doing!
FET April 18th
1st heartbeat 6w3d 115bpm, 9w2d hb 171bpm
MATTHEW ARRIVED DEC 19TH....8 lbs 9.7 OZ
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1st heartbeat 6w3d 115bpm, 9w2d hb 171bpm
MATTHEW ARRIVED DEC 19TH....8 lbs 9.7 OZ
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Hi So sorry for the BFN.
regarding FET's i have done three and got pregnant on all of them, a lot is down to the clinic and embryologists at how good they are. I foung the process a lot less stressful than a full cycle.
Good luck
Beach
regarding FET's i have done three and got pregnant on all of them, a lot is down to the clinic and embryologists at how good they are. I foung the process a lot less stressful than a full cycle.
Good luck
Beach
Me 39, DH 40. TTC 5years
4th times a charm,1-IVF, 3xFET's, 2 chemical
Twin boys born 9/7/08
4th times a charm,1-IVF, 3xFET's, 2 chemical
Twin boys born 9/7/08