Well, I got a negative. This was our last chance, so I guess there will be no more babies for me. It's very hard, but I find peace in knowing I have a beautiful, healthy son. I'll have on only child, but at least I HAVE a child. It's very hard knowing that I'll never be PG again, or have another baby. But I have to be thankful for what I DO have!
So sorry to hear your news. It is definitely hard to think of never being pregnant again or going through that wondeful time of being blessed with a sweet little baby- I am also going through my probable last FET and I think of that too... But you do have a very adorable little boy and you have a great attitude to be thankful for him! The no more shots and meds is definitely a nice bonus too! Take care and hug your dh and ds tight.
I can tell you my cousin's story. She failed at ivf 9 times and 4 miscarriages. she adopted at age 40...and of course was pregnant naturally at 41 with a healthy baby girl. Wasn't even trying and is still in shock at age 43.
You just never know what life holds out there for you..I'm just saying...never say never. God laughs when man plans.
Your son is absolutely beautiful. Praise God for him and what will come....
Gina
gigi
me 42dh 40
1st ivf july:bfp 8/7/06: dd born 6/07
miscarried natural pregnancy 6/08
next ivf 9/08; bfn
miscarried natural pregnancy 3/09
ED 8/09 (last attempt)
Hello:
I am so sorry to hear about your news. I know how frustrating it is when it doesn't work the second time. You just wonder, why not? You have every right to have a good cry! Pamper yourself and squeeze your adorable son and dh super tight. ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
Kim
Hey you have a wonderful son! thats a blessing in itself ...keep that in mind and stay UP UP for him was he a result of IVF too? I also have another question? why is this your "last" try? financial? (sorry if you explained this before, I just joined in). I just want to know cuz I too have my limits. There are many options out there as well...egg donation, IVM, sorrogate and technology gets better....
Anyway you have a great baby now and maybe oneday when you get past all the ngative thoughts and feelings a BFN really brings to all of us in general, youll have the next
It is great to know youy already have a lovely son, do not worry, you may even conceive naturally.
This was my first cycle and it came, negative, I don't have a child, so I can imagine how you feel, and I can also assure you that in your own case, there is still hope.
It's very hard, but I find peace in knowing I have a beautiful, healthy son. I'll have on only child, but at least I HAVE a child. It's very hard knowing that I'll never be PG again, or have another baby. But I have to be thankful for what I DO have!
was he a result of IVF too? I also have another question? why is this your "last" try? financial? (sorry if you explained this before, I just joined in). I just want to know cuz I too have my limits. There are many options out there as well...egg donation, IVM, sorrogate and technology gets better....