Hello Lesley<br><br>I'm thinking of you a lot today, as you are the last of us SCBs to test (unless you have tested early and don't want to admit it!) You will have seen Sue's sad news and the fact jackie (very naughtily) has tested early!<br><br>I hope everything goes ok tomorrow when you go for your blood test. How are you feeling?<br><br>Hope you are ok<br>love nikola.xxxx
Thanks for the messages but AF arrived this afternoon at work along with stomach pains.<br><br>Still have to go tomorrow for blood test but it's only to comfirm negative and to see how we are coping. It was only my first attempt so I knew the odds were against me but still hoped.<br><br>Anyway I'll write tomorrow with news.<br><br>Good luck with scan Nikola<br><br>Lesley<br>xxx
lesley<br>i was just going to post to you about tomorrow, when i read this, so sorry love, t does'nt matter whether it's 1st or 9th, when you get this far to get a negative it is heartbreaking.<br> i hope you and DH will be starting again soon as i will be keeping an eye for you too.<br>sorry again. take care love jackie xxx
Hi Lesley, <br><br>I hope you are ok, <br>I know how you feel, it was our first negative as well but it will get easier<br><br>I have my follow up appt tomorrow & am trying to stay positive, so many people on here get +ve 2nd or 3rd go so it will be our turn next, Im sure<br><br>Chin up, plan something nice for the weekend with your husband & take as much time as you need & then muster up some +ve vibes for next time<br><br>Take care<br>Sarah<br>xx
oh lesley<br><br>I'm sorry. I'm pleased you are still going for your blood test because it is possible to bleed and still be pg with the other embie. Look at Wibbs - she started bleeding and her scan showed that the other little monkey was hanging on!!<br><br>If it is bad news, you need to allow yourself time to get over the disppointment. As Jackie says, its doesn't matter which go it is, to have an unsuccessful tmt is always devastating. You'll still have lots of hormones floating around too which might make you feel a bit tearful. You should just go with the flow and hopefully if all being well, get yourself back 'on the horse' and have another go!<br><br>As Sarah says there are lots of people who get a +ve with their second attempt (I did!)<br><br>YOu take care honey.<br>love nikola.xxx